I was on a second date with a blind date and it was at a bowling alley with an arcade and pool in all separate rooms. Date's main friend was clearly the one said date secretly hired to pull me from the group and ask me deeper questions the date wasn't up for asking. Questions spanning things from sex preferences to previous relationships. She wouldn't admit it but all this info was going to be reciprocated to my date afterwards, I already knew.

She asks how long my last relationship was.

Big test. I figured let me be honest and test what a girl's opinion would be of the truth. I said it lasted almost 4 years.

She went from playfully asking questions and throwing in a dirty joke here and there to keep the investigation of me light-hearted, to wide-eyed disappointment. I could hear the pins of a successful interrogation drop. Her opinion immediately shifted from "hey this guy is genuine as fuck, will match well with date" to "He's beta as fuck and isn't her type".

I realized her opinion immediately, it was so apparent in her body language and voice tone (aside from the wide eyes lol)

Then, in a tone of disappointment and growing resentment towards me, she asks "So why didn't it work out?"

I told her we were both very good friends who admitted to eachother we liked the other and decided to date. We decided we weren't compatible as dates so became friends again. (I left out the part that we still fuck like bunnies, heh)

Just like an orchestra, as we returned to the main group, she walks up to date to talk and the guys ask me to join them at the arcade.

It got seriously creepy how planned out all this shit was, their attitudes and shit they did, was the most sophisticated test I'd ever encountered in a date.

No less than five minutes after talking to friend who interrogated me, date was "feeling tired" and asked if we didn't mind "she went home for the night" mmmmhmmm... I've been dating longer than you have honey, I wasn't born yesterday. I was tempted to just head on home and hang out with my buddies that night and have real fun instead. Decided not to bitch out and stick it out to see how this silly shit played out.

We decided we would go to diner to grab a last minute bite before we parted ways as a group, she was completely alienated from me at this point and wouldn't even look me in the eyes.

TL;DR - Read it you lazy fuck, it becomes apparent that HB7 blind date arranges second date with her circle of close friends to orchestrate a sophisticated interrogation on me, interrogator finds out I'd been in a relationship almost 4 years and from this point on the entire night slides into gut wrenching awkwardness and disgust. Never saw the girl again, texted her few days later saying I'm not interested.

Any idea why it was the 4-year-relationship tidbit that put the nail in the coffin?

P.S. Trying to figure this date out online was how I found TRP, and I thank this community so much for showing me which door to open.

UPDATE:

Later that night after we part ways under the pretext that she is "tired", the minute I got home she texts me "Now I can't sleep" which is code word for "I want to talk to you about something but didn't have the guts/intelligence to talk to you face to face" I already knew what the convo was about but she shocked me with her little addition.

It went as expected... "I like you but..." blah blah. I show indifference and she turns it into "I would like to keep dating you but I think we should see other people" I figured let me ask her whether she says that for her interest in having sex with multiple people or just to take it slow between us, so I literally ask "Is that because you want to sleep around or because you want to take dating slow?" Figured I had nothing to lose since I was genuinely disinterested and knew all was lost at this point. She comes back with a stunning "Both."

i.e. "I want you to be my beta bux while I ride the carousel" Didn't expect her to be honest with me!