Rejection is the essential piece of feedback necessary to understand where it is you are on the path to becoming a successful man. I'm sure you've been told growing up, "Get out there and meet people". There is a subtle aspect of this that these people should NOT leave out but they do - when you meet people they are mirrors that reflect who you are. This feedback you get from these people will tell you if you've been working on yourself or not.

In order to understand your social standing it is imperative that you meet new people (especially new women). Women are the gatekeepers to a door that will only open when you've worked on yourself to a point that they see you as a quality man. Think about all the times you've approached someone and they weren't really into talking or engaging with you. What's wrong with you? This shouldn't be a question that sends you on a spiral of self pity. It is one that you should ask with full intention of finding the answer to. Little things will come up: I was feeling crappy, my body language was poor, I have nothing to talk about because all I do is sit and play video games. These are the types of answers that should prompt you to change whatever it is/was you were presenting yourself as.

Think about it like as if you were trying out for a team. The women /other people are judges and you are performing in front of them. They know what talent looks like, but if you show up with a lackluster appearance, they'll know you aren't capable of being a supportive member of the team. People want to be around someone who understands what they are capable of and are proud of it. Don't just try and try without analyzing what you're doing. You'll never understand what it is you need to fix.

So go out and get rejected. It's vital to your growth.