Do you want kids?

Zackwell · 2013-12-19T03:56:24+00:00

I have one son. He will be my only child for the foreseeable future. Unfortunately, his mother turned out to be a turboslut who chases married black men and fucks random people met on the internet unprotected in motel rooms on video. This realization killed my BP self and helped me find salvation here. As you can imagine, we're no longer together.

Why do you ask?

IllimitableMan · 2013-12-19T02:47:23+00:00

Do you want kids?

No, I want a son.

ilike2partyhowaboutu · 2013-12-19T05:46:45+00:00

Nope. Never. No thanks. I will do my best to make sure your kids are safe but I'm not having of of my own, nope.

vengefully_yours · 2013-12-19T07:40:30+00:00

Have kids, didn't want them, but love them more than anyone else. Its a long story about what their mother did to them and me, but its almost over after 12 years of being fucked by the state.

I got a vasctomy because I never want to allow anyone to have that much power over my life. I'm never getting married again, never telling a woman I love her, and will never allow myself to care about a female again. Two ex wives is enough, especially when they did the same thing but were so widely disparate it has to be how females are. Never again, I will eat a bullet before I marry again.

Demonspawn · 2013-12-19T02:53:37+00:00

Pretty much no, but I recognize that my mind might change as the years go by. That's why I've been waiting for RISUG for the past 15 years (I've donated money to VasalGel).

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-12-19T03:23:07+00:00

No lots of expense and even more risk.

Even if the money where a none issue I just have no interest in raising a human.

mollemash · 2013-12-19T03:58:43+00:00

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eberk87 · 2013-12-19T06:14:28+00:00

I want kids, but I don't want a wife.

IIHotelYorba · 2013-12-19T07:07:05+00:00

I'm not sure. I've been reading lots of things about fatherlessness and it's beginning to shape the way I feel about how kids should be raised, and therefore change how I would go about it.

On one hand, the way I feel about myself and whether I "deserve" to raise kids has completely changed. I also now feel highly confident in my ability to find a solid girl and manage that relationship.

fiat_lux_ · 2013-12-19T07:33:04+00:00

I like kids. No real desire to have my own yet.

I've volunteered at ghetto afterschool programs when I could, starting from college. I think I kick ass at raising grades, and am pretty confident I could raise kids of my own that would bring more into the world than they'd take away.

If I wanted kids now, my options would be:

settling down. Still would want to avoid marriage. I live in California and have trust issues.
adoption.
surrogacy.
cloning.
Go back to school, continue computer science education, get a PhD in artificial intelligence, spend the rest of my life on digital sentience.

It really depends on the situation, which can change drastically as technology improves over the years.

drrrrrr · 2013-12-19T07:36:24+00:00

I just read the top post on MRA about that dude going to jail because he can't pay his CS, and he is basically getting dicked over by his job... and he's been buying his son jackets and shit because the mother won't spend a dime of the CS money on anything useful to the kid.

I'd love to have kids some day. In a different place, in a different time.

culofiesta · 2013-12-19T08:50:36+00:00

Children was always a good litmus test when I was dating. Rather than lead women on through emotional attachment I would tell them I was just looking for "fun" or something nebulous or just say I was looking for a lover. I'd tell them right out that I don't want kids and, if I was seeing other women I'd tell them.

This all was after hearing women rant about liars and wishing men would just be upfront about sex.

I would say this to their face and a number of women would completely tune it out and bring it up repeatedly. When I'd repeat that I didn't want kids and would never have them they would tune it out again

Almost every woman would bring up the kid question and try to manipulate me into having kids. When I didn't change they would blow up and try to hamster it as a flaw of mine. By that time I had already moved on to someone else.

mollemash · 2013-12-19T05:14:29+00:00

Daughter due in March here. Find a spouse that doesn't suck and would be a good parent as well as being a good spouse. Pick your venues wisely as the club will likely not be the place to find one like that.

2013-12-19T05:21:56+00:00

Yeah...my own first and foremost. Not some washed up cock carousel groupie with theirs.

trpRX · 2013-12-19T10:58:36+00:00

I want children along with a good partner... cant seem to meet a good partner though, so until that happens, no kids..

_whistler · 2013-12-19T13:43:19+00:00

I want to have children some day. I want that kind of legacy. But so far, I've only come up with a couple ways this could happen in my current environment.

Cuckold some poor beta, impregnate his girl; pass on the genes, but have no say in how the children are brought up. Watch from afar as my genes are corrupted by the influence of substandard parents. Not a great option.
Commit to a woman - certainly not legally, but commitment nonetheless - and get my offspring by her. Raise the children within a stable family unit; this includes not only the immediate family of myself, 'wife', and children, but also extended family and social network, as well as a culture that would not have a strongly subversive influence over the children. Not a likely option.

