Synopsis:
Donald Trump discusses marriage. I'd NEVER recommend getting married, but he gives some fantastic insight towards what you should demand from women if those women are to stay in your life. This is how you should think of LTRs and this is how you should think of women who want your time and commitment.
******Disclaimer*: Again, this is NOT meant to advise you to get married. Donald Trump is in a position that few if any of us could ever dream of getting in. Things work differently at his level when making decisions about whether or not to marry, and you should never base your financial decisions on Donald Trump's situation.
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One of my ex-wives once said to me, 'You have to work at a marriage'. And I said, 'That's the most ridiculous thing', because my parents, they didn't work at the marriage. If you have to work at a marriage, it's not going to work.
Keep in mind who the word "you" is referring to here. It doesn't refer to his listeners, it refers to himself and relates to you insofar as you're both the man of the relationship.
Also important to keep in mind what he means by "natural". Donald Trump is the possibly the single most red pill man alive right now and he's not telling you to be yourself in the ordinary sense. He clarifies it a bit more:
It has to be sort of a natural thing. But my ex-wife would say, 'You have to work at this, you have to do this, you have to do that'. And I'm saying to myself, 'Man, I work all day long, well into the evening. I don't want to come home and work at a marriage. A marriage has to be very easy'.
You see how he clarifies it here? "Naturally" means that he doesn't need to work on it, NOT that it doesn't need to be worked on. He writes:
My father would come home, have dinner, and take it easy. It was the most natural marriage I've ever seen. And Melania (Melania Trump)makes my life easy; one of the things I so love about her is that she makes my life easier. I've never had anybody that made my life so easy.
The wife's the one working on it. Donald Trump is one of the world's great hard workers. He's built a big, beautiful company, he's amassed ten billion dollars and the nicest apartment in New York. He's fighting his mission to be one of the world's greats and now he's running for president. It'd be degrading for him to go home and kiss some woman's ass and he's not willing to do it.
Now I hope that continues. Perhaps that will change. I intend to find out!
And damn look at that abundance mentality. Melania's beautiful, she sounds like a great wife and she must be if Donald Trump's settling for her, but he's prepared to drop her at any time.
His last wife got about twenty five million dollars total from Donald. Sure it's a fortune, but it's peanuts compared to him and its peanuts compared to what Melania can enjoy. Trump has leverage in his relationship and can put a bitch in her place.
~ Trump [October 2004].
Lessons Learned:
Donald Trump unwittingly showed the absolute perfect model of a red pill relationship. As a man, your body, soul, and self are not valuable. Your flesh could get burnt up tomorrow and nobody would give a shit---you don't have a uterus after all. Your still-paying accomplishments, your mission, and whatever you can manage to defer your disposability is the source of your value as a man. The result of that dynamic is that you have to focus on that value full in. You don't have the time and energy to kiss a woman's ass while you pursue your goals because you're too busy pursuing them.
Trump's relationship is natural for him in the sense that it's the infallible consequence of his success. It's NOT natural in the sense that they were "just perfect or each other". It requires nothing of him other than for him to pursue his goals and it requires no maintenance. For her hypergamy, Melania must pay the price of forever (if she's lucky) being Donald's servant and existing to further HIS ends, not hers. That's the red pill relationship. You focus on you and you let her follow. Always keep in mind what your leverage is. Donald is ready to walk away at ANY moment where she lets her guard down and stops trying to earn his commitment. He doesn't sound like he has oneitis; he keeps a cool fucking head. That's the red pill right there.
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