If there's anything I learned since becoming redpilled is that women will avoid responsibility and accountability in every situation, especially when it comes to relationships.

I have had a discussion with numerous women about the subject of "cuffing the woman". What is cuffing? It's when a man locks down one female, usually as a committed relationship. This typically is only an issue with LTRs or women who want to be promoted. She will ask the man if he is currently locking her down. She wants to know how committed he is. What it REALLY means however, is that she may be open to cheating or moving on.

I'll give an example: girlfriend wants to go to a party with some guy friends. She asks "hey are you ok with me going to this party with my male friends?" A: He says "no" She then goes on to explain how insecure he is for not trusting her. B: He says "yes" Now she asks "oh so you're not cuffing me?"

Whenever a woman asks this she is covertly placing responsibility for fidelity squarely on the man. I am firmly in the camp of "Watch what she does rather than listen to what she says". If she is determined to "make a mistake" she will. After she cheats she can then come back and hamster that you failed to lock her down.

Understand that the responsibility of the health of the relationship is on both parties not just the man. Do not allow a woman to use "cuff me" as a reason to play the field. Instead, use it to evaluate her commitment towards YOU. Hopefully you never hear her say this, but if you do be wary and suspicious but watch. Or if you know her well enough, next her.