Coffee Date... Alpha Traits vs Beta Traits

abdada · 2017-02-11T18:03:45+00:00

If she has a boyfriend I just nod and keep doing what I'm doing. I've never responded to it.

adversaryroman · 2017-02-11T21:41:22+00:00

General consensus among a few guys I've talked to about the same subject seems to be disregard anything she says about another guy and stick to the plan. Show up guns blazing, every time.

Auvergnat · 2017-02-11T19:48:07+00:00

What you describe is people having Game or not. Has nothing to do with alpha/beta.

What's the best way to keep it cool and casual, yet make your intentions clear?

Keep it cool and casual. And escalate physically.

second scenario?

I'd go against the consensus here. I'd cancel & go find another girl who don't say something like you described.

If a girl has a BF but is attracted to you. She won't tell you (at least not that bluntly and clearly). A girl who says that to you is clearly not attracted to you and just trying to put you in orbit or use you for validation. You may want to fight that uphill battle but the odds are no good, and it'd be a fair move to save your time for an easier battle.

EDIT: interesting counterpoints in comments to this. Keep reading

Momentum2 · 2017-02-11T20:56:22+00:00

Putin sometimes will purposefully arrive late at meetings with foreign leaders. It sends the message that he isn't the one who needs this meeting. Be more like Putin.

chris_sydney · 2017-02-12T04:50:19+00:00

One major thing girls do is showing up late. I don't have time to be waiting for somebody. What I do is let them know beforehand that I won't tolerate them being late and just walk away after she is more than 5 minutes late.

I think it sets the right tone from the beginning.

OneWonder · 2017-02-12T08:43:30+00:00

How is there a separation of AF and BB because of timeliness? I get to a date when I get to a date. I think showing up early is a sign of neediness honestly. Either on time or 5 minutes late is better. Millenials are never on time these days anyway.

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-02-12T01:06:11+00:00

Why waste your time with low odds? Unless you're a major Chad, then you really don't have too much of a chance.

Adamn27 · 2017-02-11T23:36:36+00:00

Dismissing it playfully when it comes up

A little more shine on this please, if you can.

Scandinavianredpill · 2017-02-11T19:34:37+00:00

scenario 2. cancel, tell her to hit you up when she is ready to wrestle with a real man. put in a fuckboy blinking smile and wait for her to ovulate. then she will text you in the middle of the night or some shit and you make a quick meet and then you might fark her.

abbafishhead · 2017-02-12T11:48:38+00:00

Why are you asking her out on a coffee date instead of just asking her to come over to your place? Eventually you have to close and bring her to your place, so why not skip levels?

Fuck the coffee, okay? Screen her sexually by asking her over straight away. Don't be a pussy. And you get to save so much more money too, with the guarantee that you'll fuck her once she shows up.

You'll be surprised how many girls would say yes to it.

Title	Coffee Date... Alpha Traits vs Beta Traits
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Upvotes	14
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Date	February 11, 2017 5:55 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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