Entering the Lazarus pit

vandaalen · 2014-11-29T20:16:34+00:00

Good for you! I was close to getting homeless two years ago, when I decided I will finally take the pilot seat in my life.

I didn't know TRP back then, but "accidentily" entered monk-mode. Didn't regret it and you won't too. Good decision. You got more important things to take care off, than women right now.

The good news is, that you are in a far better postion than other's here, in terms that you know what it's like to have nothing left at all and you know that you will survive nonetheless, and will not bail out.

You also know that you are invisible to society as a man on the ground, unless you annoy them with your presence too much. And you know all these things from experience and not from hear-say.

You took the real red pill.

If you need a place to start, I recommend listening to the audio book of Robert Greene - Mastery. Part one Part two. I'd download them, since it will get removed.

"The most dangerous creation of any society is the man who has nothing to lose." - James A. Baldwin

All the best.

antwonedw · 2014-11-29T19:24:37+00:00

nice work bro. Keep your head up.

Movonnow · 2014-11-29T20:22:46+00:00

Bro, you have my respect.

Be the best and give back to your grandmother once it's time to do so.

Damn. Say that I bitch when I don't have chocolate for two weeks.

selfimprovement113 · 2014-11-29T19:31:03+00:00

I'm on the road to self improvement as well.Glad to hear you are back on your feet and good luck.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-11-29T22:47:46+00:00

I love hearing things like this. If you've survived suicidal ideation and homelessness, you can survive anything. Good job and keep moving forward.

Johnny10toes · 2014-11-29T19:43:34+00:00

There is a lot to be said about perspective.

twistedbrother2 · 2014-11-29T18:53:00+00:00

Doesn't sound like you should be worrying about sexual strategy at this point in time.

AndreNowzick · 2014-11-29T21:43:02+00:00

look into government jobs, health field, or IT/computing tech for job security, relatively good income, etc. Find what your weak spots are and avoid those occupations/subjects, and go into something you know you can succeed in.

OurSociety · 2014-11-30T01:06:26+00:00

Best wishes to you, and best wishes to your grandmother. She's a living example of how great women can be. Let it never be said that the red pill is about hating women. Just the opposite: it's the blue pill that imagines that a war between the sexes is compatible with biology. The red pill is about people like OP striving against adversity, and also about families working together. Its about virtue in both men and women.

And occasionally, it's about banging floozies from the bar, just as long as that's in perspective.

the_optiomal · 2014-11-29T22:20:21+00:00

It's good to have someone who cares for you.

94redstealth · 2014-11-29T23:04:12+00:00

best of luck. you have the power within you to be great because you are a man. take this opportunity and grow.

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dreauxx · 2014-11-30T00:07:48+00:00

Keep moving forward brother. You are unstoppable.

silly_bird · 2014-11-30T02:16:29+00:00

You take care of your grandmother, ok.

karmacrunch · 2014-11-30T02:20:02+00:00

Dude you should totally make a a series of threads updating us on your progress, i'd love to hear more from you!

2pacBiggieisland · 2014-11-30T12:47:50+00:00

Im so happy, to meet this community, before I cam here, I did this, although I learnt game, and had some understanding of Rep Pill Theory, from game and expanding with personal experience. The depth of knowledge contained here is incredbile and invualable.

I read a book called the Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz(which I reccomend to anyone). The four Agreements are "Be Impeccable With Your Word" "Never Take Anything Personally" "Never Make Assumptions" "Always Do Your Best"

It seems simple but these "habits" will create massive change your life. I too realised that I may have been at a low point, but I really gave myself permission to change. I started telling myself how great I am, and reminded myself of the short time I had on this planet.

People don't want you to change, the want you to stay as you are because its easier for them to understand and feel good about themselves.

I gave myself, permission to change. And with the agreement "always do your best" I really made a change, my whole existence is based on this, it really is. Always do your best. I started looking through every part of my life, how I can maximize every second of my life. Not happy about your speech, use resources to improve it? Cant improve, okay who cares. Im still fucking awesome.

I came here and found people doing the very same thing. Its pretty based.

RedPillLawyer · 2014-11-29T21:02:31+00:00

Pull yourself up by the bootstraps and look back only to see how far you've come.

redpillscholar · 2014-11-29T22:05:49+00:00

Good luck brother, although you won't need luck. Could you tell me what the daily habits ebook you mention is?

tyranus89 · 2014-11-30T02:04:58+00:00

You can only go up from here. Don't look at how low you are in comparison to others. Think only about how every bit you move forward is an exponential leap from where you were before.

Good luck.

Verlier · 2014-11-30T02:34:28+00:00

Focus, don't give up, never lose the feel of hunger.

Year_Of_The_Horse_ · 2014-11-30T04:07:56+00:00

Why did you end up in that situation in the first place? If you ignore that then you will end up in the same place guaranteed. If you think you can conquer substance abuse on your own then you are wrong.

TheRealMouseRat · 2014-11-29T21:12:17+00:00

Grats. Keep working on yourself, and see your life improve. Bitches will follow in the wake of success, so just let yourself grow before you even consider a LTR.

WeLookBack · 2014-11-30T01:55:56+00:00

Oh man, congrats for your achievement. Don't take things too start and still leave room for disappointments. Remember you are just beggining.

Also, vocally express your plans and such because the more you do the less you are going to actually work towards achieving your goals. You're grandma's a sweetheart for helping you :)

franklinzunge · 2014-11-30T12:20:14+00:00

I have been there, not knowing where you are gonna lay your head at night, being dependent on the kindness of others and built myself from the ground up, starting from absolute scratch.

I think that theres something to be said for going through that experience, it focuses you so you make damn sure you never are in a situation like that ever again. They say a man is forged out of pain and suffering. I basically never think about those times anymore but I am glad I saw this post as a reminder to appreciate what I have worked for and continue to put one foot in front of the other to constantly improve myself. Because if you aren't progressing forward, you are moving backward.

Good luck OP

jolly--roger · 2014-11-30T14:52:04+00:00

respect to you, brother. upwards is the only possible direction.

my own two hands

and legs. don't forget them glutes, quads, hamstrings and calves

dnlslm9 · 2014-11-30T15:05:36+00:00

I was in your position 2 years ago and it was terrifying. I felt a parasite and worthless. I was in contact with ,y family that had kicked me out and they invited me to Ecuador where I decided to stay with my grandparents that are wealthy and were glad to have me.

I have since sarted side businesses like raising chickens and selling baked goods since working a $300&month job here seemed depressing. The businesses are going okay i make between $500 to 1000 a month doing a lot less work and im always growing so its not a dead end job. I have never been happier.

K04free · 2014-11-30T18:08:14+00:00

You seem to be a fairly constant poster on reddit for being homeless.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-11-30T16:10:38+00:00

Stay smart, stay focused and stay mentally tough.

You can get out of it. And when you're back on your feet, give gramma a little something! She was there for you.

Starshitlord · 2014-11-30T08:25:54+00:00

Love the raz al goul refrence.

ROGacolyte · 2014-11-30T14:59:32+00:00

IMO feeling bad for being homeless is only because you're accepting the 95% negative pressure from others.

Some people travel for years without a home.

Title	Entering the Lazarus pit
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	221
Comments	40
Date	November 29, 2014 6:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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