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[FR] AWALT.

duxtur
April 2, 2015
156 upvotes
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Title [FR] AWALT.
Author

duxtur
Upvotes 156
Comments 59
Date April 2, 2015 10:05 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/316cze/fr_awalt/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/fr-awalt.30907
https://theredarchive.com/post/30907
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Comments

[–][deleted] 86 points86 points86 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]duxtur[S] 37 points38 points39 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Fried. Buttermilk. I'm not usually into fried, but this shit was delicious.

[–]GC0W3015 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Careful. No catching Oneitis for them wings! There are other wings out there!

[–]laere17 points18 points19 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Buttermilk will never leave you bro, never.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Divorcing your heart beat takes 100% of your life as alimony, but Not All Butters Are Like That, bro.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm so glad I wasn't the only one wondering. That shit made me hungry

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin154 points155 points156 points 11 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

I'm confused about the arrangement you got going on here. She is your "plate", but you are not fucking her, and you hang out with her to listen to her complaints. I'm not sure how you are benefitting from this.

[–]not2close41 points42 points43 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree. It sounds like he's her therapist.

[–]IceBunz 24 points25 points26 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Maybe he was going to get dinner somewhere and have a good time, and he gave her the decision to tag along if she likes, and if she wouldn't show up he would still go and get dinner and have a good time because that's what ya do

[–]duxtur[S] 32 points33 points34 points 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Indeed. I was already at a bar I had been wanting to check out. The others are right to question my motives however. I lived a blue pill lifestyle for years which, inevitably, cost me more than I would like to admit. This specific plate is useful to me in showing me AWALT in the flesh. I have more plates whom I use and discard without a second thought.

I'm not trying to dupe you, fellas.

[–]Hitlers_Boss15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

No it just seems like you're wasting your valuable thinking and reflection time being this girl's gossip receptacle. The awalt confirmations are nice, but after a while just stop hanging out with them or plate them. I used to be in the same situation.

[–]JarVoMarGo24 points25 points26 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

thanks for reminding me that all interactions with women are only worth something if they end with her lips around my cock, oh wait that's fucking dumb.

[–]duxtur[S] 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh. The point of this post is to reiterate AWALT. I sincerely wish I could have a 'friendship' with a girl, but its just not possible. I suspect that ideas such as honour, mutual respect, certain tribal ideas of bonding etc that are the human basis for friendships aren't possible between heterosexual individuals of separate genders.

All girls I meet and pay even small attention to inevitably want something more. It has caused a lot of problems for me in the past as I am not a player and don't enjoy fucking around (I have a traditionalist view of life) however this is incongruous in present western society as girls have been unleashed and are insanely predatory, thus TRP exists as a reaction to that.

[–]recoveringpsychopath 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think he said that.

[–]Hitlers_Boss0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tell me where I said that?

Its great to have a friendship where you are mutually learning and growing, but that shit usually doesnt happen with women. Especially ones who are telling you about their relationships. You are basically a free therapist / her gal pal.

On that same train of thought, dont waste your time with guys that only bitch all the time and blame others. It burns away free time to do productive things.

And i see nothing wrong with bj's so you're missing out kid.

[–]duxtur[S] 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I agree fully with what you're saying. I happen to presently be stuck in a small college town and this plate is as good as a surrogate friend for now. My plans are to move away and I know for a fact we will not stay in touch - its a situational thing.

I'm explaining myself for any recent arrivals at TRP.

[–]Granny_Whisperer 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's kind of silly that you have to explain why you are casually hanging out with a woman. I mean we can't all be super alpha pimpmasters like some of your critics.

FWIW I liked your story. It had a nice flow.

[–]duxtur[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. I agree with you in sentiment, but I think the critiques come with the territory of TRP. This sub and the ideas within are for the lost and the angry, I agree well rounded people can maintain a casual interaction with another human without prejudice, but a lot of men in TRP have been lied to / lived under blue pill delusion most of their lives, so I also empathise with their criticisms and understand where that originates.

I hope people reading this can learn that TRP isn't the end, but a part of a journey in forming yourself and understanding your own values in a society that seeks to marginalize masculinity.

[–]Granny_Whisperer 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I might be unnecessarily critical towards people who are still in the process of swallowing the pill.

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, as a guy there is a lot of value wasted just by simply being someone who helps her listen to her own self speak. Even if you are not responding, she is gaining a lot just by you lending an ear.

[–]SeizeForce 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, he's just pointing out that there's nothing in it for op, other than being a beta orbiter.

[–]trphardmode12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Once you start winning you can afford some pointless victory laps.

[–]Hydris1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously, I read this and just think he is confused about his situation.

[–]Entershikari-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yep OP went from plate spinner to full orbiter LOL !

[–]symko1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some women just suck at sex, I'm guessing this is OP's issue with his plate.

