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Dinner Out

telnet_reddit_80

June 6, 2013
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Title Dinner Out
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Upvotes 61
Comments 25
Date June 6, 2013 4:03 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]veggie_girl14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't tolerate this behavior with my female friends, and none of you men should tolerate it either. If I'm out to lunch with them they have to put their fucking phones away and not answer unless it's business-related.

I know the type. I might be somewhat addicted to reddit, but I have nothing to do with Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Foursquare, or any of that bullshit.

Just ask them one simple question:

"Why the fuck do you want to work for XYZ Social Media company for free?"

Because that is exactly what you are doing. When you post on social networks, you are the product. Facebook is making money off of your writing. Twitter is profiting from your tweets. Pinterest.. well I don't really know how Pinterest makes money. It's free content creation, you are an employee tricked into thinking that you're getting a real service.

You know why they do it? Because they are insecure. Rather than having to be creative and come up with dialog that is actually interesting, they get their validation online and escape from the stress of the real world. It's similar to that feeling you get at a party where you don't know anyone but everyone else already knows eachother, you feel kind of awkard so it's easier to just jump on the phone or get stone-cold drunk. Well these kind of people feel it all the fucking time because they reverse-weaned themselves onto the validation titty of their smartphone-connected social networks.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Don't tolerate this behaviour. My friends all have girlfriends who will do this when hanging out with them. They end up playing shitty games on their phone like crackheads with no attention span. What is the point of seeing other people if you're going to click bubbles on your phone to pop them? Dafuq?

On that note, I think I'm going to write stupid games for phones.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

click bubbles... wow. A co-worker was telling me about his daughter and her friends who play a game where you are supposed to tap it 1 million times. Thats it. Just tap tap tap. And they all love it. I don't understand why people play shitty games when there are so many good ones out there. Serious market failure.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No, serious market to be tapped... No joke. Get developing, lol

People can't resist quick dopamine rewards.

[–]ProductivityMonster2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

People can't resist quick dopamine rewards.

Such as upvotes on Reddit?

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even upvotes on reddit. However, at least there's discussion here and information; just control what you're doing on reddit and the internet. Employ some metacognition if you're getting stuck in pointless loops.

[–]Pugilanthropist2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't knock tap tap. Tap tap got me laid.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you are joking right?

[–]ubercoolhipsterguy0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Market failure? No. Education failure. Sometimes I think americans are purposely being dumbed down...

[–]yankeetiger32 points33 points34 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

We have a simple solution for dealing with women like this. We don't date them.

[–]Modredpillschool35 points36 points37 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And that, folks, is how the MGTOW movement started.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Well you don't necessarily know they will be like this until you are already on the date. I think leykis recommended pretending like you were going to the bathroom and just walking out on them with no warning.

When they get pissy later, just say "Why don't you just set your phone on vibrate and date that?"

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

At the end of the day, it's a shit test. Just in different form.

It's pretty reasonable to believe that most betas she's been with just tolerate this behavior of hers. Why not respond to it like you would any other shit test, rather than walking away first?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right, mention it is inappropriate, if she doesn't fix the behavior then walk away. I should have been specific about that.

[–]Senior Contributorwhiskey_bearfist4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

ha! that really is a great line.

some of the girls i have been around get hit up constantly whether its texts, facebook updates, or various other wankery set up to autopush notify.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Leykis had several episodes about this topic. It is non-sense when a girl does that. Don't tolerate it. You are taking some of your valuable time to see her instead 1) seeing another girl 2) hanging out with friends 3) playing video games 4) taking care of some chores, etc. Doodling on her phone when she should be engaging with you is completely disrespectful of you and your time. Better to be done with her than waste your time.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Got a link?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

there are hundreds of videos on youtube. It would be a pain to find.

[–]Pugilanthropist2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do that one trick I saw on Reddit.

Both of you put your phones in the middle on the table, can't pick them up until the date's over.

[–]TRP Vanguardtheubercuber13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More women are like this every day. I'm trying to wean girls off of this shit. It's like meth to their developing brains.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

....we fuck them.

[–]yankeetiger0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

[–]Staple_Stable5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

God damn I hate bitches who make it a necessity to take a picture of food when they go out to restaurants.

[–]Falconalpaca 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to be a jerk, but this is a problem on both sides. I've had plenty of guy friends who will be on their phone the whole time when we hang out. I can admit to blowing a lot of stuff off playing video games.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is one behavior I'm currently training out of my g/f. She is glued to her phone so I make it very clear that phones go off the table throughout the date.

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