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[–]crossroads95 45 points46 points47 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How did you manage to ask her for a kiss without coming off as beta? "Can i kiss you?"
Doesn't that go against what we are learning here?
[–]eslong17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actions are not beta, mindset is.
Once the redpill is internalised and you are flowing with confidence and attraction, there is almost nothing that can stop you from getting the lay.
[–]Throwawaypokerplay4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I assumed the answer would be yes and kissed her before she responded verbally. I've done this before. It is never a problem.
[–]marriagematch1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
or get really close to her face and let her kiss you first!
[–]Planner_Hammish0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya, in a sense; but OP is also a dude in a college/university setting. The feminists are wack there, and any little thing could come back as "rape", so it's better to get that consent in writing!
[–]tastygrass 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Congrats on being attractive and expectedly getting a girl on tinder to sleep with you.
[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
I remember mystery had the 10 hour rule. You did it in half that, with 1 less venue change than the standard 3
[–]Throwawaypokerplay14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Less than half. I met her at 2:10. We walked over to the courts, played squash for a little over an hour, and walked to my place. Then we talked for another three hours after sex. I closed in 2-3 hours total.
[–]Poptart31832 points33 points34 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I thought y'all didn't have sex?
[–]LordThunderbolt64 points65 points66 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Welcome to TRP field reports
[–]rigbed6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Everyone suffers from low T and low libido. If everyone took maca root guys on this sub would be fucking in bathrooms.
[–]Poptart3186 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maca root is good for boosting T?
[–]HeinkelHe951 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A lot of people think Maca boost T, but I heard it actually just boosts your libido.
[–]ScottDurden 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I always thought the 10 hour rule was absurd.
This may be because I'm used to pulling girls from college parties & tinder in like 15 minutes.
[–]2Dmva1008 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Heard. The 10 hour rule is for those who literally suck at screening their options.
If she's DTF, 1 hour max, or she's texting the next dude.
[–]ScottDurden 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly.
Things have certainly evolved from 2005 but I can't even imagine PUA's back then investing 10 hours in a single girl.
[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More like 1998. Remember, the Bible was them picking up in the mid 90s
It was developed before internet dating.and smartphones
[–]rh0cwr51w9 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
wat?
my sex with women tends to fall into two categories:
is this suggesting that if i had 7 hours more patience, i'd get laid more? i suspect i would, but i don't know if i could handle the self-respect cost of either holding off on escalating that long.
[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's classic PUA. If you're not using it, results will vary.
Wasn't networking, was cold approach to f close
i guess the trouble i'm having with it is that i've cold approached and closed in way less time
and almost any time where i failed to close, i got the sense that it was because i let opportunities pass, making me look and feel weak/oblivious/etc. maybe that feeling is misguided
like, to hang out with a woman for 10 hours, you're going to have to let some chances to fuck (which she may say no to) slip by. how do you do that without looking beta?
Who cares how it looks? Confidence
[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock30 points31 points32 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
1) Paragraphs, motherfucker, including separate ones for character statements.
2)...This is obviously not your first rodeo. But as you can see, anytime you attempt to volunteer as her 'teacher' in something, she will insist on testing your confidence in your abilities and your actual abilities. It has happened to me every time without fail. The best way is to respond the way you did. Casual, not bragging.
3) You shouldn't have named the girl you were hanging with to your friend or even called it a 'date' because you never know her history and it's always good to keep your sexual relations with a woman on the DL. You can describe the events that took place with her but in an anonymous manner. One of Warlock's Laws: Being naughty while keeping her image nice. Keeps her coming and helps prevent rape accusations.
4) You said you got an intellectual vibe, I'd advice you to never activate her 'left brain'. It's a place void of tingles. Sex is an emotional/animal thing; stay on the right side. You can talk intelligently about non-intellectual subjects. Girls like that think they want to talk about philosophy, but they don't. Don't respond much to it and change the subject if it occurs. TRP is about knowing a girl more than she knows herself. Don't listen to women.
5) I see she did what most women do, try to get a reaction out of you by asking indirect questions or insinuating questions such as the squash girl scenario. Ignore them entirely like you did. Never answer a question that isn't asked. And one of the laws of frame: You don't have to answer the question.
6) LMR advice: don't go straight for the pussy after kissing as in taking off her panties. Do some ass grabbing and rub the pussy from behind in a gradually more obvious manner. Then put her hand on your dick over your pants while kissing which gives you the go ahead to rub her because she's touching you and isn't 'fair' not to let you. Then you can whoop out your dick and make her grab it. Then you can go for bare pussy. Then you can attempt to go for penetration. The key is to do things simultaneously and transition smoothly from one step to the next which prevents hamster alarms from going off. Not 100% hamster proof but definitely effective.
