At redpill, most of us are aware that women are sexually pluralistic and every man is subject to the dual mating strategy fueled by a woman's hypergamy. With that said, I am advising those out there are engaged/married or in LTRs that if you and your Wife/GF have ever brought up the idea of having kids, whether it be just a casual conversation about kids in general, or actually having kids 'together,' you must be vigilant when the following comes up:
"I want to get pregnant now"
"Let's have a baby."
"What do you think about kids/want kids?"
(Or anything along these lines, especially If you both have been drinking)
Please note the suddenness or 'out of the blue' manner in which this may occur. Perhaps it's after a period if time when you were physically apart from each other (work/travel/etc.) Or there is sudden changes in her behavior coupled with tardiness or absenteeism.
The reason being is that many cases of such urge for pregnancy are actually due to an infidelity where the Wife/GF has already conceived. When she announces wanting to get pregnant or any of the above examples, tell her another 6 months of planning is required (for whatever reason). Monitor behavior closely for increased sense of urgency, or other manipulative behaviors in her attempt to get you hard set on the idea to avoid being discovered. The reason I aimed this post at those in LTRs is because unlike a plate, you are already in deep committment and are at greater risk for cuckoldry, and it is harder for her to hide things, hence the pressure to make things happen in her favor.
Also be aware that if you don't cave, she may have a sudden medical emergency or weird abscence in the near future. One can only assume she is making a discreet visit to planned parenthood for an abortion, or perhaps is testing out her nefarious methods on the real father, by of course, sucking and fucking him harder in the process to sway him into committment.
Proceed with a paternity test and lawyer if the worst is to follow, whether she fails with her strategy, or if you actually did comply with her wishes and blew a nut in her because you two actually had made plans for kids, but she took that opportunity to conduct sperm warfare.
Happening to a friend of mine at the moment. Learned about it last night, but the fucker is too blue to question it and won't take my advice. Don't be that guy.
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