Harsh truth here… complaining about normal female behavior makes you sound like a loser. Stop whining about it.

Whisper · 2013-04-29T02:29:30+00:00

complaining about ~~normal~~ natural female behavior makes you sound like a loser

Fixed that for you.

Normal behaviour is what most people are doing.

Natural behaviour is what most people are hardwired to do.

Hypergamy is natural to women, and criticizing them for profitless and mean-spirited, just like criticizing men for liking slender women with pretty faces and large breasts.

Selfish, entitled narcissism is not natural for women, but it is normal for modern American women, and it is a behaviour we can point out and correct.

2013-04-29T03:05:51+00:00

It is imprtant to remember that your women cannot be your rock if things get hard. She is gonna bail. So keep this in mind. Do not sacrific for her expecting to be re-paid later.

ReggieReddit · 2013-04-28T19:37:03+00:00

"The tiger had no prior history of violence."

I once cut out and highlighted this quote from a newspaper article about a man who jumped over the fence of a tiger exhibit in a local zoo. I taped that said news clipping to my desk at work. The reason, was to remind me to stop hamstering my work responsibilities to other people. This article is doing just that. TRP is about acknowledging our nature and becoming who we are supposed to be.

shamanbard · 2013-04-28T20:56:53+00:00

Holy shit this is the best subreddit ever. SO I've been browsing this for a while, and it's really starting to click. Our society was breeding behaviors incompatible with our natural predilections, causing dysfunctional outcomes.

IntrovertSuccess · 2013-04-28T22:09:47+00:00

Closely related to all those guys trying to logically debate the issue with women and try to point out logically inconsistencies in their thinking and behaviour. If you're still trying to do that then you still don't get it.

Don't change their mind, change their mood.

RedHonest · 2013-04-28T19:49:11+00:00

I get what this is say but fuck this. Guys never get to vent about the shit that bothers them.

If something your girlfriend/wife/mistress whoever did feel free to vent about it. If you feel it in your gut then act on it.

delta_hedge · 2013-04-28T20:26:40+00:00

i dont agree, especially since he is referring to "husband" behaviour, implying marriage.

marriage is a rigged game : of course you can complain about it. stopping to whine about a rigged game and just keep playing it is one of the dumbest advices i have ever heard, taking the same line as shaming the men. on this point, athol seems totally wrong.

if you dont want to complain, the only choice you have is to not play the game.

RedHonest · 2013-04-28T19:47:11+00:00

Good reminder for me about that guys need to be leading. Women are passive creatures...they just are. Don't leave it up to a woman to make a decision, an actual decision.

Sometimes my girlfriend even asks me to make decisions for her. Like she'll ask me if I want omelettes or breakfast burritos for breakfast. I've learned quickly to pick one at random even if I have no preference. Don't put the question back at her. Making decisions is frustrating for women. They run on their feelings most of the time, another sort of passivity.

To make a decision is to impose yourself on the world. If you're not fine with that, you're no man.

MustardCosaNostra · 2013-04-29T04:44:32+00:00

This is a really good point. I have no excuses.

I can't complain about women wanting contradictory things like I did yesterday. Those women are crazy anyway and not worth my time. I swear upon this sub, I will never complain about normal female behavior ever again. You have my word gentlemen..

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