Last week me and a married woman I have been hooking up with said she also planned to see a female friend at the same time but forgot and chose me. but planned to see the friend next Tuesday.

We mistakenly planned to meet again on that same Tuesday. She remembered today and said she will see the friend instead of me. I know by now that if a woman really likes you, she will cancel with the friend again and just not screw it up a 3rd time. So I suggested she reschedule again. She said she can't and said I should join them. I jokingly said she should join us. She got angry and said I can't come.

I texted a thumbs up left it at that with no intention of seeing her again. A few hours later she texted me saying her friends grandmother died and cancelled and wants to see me again. I laughed thinking this friend was maybe a man who cancelled on her. I ignored for a while but then hinted what I was thinking and she sent me the text of her and her friend discussing the meetup and cancelation.

One side is telling me we did make a mistake by planning to meet up at the same time even though we knew before she was seeing her friend.

But as I said, I know if a woman really likes you, she will ditch her friend. At the same time, she is just sex to me. Not a relationship. So why should I care? She does claim she wants me more than just our random hookups but I can never care about a cheating wife.