Game doesn't make sense.

foolery · 2015-01-15T05:58:52+00:00

Women will read your behavior as the opposite of what you present. Friendly? Creepy. Aggressive? Sensitive. Stupid? Funny. Honest? Dishonest. Self-absorbed? Giving.

"_('~')_/" fuck it, do only what you want to do, and above all give no girl validation unless you're training her for something. Her doing what you want her to do is how you expect things to go. If they don't go that way, well, you have more time than she does.

My backslash isn't working

BBB2000 · 2015-01-15T06:09:39+00:00

if a girl likes you it doesn't matter what u say. If she thinks ur hot your in. .......general rule though, it is easier to mess up by talking too much and saying something stupid. When she is into you, you shutup, you listen, and you go sexual. You go James Bond

If she isn't into you, talking being funny, etc really doesn't matter. It is said to work more to "generate attraction" but most of time does not apply and works soo rare it's not worth it. Unless your top 10 percent good at being funny etc, it can hurt you if you try to impress her through alpha talk. You will come off try hard, weird, uncalibrated, etc.

NeopolitanAfterglow · 2015-01-15T16:08:51+00:00

Everything you said points to your #1 problem being that you act overinterested. When you're genuinely interested, try talking to them like you would an annoying 5 year old or a crazy homeless person. Treat the conversation like an act of charity.

Rush-into-the-fray · 2015-01-15T18:28:25+00:00

You have to be selfish, or self centered. The core of cocky/funny, and negs. I make jokes, but i frame them in a way that makes me look good, but not too good, or takes a girls ego down a notch, or disarms a "bitch shield". Also when you're sick, you are self centered and outcome independent, and it works everytime. Don't ever appear eager for anything.

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2015-01-15T19:08:31+00:00

Women are a lot more sensitive to social cues then men. In fact, testosterone actively inhibits ability in that facet.

So, I agree with other guys who have posted that you're coming on too strong. As a rule of thumb, anything you think is subtle to a girl is obvious to her, and everything you think is obvious is over the top.

You also need to understand that any effort you put into engaging a girl is (correctly) seen by her as a minor form of you investing in her. If a girl notices you investing in her, she then assumes that you are doing so because you are low value enough such that you wouldn't even have a chance otherwise.

When you're sick and otherwise tired/hungover, you simply don't have the energy required to over-invest in her, so ironically you're sickness provides you with a solid ceiling for your investment (perceived by the girl as the amount of effort/energy you put into the conversation).

In a bizarre twist of fate, most women are actively unattracted to men who make it known that they are actively attracted to said woman. This is rooted in hyper-gamy, whereby a woman always wants to be romancing with someone of higher value than herself.

Zanford · 2015-01-15T21:49:49+00:00

You probably signalled too much interest in the girls you "gamed". A lot of newbs get hyperactive and too-clever-by-half when they start gaming, so they come off as try-hard, desperate, and sleazy. They talk too much and too empathically.

These other two girls, b/c the convo was boring, you probably came off as calmer and cooler. But did you actually bang them? If not you can't put much stock in just a phone # and a few texts.

igotbeatbydre · 2015-01-15T06:16:16+00:00

I think you may be over thinking things and trying too hard. There were times even i thought i was on my game but really i was coming on too strong. A girl can sense if you're actively trying to pick them up or not. And on top of that every girl is different and is going to be receptive to different things. That's probably why your game is better when you're sick. You appear less interested, more mysterious, and not as threatening. Try taking a step back and being less aggressive

4of4 · 2015-01-15T12:19:06+00:00

why is it when I am sick my game gets results and when I am feeling good my game never gets results.

You're thinking too much - if you're gaming girls who want a hookup then you have to be ready to hook up, they already have a bunch of orbiters to give them a "relationship" so you are wasting your time.

You could find a chick who wants sex within a relationship, but the chances of you finding that is pretty much random - girls get horny and want to be fucked, they don't give a shit what you say to them over text, unless you're trying to get them alone for sex.

juanqunt · 2015-01-15T06:07:58+00:00

You come off as autistic and weird in this post. Every girl is going to be a bit different; there's no formula. Just improve yourself and hold your frame. Learn to read each individual girl's desires and personalities... but mostly just keep your frame and don't be bothered by any of these. You have a very feminine mentality.

RedPillSafe · 2015-01-15T16:24:10+00:00

When you feel good you act as a beta and enthusiastically seek approval. (low SMV)

When you are feeling bad you don't try as hard and they get confused and think you don't care as much and this must mean you have a higher SMV.

...you have no idea what your Game is yet.

Women only get "tingles" if they perceive themselves as lower in status than you.

Women are biologically programmed to be "second class citizens". It's only because of Feminism that the nature of women has been buried so that men and women are now confused.

You embody our modern confusion.

redditor1618 · 2015-01-15T09:46:34+00:00

When you're sick you're probably coming across as aloof and less needy than her. Read Mark Manson's "Models".

Title	Game doesn't make sense.
Author	Diece
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	January 15, 2015 5:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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