7) The talking was awkward because she keeps asking questions she doesn't want to know the answer to and doesn't know that which is why you don't give her answers.
8) If you're escalating quickly the right way, you're gonna get the "you're so demanding" or 'candid' in this case. Or "I bet you talk to a lot of girls". Ignore it. Don't even agree with it. She's just concerned that you're able to attract her so quickly and make her want to put out quickly but doesn't want to come off as a slut despite the fact she wants to fuck. Sometimes they won't allow you to ignore it and you must respond, in which case agree and amplify slightly "like McDonalds, Billions served" or indirectly compliment "only the ones I like" (notice no physical descriptions).
9) Too much pillow talk with no escalation. The only time this should occur is when you pull her up against you and squeeze in some gropes and kiss here and there. When you sense the mood is dying, you make up an excuse to kick her out but make her feel like you still like her. A kiss and/or hug on the way out with a smile is good enough.
[–]Throwawaypokerplay4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really appreciate the constructive feedback Dr. Warlock.
3. Yea. I also mentioned to her that I knew him in pillow talk... HUGE Mistake. 6. I didn't go straight for it. We kissed for a while. I took off her shirt. We kissed for some more. I took off her bra and positioned my thigh so she could rub her pussy against it. Etc... 8. I like that. "Only the cute ones..." big smile. 9. I am still too much of a nice guy. There is more work to be done.
Due to the pillow talk mistakes of letting the vibe die down and mentioning our mutual friend to her, I am going to wait at least a week to call her again. That way, I don't seem too invested.
[–]MrAnderzon5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Congrats OP I'm confused did y'all have sex or she just went down on you
[–]SextupleRed1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He left us hanging between "maybe" and "talked for 3 hours".
[–]Throwawaypokerplay0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She just went down on me.
[–]mindmonkey005 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That was a perfect text conversation. I'm I the only one who feels like those witty messages are something that comes and goes? Like you can't always think of them on the spot so conveniently?
[–]isthatsuperman4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everything was good, although I probably wouldn't have stuck around to talk for 3 hours.
[–]TheOneWhoWokeUp1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Glad to see more squash players on this sub haha!
[–]Throwawaypokerplay0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Squash is a top 5 redpill sport imo. Great game and great community.
[–]TheOneWhoWokeUp0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup! Easily.
"World's Healthiest Sport" and at least in the US only really played by the society's Elite. (Wall Street and Ivy League types). Fantastic networking and lots of fun.
[–]leviathan511 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
After the act, don't talk for too long. If you don't see you getting another round, be the one who cuts it first.
[–]atreyuno1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Female, RP supporter here. Think your date sounds awesome. Nice job!
Thanks. I hope she felt the same way.
[–]Ausin30 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aw man why you have to delete. Can someone that read it give me a summary?
[–]Galactic-Unicorn 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Sounds like you are making good progress.
If you successfully got her panties off, you could have definitely fucked. Read up on LMR and how to beat it.
[–]Throwawaypokerplay6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
I go to one of the most leftist colleges in the country. We have an affirmative consent policy that the students take VERY seriously. Literally, a girl has to give verbal consent for every single thing you do and can withdraw that consent at any time. Additionally, according to the policy, consent cannot be obtained by threat, coercion, or force. I am not taking any risks.
Very sensible.
I'm an old man, I'm not used to these new things.
Us 18 year olds have it rough man.
[–]askmrcia0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The way things are going we may have to start getting written consent in every place.
[–]strikethrough123 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dude, consent is easier than you think. You don't ask her if you can get the condom. You get the fucking condom, and if she says something about it, you say "don't worry it's just in case" and then after a while you just plop it in. I've done that shit in it works. If you're REALLY anal about consent, after the tip is in ask her "you wanna be fucked don't you?" And boom there's your consent. The way you framed it it's as if you were asking her for permission to fuck her.
[–]Rooibosisboss2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oh yea, i can definitely see all of this totally holding up in court
[–]Weefilly0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Congrats. You could've just summed it up a little easier however - the girl was on tinder, easy, easy bang. Hard to fuck that up.
[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If that was the case, there'd be no need for trp.
Guys fuck it up all the time
[+]futmut -6 points-5 points-4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow im impressed, having sex with a tinder date is something news worthy that everyone should know about it...Incredible mastery to achieve the impossible...Congratz!!
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