Have you ever lost to a beta?

Doctor731 · 2014-05-23T03:14:17+00:00

I went to a party with one of my female friends from a class. Most of her guy friends were the typical lifterbros and trying to act "alpha" (they made jokes about memes and TRP terminology outloud). I called them out on it and said some blue pill stuff the girls loved. Later fucked the girl and we laughed about how the alphas were probably at home jerking off.

I guess the lesson is don't be obvious as fuck about trying to replicate the shit on this site. It is cringeworthy and girls can smell it a mile away and they just laugh. I played it cool and that often works infinitely better than pure chest thumpin "alpha" behavior

projectself · 2014-05-23T03:16:43+00:00

..the thing about married women, you are competing against one guy, a sorry beat down bastard. with single women, you are competing against every dick in town.. yeah.. it's pretty much that simple.

FrogTrainer · 2014-05-23T14:37:35+00:00

I was actually a beta who got TONS of ass in college. Sometimes by stealing it from alphas.

Being charming and good looking makes it a lot easier.

Could never turn the one night stands into anything regular because the girls got to know me... They said I was "too cheesy", "too nice", etc.

I was just playing the prince charming role I thought women wanted. Take them on dates, buy them things, open doors for them, be the perfect fucking gentleman. As soon as they saw this they were like blech.

SpongeCroft · 2014-05-23T11:50:45+00:00

my ex-gf cheated on me with her ex-bf (didn't fuck but kiss, was already enough for me), whom she's been 2 years together with. it happened out of the blue when we were 8 months together. he was very beta, always did what she told him, buying her shit and putting her on a plate. like i said, they've been together for over 2 years, but didn't have sex. i've been her first. fucked that little bitch after 'bout 2 months.

things she... admired? in him, IMO:

he bought her way more stuff since he has a considerably better paid job (i'm in an apprenticeship right now, not even 500€/month) plus a wealthier family, while mine is dirt poor.
they texted more then i did with her. i hate texting and don't do it when i'm at work. i have more important stuff to do.
he always obeyed if she wanted something. i only did if i found her arguments for it reasonable.

see, he gave her more attention, put her on a pedestal and just committed himself to her entirely. i did so too, but i don't run after a gf whom i consider an equal partner in a serious relationship. i would surely be romantic and do her favors, buy her gifts for anniversaries or such, but not as much as him.

they got back together shortly after we seperated, she told me she regretted it. told me she didn't want to lose me and regrets how everything went. i fell for it, which was a mistake. NEVER EVER consider that a woman actually does what she tells you. only actions count.

that little beta bitch will get his tiny faggotheart broken by the hoe he doesn't realize is one, once again... i will always have been her first, and damn i fucked that little shy piece of whore senseless, something he couldn't achieve in 2 years because of how much of a beta he is. i learnt a lot from that relationship, and lots of mistakes i made (keeping frame mostly...) won't happen again.

thank you for helping me through this TRP. i discovered this sub when we were still together, and it made me realize a lot of stuff that went wrong in my LTR's before. during and after the breakup i knew there would be no future for us and never will be, but "my heart" insisted on trying and getting stabbed into once again. i started working out a few weeks ago and am getting into considerably better shape at a rate i didn't think was possible. have a nice weekend guys

Edit: maybe i should mention that she cheated on him with me after they got back together ;) but we didn't just kiss, if you know what i mean.

fuck that bitch. only because she was a virgin before i came doesn't mean she can't be a fuckin whore. she cheated on all of her former boyfriends excluding one which was her first when she was like 14. once again, cheating as in making out with other guys then her bf.

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-05-23T14:30:57+00:00

On the first question - All the damn time yeah. On paper i should be the AMOG among my friends, in reality my short mate with the bad skin pulls in more tail than i can most of the time, and he's hardly alpha. He's currently got oneitis over a fat girl he's dating who dropped the L word on date 2 and had a full blown facebook conversation with his mother, on his phone, while he slept after date 3. Didnt stop him banging a mortician (Sorry, cremation technician haha) midweek and calling me to cry about it ¬_¬

Strangely a lot of the time when ive had married plates their husbands have actually sounded pretty alpha, though most of the time i never met them. My current regular side dish has a boyfriend of 17 years with 2 kids, and regularly describes him as an asshole, arrogant, dick, etc. On paper all things that indicate interest. But in practice she reckons she hasnt shared a bed with him in over a year and when ive suggested (When i couldnt be arsed to go over) that she gets some from him, she says the idea is repulsive.

oldblackcoffee · 2014-05-24T15:42:28+00:00

Of course there will be situations where women choose to be with betas. The point of TRP isn't to become a PUA and score on every single woman out there - the point is to do what's best for you.

You don't want to become the beta who is wasting time and money on a woman who has a sense of entitlement. You don't want to waste your life talent and ability on becoming someone's beta-provider just so you can score some poon. You want to be the alpha that women flock to.

As an alpha, you're either not interested in an LTR or you're looking for a higher quality woman who will accept your dominance. If a particular woman doesn't want an alpha then you understand that she'll be nothing but trouble for you - so you "next" her.

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-05-23T03:31:31+00:00

Yeah, one problem i have with applying RP principles to getting women is that sometimes beta's "outwork" me. Meaning we know not to doust women with attention and not to beg them for attention,compliment them, ect. So i play it cool, neg them occasionally, and almost always they prefer me over these betas. But the problem is the betas spend so much more time with these chicks that they get more from them than i.

This is more my problem than RP in general, if i were to simply up my aggressiveness a tiny bit i wouldblow these beta's out of the water.

[deleted] · 2014-05-23T11:27:11+00:00

Sure, but only to really good looking betas.

Title	Have you ever lost to a beta?
Author	pleasedontknowme30
Upvotes	0
Comments	37
Date	May 23, 2014 2:20 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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