Later this week I'll be talking to five or six girls on Tinder. Obviously I can't meet them all. As I've written in the past, I generally don't go on "dates" with these hoes, but sometimes I do when the vibe of the conversation calls for it (see my post Escalating A Tinder Match, Part 2).
Either way, though, I want to filter for girls who are DTF the first night. Over the years I've come to recognize a few surefire signs that she's down for a one night stand.
She Lives Alone: Although it's pretty unusual to find girls living alone in my city, the few who do are invariably down for same night sex. It makes sense when you think of it. Without any female roommates or family to keep her in check, she can behave like a hoe with no repercussions whatsoever. Feel free to invite yourself to her place to "drink wine" or "smoke weed."
The one downside is that these girls usually ghost after the first date/meetup. I've never once plated a girl like this. Remember, she's living alone for a reason. On the other hand, I always plate local girls with roommates after a same night lay. Just something to keep in mind.
She's Traveling: I always ascertain her location within the first few messages. If she's just visiting, then you can be sure that she's down to hookup. Get a drink and either head back to her hotel or bring her back to your place. Obviously you both know going in that it's a one night stand, so act accordingly.
Terse Messages: Most guys take one word replies or short, terse messages to mean lack of interest. On the contrary, it often means that she just wants you to get to the point. Escalate quickly as I've written in my previous guides.
She Responds Quickly: If the conversation drags on much longer than 24 hours, then she isn't that interested in having sex with you. Really, the date should be set within a few hours of matching, preferably for that very night or within the next 72 hours.
Other Tells: Tattoos and unconventional piercings (nose, belly button, etc.) are both pretty good signs that she's down to fuck early on, as are racy pictures in her profile (bikini shots, underwear shots, etc). I've also noticed that girls who enjoy fast cars, motorcycles, and other risky activities are likely to be hoes.
The Numbers Game
I've come to the conclusion that most of my dating app success (and in clubs, for that matter) comes down to being at the right place at the right time.
Building out a killer profile doesn't get you laid; it merely prepares you for success. To actually succeed at dating apps, you need to rack up a huge number of matches...preferably at least 100 a month...and you need to know what to do with those matches.
To be honest, most of the hottest girls that I've banged from apps (HB8s) were dumb luck. They downloaded the app, and I just happened to be one of the first guys that caught their eye. My profile/Looks got my foot in the door, and I moved rapidly to seal the deal. I'm sure that these girls matched with hotter guys than me, but having the fast finger is what got me the bang and not Chad.
I tend to disagree with the notion that these girls go out to "see what happens." On some level, they know what they want. Maybe she just broke up with her boyfriend. Perhaps she's bored and lonely in a new city. Could be that she's traveling and horny to try some strange cock. Whatever the reason, don't dither. As soon as she gets what she wants from one of her matches, the opportunity is gone. Recognize the signs and move quickly.
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