Be her Darkest Sexual Chapter

nicethingyoucanthave · 2019-03-09T14:09:14+00:00

Consent is a real thing

And frankly, you should always turn up the kink meter until you reach the level where your girl makes you stop. Then turn it down so it's back to where she was comfortable and use that as the base level of your relationship. If you don't do that then guess what - you're boring. She's going to get bored with you.

Another way to say that is: if your girl hasn't told you "no" then you haven't gone far enough.

Women prefer a man that they have to reign in a bit. They want a man whose passion for them seems barely restrained. And it's makes them comfortable when they see that you respected their "no"

The main thing to keep in mind is that you have to leave room for the "no" to take place. What I mean is, you don't just start doing something new. You make it obvious you're about to do it so that she can say "no" if she wants to. With something like handcuffs for example, you don't just slap them on - surprise - that shit is terrifying. You show them to her. A lot of girls are going to say "no" and I don't blame them. I don't want to be handcuffed either! But some girls absolutely love it so that's why I have them. If she's into it, I'm game because I'm not boring, but if she's not that's totally cool.

Another example is initiating sex while she's asleep. If you just do that out of the blue - surprise! wake up! I'm fucking you already! - yeah enjoy your rape charge because you're an idiot. As males, we love the idea that our girl will wake us up with sex. But women aren't like us. So how do you obtain consent for this without sounding lame? I usually wait until I can make a joke about an alarm clock. So for example, we're sleeping together and one of our alarms go off. Now we're awake but snoozing, still lying together. I say, "next time, you don't need to set the alarm, I'll wake you up with sex." You might get your consent or your "no" right there. If she's vague just tell her you're serious, then you'll get your serious answer. Also, take that opportunity to tell her she needs to do the same to you because it is pretty great.

Finally, remember that this is just a role you're playing. It's like a lot of TRP advice - it's behavior that you emanate for the purpose of fostering attraction in your girl. It's not about pressuring her or getting her to do things she doesn't want to do. It's about figuring out what turns her on so because few women are able to articulate it.

And even those who do articulate it - maybe they give you a long list of stuff they're into - the real shit probably isn't on that list. A long time ago, I had a girl flat out tell me she wanted to be raped. So okay, fine, we had a safe word and I held her down and she screamed and cried and I thought the neighbors would call the cops. This goes on for a month, maybe less, then she leaves me. Why? I'll never know. This was way before TRP and I wasn't even trying to figure out what else she wanted me to do. I was just doing what she told me to do. But I was boring. Literally tearing her clothes off was still boring ...to her.

Years later I had a girl that was so vanilla, just saying the word "fuck" was dirty. We were getting ready to go somewhere and I put on a pair of gloves and walked over to her and (gently) grabbed her neck. She was gushing. It was hilarious how obviously turned on she was. So okay, fine, that became our one bedroom kink. I would prone-bone her with gloves on and grab her neck. We were together for four years and she never got bored, and (this was still me pre-TRP) I never really did much more than that.

So one girl tell me to turn it up to 10. I do. She still gets bored because she really wanted 11. Another girl tells me nothing. I accidentally discover 3 works. She is happy and satisfied.

It's just a role you're playing for the purpose of maintaining attraction.

FereallyRed · 2019-03-08T23:50:02+00:00

And thus the alpha widow is born...

DarkMountain666 · 2019-03-09T00:03:56+00:00

Yeah, although some girls are just too vanilla. I can sense it sometimes, that some girls are into some tough shit.

8380atgmaildotcom · 2019-03-09T02:14:22+00:00

I have them snap me using the daddy filter.

Also there's a reason why those hoes are still fucking R. Kelly

cuztrp · 2019-03-09T03:35:49+00:00

My ex fiance tells me, to this day, that her husband cant fuck her like I did. Not as raw, or passionate or as rough.

We haven't had sex in 18 years...and she still says this.

GayLubeOil · 2019-03-09T04:29:26+00:00

Delicious Tacos has an excellent post on this topic.

I think this is probably the only place where we can have a productive discussion on how the meaning of bondage has changed, due to fetish sex entering the overtone window.

Let's me start by establishing some context here. Rihanna's SnM video has been out for 8 years. Like I don't know how old you are or who's butts your whipping, but bro let me tell you that this whole thing has taken on a completely different meaning.

Maybe whipping a woman's butt was edgy in 1999 or whatever. But if your in a 2019 in a major Western city you are dealing with some desenitized women who ever lived, with strange postmodern demands.

How do you enjoy spitting in a woman's face if she explicitly asks for it before hand? Bro let's talk about that.

Also I think the only way to guarantee the Taboo sex your advocating in current year 2019, is to wear black face and fuck her while she reads Ann Frank's diary. Unless someone can think of something better...

2019-03-09T10:12:27+00:00

Yep, fuck her like you own her.

Looking forward to the sequel!

BusterVadge · 2019-03-09T00:25:01+00:00

Uncle Vasya delivering the good stuff, as always

I'm interested what you think about Karezza(sexual intercourse without orgasm), for those of us fully into NoFap?

Hjalmbere · 2019-03-09T05:56:35+00:00

This post is a Sam Kinison rip off. Two minutes in: https://youtu.be/eJDkhTiFWHU

Zech4riah · 2019-03-11T20:40:16+00:00

I'm too lazy motherfucker for this. Not sure if the ROI is worth it. I'm not into bondage or using toys. I prefer dominating in traditional way (spanking, choking and generally man handling).

BloodColdRed · 2019-03-18T23:49:15+00:00

Do you actually recommend reading My Secret Garden to get a better understanding of women's fantasies?

cobalt1728 · 2019-03-09T02:03:47+00:00

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Title	Be her Darkest Sexual Chapter
Author	VasiliyZaitzev
Upvotes	173
Comments	61
Date	March 8, 2019 10:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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