[–]duxtur[S] 15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She went full retard when I held frame and started telling me she loved me (clearly false, I have a good idea of what love is, she was just being guided by her hamster.) She's a good kid and we get on, but fucking a girl who is that obsessed is asking to wake up one morning with your cock chopped off.

[–]rpscrote2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or her vag stuffed with 4 or 5 used condoms she collected, that dangerous glint in her eye, and the words "you're the father" on her lips

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The purpose of my original comment was not to make fun of OP for being caught in this situation. At least I wanted to clarify the issue and use it as constructive skepticism.

[–]_the_shape_14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Extra bonus points awarded for seamlessly telling a girl AWALT to her face (and she, more than likely, nodding her head in agreement)

[–]duxtur[S] 15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

With me smiling as I said it.

[–]sealteamaus 17 points18 points19 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

excellent work rubbin her face in it

[–]BramRhodesDouglas7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I bet her furry little hamster ate that up.

[–]CreateTheFuture8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I LOVE the opportunities like this to say "all women are like that" to an insecure woman. They so often try to push the idea of "omg I'm so weird and special" and the "AWALT" response sends their hamster spinning every time. That, in turn, gives you the opportunity to say you knew she'd react that way because....AWALT.

Usually you can escalate that moment toward your end game because "you just understand me like no other guy does". It's gold.

[–]coffee_and_lumber2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women even know AWALT when the conversation isn't directly aimed at them. That old sentence, "He really knows how to treat a woman" implies this.

[–]CreateTheFuture2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also "I'm not like all the other girls". They know they're all the same, but their solipsism feeds their desperate desire to be special.

[–]newmeforever4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't worry. I liked your post.

[–]duxtur[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is it just me or does it seem to have been removed by the mods? Can't see it in sub.

[–]Zakiha 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Alright I get your point but whats wrong on taking a girl to a concert? If thats something both enjoy. I usually go to bars on my first dates but I dont get why anything else would be bad too

[–]duxtur[S] 22 points23 points24 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I didn't clarify. He's paying for all that shit and getting used.

[–]Zakiha 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that makes sense, thanks.

[–]ShadyMiIkman 7 points7 points7 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You aren't having sex with her. Sounds like you're similar to the gay best friend or something.

[–]newmeforever2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

He can easily have sex with her... He just refuses to.

[–]Swanksterino1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, what's the point of humoring her... unless she's buying dinner!

[–]Toastlove2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Because it can be nice to hang out with women for a change. Plus you can learn a lot by watching their body language and by talking to them if you know them well enough to get proper answers out of them.

It's not impossible to have female friends.

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If she has a good vibe yea, but in this situation this girl is just complaining about other guys

[–]coffee_and_lumber0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know about you, but after being on this path for a while now, my patience for being a feeewings! sponge has about dwindled to zero. And boy did I used to play that role.

[–]Toastlove0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All girls will do that. The trick is learning to read between the lines as to what they really mean.

[–]coffee_and_lumber0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been doing a lot more of this myself. It's a bit of an experiment now to go interact with women who I was total blue pill around before and now expose them to what I'm becoming and gauge their reaction. It's fascinating and amusing. You can certainly have female friends, however I've seen my personal number of female friends go from 90% when I was solidly BP to maybe one or two now that I'm solidly RP. I see much more value in spending my precious free time with the few actual men I know who are not insufferably plugged in.

[–]Sweetmoe2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This post reads like a fiction novel. If you are not fucking her then in this scenario you are, in her mind at least, her orbiter. Coming to meet with you at a bar while you are "giving no fucks" wouldn't inspire het to continue association unless she wants to fuck. In that case shit or get off the pot.

[–]coffee_and_lumber2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It sounds like she's orbiting him if he's the one who was fucking her and decided to stop.

[–]Sweetmoe0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she was an orbiter of him she wouldn't be bitching in his ear. That's behavior a woman gives to a beta.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I have a feeling that when she was insulting the m'lady beta, that she was indirectly inviting you to take his place and get the job done.

[–]boomshockalocker1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Definitely agree. Especially since OP is the one who dropped her...sounds like she's still gunning for him.

[–]200mgtestc 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'courting m'lady' is a great term. Going to use it.

[–][deleted] -6 points-6 points-6 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]NotQuiteRedPill14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Taking a girl out isn't a problem. It's knowing if you're being used for "concerts and restaurants and gifts and things" while simultaneously she is laughing behind your back and fucking another dude.

[–]duxtur[S] 43 points44 points45 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If spending your money on a girl who laughs about you behind your back sounds like fun I won't stand in your way.

[–]spacebanana02 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Blue pill is thinking that you will get pussy for taking a girl out to concerts. It's not blue pill to go have fun with her in a concert.

[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a terrible, uninformative post.

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