Great comment on /r/deadbedrooms. So many great redpill themes in it.

-Awake- · 2015-03-29T00:03:42+00:00

If sex isn't important to you, then of course you won't mind if he gets it somewhere else, right?

Now that is the line that flips the script for any girl warding over her beta

Doctor_Mayhem · 2015-03-28T23:17:48+00:00

I was actually planning to post this and put some commentary on it. Break it down piece by piece and how it relates to TRP and the tide that is turning.

If I decide to do that, I'll credit you.

Glenbert · 2015-03-29T00:03:58+00:00

Btw, God bless that commenter.

grewapair · 2015-03-29T00:28:52+00:00

I hate to bring this up, but I guarantee that her selfish attitude was present before the wedding.

She has to like sex and like making you happy, because she might, and probably will, lose interest in sex after the wedding.

And I can pretty much guarantee that she didn't do very much to make him happy before the wedding.

Don't get married. But if her number 1 goal isn't making you happy, really, really don't get married.

Aerobus · 2015-03-28T23:48:53+00:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again. The easiest thing a woman can do to keep her husband happy is to spread her legs. She doesn't need to buy jewelry for him, she doesn't need to buy him flowers, she doesn't need to buy him tickets to broadway.

She needs to take off her clothes, lay down on the bed, and spread her legs. Also she should cook for him.

What most women do not understand is the male sex drive. Men need sex to stay sane, women only want it (and only with attractive men too). If as a woman you deny your husband of sex, you are only pushing him closer amd closer to an affair.

Glenbert · 2015-03-28T23:55:23+00:00

If ever there were an instance of women totally fulfilling gender stereotypes it's in the dead bedroom scenario. Red pill theories aside, I think some women just do it to fit in with their girlfriends. "Guuuurl, you need to start making him uuuuurn your booty!"

No guuuurl, that's how you kill a marriage. You want your man to be that impossible combination of alpha and beta? Well, I don't know much, but I know that NOT fucking your man will only bring out the very worst in him. All the most enviable couples I've ever known fuck no less than twice a week (shark week aside).

Normal women enjoy sex.

pogiface · 2015-03-29T02:12:30+00:00

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BlueRaspberry · 2015-03-29T02:16:23+00:00

This thread is now the top post in r/bestof, which just goes to show you that Red Pill truths are real and universal, but it's the packaging that counts when it comes to adopting them.

TheRealMewt · 2015-03-28T23:29:14+00:00

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djrawbeats · 2015-03-29T00:50:38+00:00

A lot of people might think the husband is a beta and might call him a pussy. I don't disagree but I hate putting all the blame on men for these types of situations. I mostly blame this women's selfishness and what modern feminism has done to marriages. Women think they're good wife's because they share some chores and cook a meal every once in awhile. Women will do anything to have a ring and a beautiful wedding, but as soon as its over and she's a year into the marriage her effort to maintain is goes away.

A good marriage is one where both partners work as a team and do equal the amount of work on different tasks. Once one spouse decides to not uphold their duties, the marriage will slowly fall apart. Sex is one of these duties. Sex is the most important part of any relationship. If couples couldn't have sex, they wouldn't be couples. If the man or the women wants to have sex, the other partner should by default say yes unless there is a real reason not to have it. The I'm tired, not in the mood, long day, etc is complete bullshit.

The last thing I'll talk about is how infuriating the women in the original post is. She knows exactly what the problem is. She knows her husband is upset about the lack of sex. And any smart person would know the solution is to have more sex, simple. But instead she's trying to solve the issue by not having sex. She's even posting in a place that try's to encourage people to have more sex. Thank God for that top comment and not the white knight brigade which would have only blamed the husband.

Haufniensis · 2015-03-28T23:45:41+00:00

That's all good and well, but it doesn't work. If she had to be directed there, she'll get nothing out of it. She doesn't even think there's a problem! It's like sending a bp friend to trp when they're unaware things aren't right.

Besides, the husband is a schlub. A pussy. Of course his wife isn't attracted to him, no straight woman wants to fuck another pussy, they want a dick.

This faggot acts either happy or upset. What he needs to do is get mad. Put some fear in his wife. That libido will, without her understanding why, peak.

It's an unfortunate reality that love doesn't get a girls panties soaked. But text another girl 10 years younger? That bedroom will come right back to life.

He's the man. Stop sending your girl to reddit (lol seriously?) and start being a fucking badass that girls can't resist.

CherryPickTheGirls · 2015-03-29T00:44:07+00:00

Do we really need to analyze this piece by piece

Is it necessary to spoon feed our community

I think developing good reading comprehension skills should be part of trp. This post is enough to get the point. I don't believe there's a need to break it down any further.

fadetoblack1004 · 2015-03-28T23:07:58+00:00

A bit wall-of-texty but definitely a good comment on the road that lady is steering her marriage down.

pupplenupple · 2015-03-29T03:47:30+00:00

By losing his zest for life and outcome independence while she experienced a lull in attraction due to childbirth he's done the male equivalent of gaining 80 pounds and ceasing to shave his legs. She has adapted to the natural repulsion she feels about this by squashing her libido down so the relationship can continue for the sake of the kids. Can't say I blame either of them more than the other. They both suck.

MrRexels · 2015-03-29T02:34:26+00:00

http://www.hackerfactor.com/GenderGuesser.php#Analyze

Gender Guesser said both MALE for informal speech and WEAK MALE for formal speech, just sayin'.

Metal_Marcus · 2015-03-29T00:40:38+00:00

Check OP's comment history too, she constantly tries to justify that no sex for her husband is fine.

bustanutmeow · 2015-03-29T02:35:22+00:00

And that thread is gone. I was hoping to see some more of the comments.

cosmicartery · 2015-03-29T03:17:03+00:00

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WhiteE350 · 2015-03-29T04:32:42+00:00

First this woman is probably a ham planet.

Women underestimate how easy it is for a man to get sex. Escorts are cheap and plentiful and it only takes about 15 minutes to cheat with a way younger hotter girl.

I hope this guy does exactly what I would do. Tee hee hee ;)

sealteamaus · 2015-03-29T01:48:39+00:00

women COULD do the right thing and nudge men in the right direction toward what they need to be as men but instead they point the finger and call them failures. one such woman i know of exists, the wife of /u/Rollo-Tomassi and without her not even half of us would be here. To you, Mrs Tomassi, we salute you

Title	Great comment on /r/deadbedrooms. So many great redpill themes in it.
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Date	March 28, 2015 10:52 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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