Cheating LTR with career connections. Plate or NEXT?

Redsqa · 2015-05-25T00:32:24+00:00

Be selfish. I'd say, profit from her. At this point your LTR is dead, and you know it. She cheated, fine, you don't seem to care about her or have oneitis. So you might as well treat her like a plate, and reap the benefits.

redpillcynic · 2015-05-25T07:26:32+00:00

She offered to help pay for my expenses by giving me $5000 worth of used college textbooks to sell and split 50/50. She also straight up gave me $200 cash to help get there. She also hooked me up with a photography gig for the Tony Awards at the red carpet where I'd make around $6000. I'm a college student in short of cash, and this is also a great opportunity career wise.

She's trying to hamster her cheating away. Take full advantage. As the other posters say, don't let it blow up in your face. Make her connections yours. That way when this inevitably goes south, you'll be able to keep those connections.

putsch80 · 2015-05-25T11:43:22+00:00

If you build your career off her connections, you run the risk that she can convince her connections to take it all away from you if you piss her off. This is just another variety of the advice, "don't shit where you eat."

DougieTheCaker · 2015-05-25T05:45:48+00:00

If you are going to use her the way you plan you must be prepared to do it at the expense of your ego. Do not use and 'abuse'. Use and manipulate. Use her as much as you can but when the time comes that all ties have to be cut, make her think it is her decision. Don't let your ego get in the way, even if you have to act like a bitch just to get rid of her it's much better than being a G and having her go haywire and hate your guts.

spacecowboyreturns · 2015-05-25T08:01:08+00:00

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OKJaded · 2015-05-25T17:21:10+00:00

Found condom wrapper in trash can, which she claims was her parents as they were visiting her for a week.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Unless they had her at 16 I don't think her mother is worried about getting pregnant again.

icanhazTRP · 2015-05-25T21:16:48+00:00

You are beginning your work life based upon connections made through a cheating LTR. The same way she can open doors for you now, she will be able to close them later. Even worse, pussy pass, poor me, he used me to get a job in NYC, blahblahblah.

Not worth the risk IMO.

nemaxofredpill · 2015-05-26T15:44:50+00:00

PLATE but only if you can control your emotions and focus on what you want from her. Only some men can do this. If you are asking this question then I would assume that you haven't reached this level. So, the correct answer would be to plate but in your case I believe you should just drop her.

QQ_L2P · 2015-05-25T03:09:47+00:00

Rule 40/48. Despise the free lunch.

Stay the fuck away from her and anything she offers to keep the relationship alive. It will come back to hurt you.

JeanValjean197o · 2015-05-25T03:46:19+00:00

Use her. She's using you after all.

Maintain your moral authority in the relationship and keep a close eye on her.

No one wants to be dumped. It's a powerful form of rejection and women are especially vulnerable to rejection. It's one reason why they don't initiate.

Get what you can from her. It'll be good practice. Look for another opportunity to catch her breaking the rules.

Also, bag it. If she's disloyal then you don't want to share whatever she might catch.

Soriq · 2015-05-25T00:24:38+00:00

Do what's best for you, reap whatever connections and benefits you can for your career and future

colombia40 · 2015-05-25T01:43:55+00:00

Be extremely cautious here. It may look promising now but could end up biting you.

I have a friend who used his woman's connections and secured a loan for his buisness with her. Now she is suing him for malpractice and trying to ruin him when the relationship didn't hold up

Someone I see her 'generosity' coming back to haunt you if you plan on cutting her out of her life.

Los_olvidados · 2015-05-25T10:20:05+00:00

Like others have said, USE HER.

But becareful how you do that, you want her to pursue you and want more and more of you. You will have to reward her somehow every now and then ( but everytime you do you ll have to make her wait more for the next reward). You have to betafy-her, kinda like women make us beta, if you could find a way for her to only love you and get all the sex and tingles from you, she´d make sure you get everything you want.

jdgalt · 2015-05-25T00:32:43+00:00

May as well take advantage of this rare example of Briffault's Law in reverse, for as long as it lasts (don't assume her word on it is good).

collidoscope · 2015-05-25T07:21:04+00:00

I think the biggest issue here is you aren't defining what you want out of the relationship. Are you short on cash and just want to score a few gigs from her? That's something that can help you achieve your financial goals. Do you not care she's a slut and you really just like sex with her? That's something that helps you achieve your sexual goals.