So I'm still trying to figure out the details.

Archwinger · 2013-12-19T16:00:01+00:00

You don't need the "unicorn" to have a successful family. You just need a girl that can be managed. Not controlled, not trained, managed. In many ways, a family is a lot like a business unit, with income, expenditures, obligations and schedules, time set aside for training/education/improvement, time for breaks/recreation, etc. You're the manager, and you have to know the employees and how to make the best use of their strengths and work around their weaknesses. You can't do it all, so you have to have a wife who can run at least some of the things and handle issues. An entitled princess can't do this, nor can a super-submissive, ultra-feminine woman. You need someone with some strength and depth, someone with some value.

Being more heavily influenced by emotions than men, women really benefit from having a strong man as the rock and foundation of their family, and that means being a man that appropriately builds and maintains both attraction AND comfort, based on his wife's needs (and knows how to read what she needs), sets boundaries, defeats shit tests, is good with the kids, is good professionally, is good socially, and is good sexually. Some women (many, actually), are too slutty, entitled, bitchy, etc. and it will be more trouble than it's worth working with such a poisonous relationship while trying to raise kids at the same time. But there are more women than you'd think out there that are manageable if your married game is tight.

LaserSoundMusic · 2013-12-19T16:56:32+00:00

Yes but only with a women who has good DNA

Bletz · 2013-12-19T06:37:51+00:00

I personally would love a family, but only when

I have the strength and knowledge to ensure that they not only survive but strive.
I find a women who has excellent genes, we're in complete harmony and work together.

There is a ridiculous amount of work to be done before this happens though.

someotherdudeagain · 2013-12-19T07:33:56+00:00

Kids are how you leave something for the future. A society where the most successful people stop having kids is doomed (ours is doomed).

rplearn · 2013-12-19T05:32:38+00:00

Yes. With kids, you can influence the world. I believe my outlook on life and work ethic benefit society; my kids will be the same.

In China, kids are expected to take care of their parents. I respect my parents. I know that I will have to take care of them one day. In turn, my kids will take care of me in old age.

La familia es todo.

BorMato · 2013-12-19T07:06:48+00:00

A part of me does because I think I'd be a good dad. But another part of me doesn't cause I like my life and wanna do what I wanna do.

mollemash · 2013-12-19T08:24:58+00:00

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Glorious_Master · 2013-12-19T12:45:13+00:00

no , Ill think about it after i have a liquid 2 million dollars maybe and how to get one.

as for 'race' matters, my race has a large religious core that creates kids in the fastest rate on earth, and many of them become secular after this so the population is maintained.

johnnight · 2013-12-19T12:59:50+00:00

Yes.

I tried pursuing other goals in life but came to the conclusion, that they are not worth it.

deepthrill · 2013-12-19T14:21:40+00:00

Are any of the posters in this thread who don't want kids part of the childfree community (e.g. r/childfree or bratfree forums)?

RPBennett · 2013-12-19T19:54:21+00:00

I have a son and it is the greatest thing that has ever happened in my life. Your perspective on what's important totally changes. Plus, it's kind of a rush to know that I would rip my best friend's throat out with my teeth without a second thought if I had to in order to protect my kid. However, I wouldn't get married. I would tell her, you can have a dress and a ring and a party, but I'm not signing any documents.

doubles_ · 2013-12-19T03:35:23+00:00

Maybe having lots of kids, then giving them up for adoption.

When I'm bored, I'll just clone myself and raise myself to surpass the original.

Glenbert · 2013-12-19T05:13:41+00:00

Yes. I get that there's no correlation between being "alpha" and not having your genes eliminated. And if being "alpha" increases the likelihood of you genes continuing, than it is a noble pursuit.

But if, somehow, in the pursuit of being "alpha" one voluntarily delete their own genes.. well, that's just f*ckin' stupid.

positiveeagle · 2013-12-19T05:10:13+00:00

Plant the bomb and leave.

Ap_Ercino · 2013-12-19T04:23:42+00:00

No, because I already have two sons. Haha.

2FAM0US · 2013-12-19T05:00:42+00:00

My superior genes deserve to be passed down. I owe it to this world to make more of myself.

Hajimotto · 2013-12-19T03:11:58+00:00

I really want to have kids. I also really want to get married one day in the state I live in. My first method would be the old, in and out then in a little too long, however, given my spouse will be male that might not be very effective. I am thinking artificial insemination and mixing the sperm so we do not completely know who the father is barring significant genetic characteristics.

Title	Do you want kids?
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Date	December 19, 2013 2:41 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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