I think the problem with your approach is you're saying "I can just keep her around because of the possibilities". First off, I would define your own goals, then look at what she has to offer and determine if she fits into your plan or not.

I work in entertainment and know how important connections can be. There is no replacement. However, if you're keeping her around because you think you need her instead of what you can get from her for your own goals, then you're going to get used like that wrapper you found in the trash.

RedPillSailor · 2015-05-25T07:37:35+00:00

plate and next her. she's clearly not being on the level with you, she doesn't deserve too much from you. so plate and next her with a clear conscience.

juliusstreicher · 2015-05-25T11:37:51+00:00

You'd "reap the benefits of money, connections and sex before cutting her out of your life"... Uh, where's the question????

Stayinghereforreal · 2015-05-25T19:31:53+00:00

so it wasn't technically 100% cheating

Please.

Apparently, sex with third parties and indifference to honesty is on her menu of items to select from while in a relationship with you. It is, therefore, perfectly fair if you reciprocate such treatment.

Dump her soon, though. Unhealthy to hang out with people like her for long.

BowDown2Anthony · 2015-05-28T19:34:41+00:00

take the cash and jobs and peace out

Dr_Gabe_Lackman · 2015-05-25T05:02:22+00:00

I'd say it is unwise to use this girl, cheaters cheat not only in the bed room they play dirty in the rest of life, using her for any long term advantage in life is like building a foundation for your life atop a game of jenga already in progress, there is nothing more to build with her, only structural pieces to strip away, all men hate a close friendship between their woman and another man so when you do slip apart her new man will likely disparage you.

I'd say it's worth doing all the mean shit you wanted to do to her for some time that wont risk you jail time, some fun little spiteful acts if you so please but try to make as much short term and if possible long term value you can take that will remain independent from her. then confront her about cheating and break up.

You should be breaking everything down and cutting her off in 3 months, if she's that casual with some other guy she fucks I wouldn't expect her to intend to keep up appearances with you for too long.

Some small petty revenge, if you can put a really ugly glitter preferably a seasonal kind in unsealed envelopes taped to the bottom of furniture or other things of hers so that when she moves it goes everywhere, a small envelop in the passenger sunshade of her car would likely be undiscovered for years. Write "whore" and "cunt" on the envelopes if you feel like it.

Dr_Wally · 2015-05-25T14:04:59+00:00

Sorry to say this but you are beta AF. 1) If you need to 'set boundaries' in regards to going out, your position of being the ultimate catch is totally in question. 2) Staying with her just for her $ or 'connections' just shows you aren't capable of paving your own way. At this point she will constantly cheat on you, not make you her priority and never follow your lead. Your justification is just your Blue Hamster running wild to convince yourself that shes worth keeping. There should be no choice other than cutting her completely out of your life.

truewiselogic · 2015-05-26T04:29:30+00:00

Get your foot in the door, how bad would it be if you got there and shit hit the fan... Make a good/bad list and go from there

oldredder · 2015-05-25T00:49:41+00:00

leverage? Set up a new connection to fuck her, use it against him so he (don't tell my wife!) gives you a job, PLUS use it as leverage against her, to guilt her into getting even more connections?

Dunno. Normally I'm "just walk", so easy but... Machiavelli was a smart man.

trp_hamlet · 2015-05-25T03:30:54+00:00

Cash is awesome. Get paid, get laid, do not give a fuck.

Connections? You are planning to eat where you've already shat. Bail.

mrgogo1 · 2015-05-25T09:10:07+00:00

Its a trap.... Get out asap

Davidkpa · 2015-05-25T13:35:08+00:00

Chase the money. Know you won't fall for her again. Use her for pussy and cash, simple as that. Just be ready to move on when need be.

Title	Cheating LTR with career connections. Plate or NEXT?
Author	MintyPsychedelia
Upvotes	6
Comments	57
Date	May 25, 2015 12:12 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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