I never understood STFU until I met people from USA

Casanova-Quinn · 2021-12-01T21:39:14+00:00

"STFU" is more about not sabotaging yourself, rather than talking too much. A lot of men have trouble talking to women, so eventually they say something stupid that messes up their chances. For those men, it's better to talk less to avoid that happening. If you're actually good at talking to women, you can talk as much as you like.

Shady-DrugDealer · 2021-12-01T10:55:37+00:00

"Foucking Americans, always talk too much" ~Yuri Boyka

lol

thingsjusthappened · 2021-12-01T12:37:35+00:00

As someone who is both Russian and American at the same time living in both cultures, you realize how different the women are. Russian women love a man who can speak confidently for long periods of time, take up the space in the room so to speak, and not just "small talk", you have to be a genius and/or a public speaker who can really grab people's attention. In america? You can literally just offer a girl a drink, make a few moves, and fuck.

But when it comes to the culture, its the exact opposite. Russians rarely speak to each other, and smiling is seen as an offense. In the states, if you fail to wave to your neighbor you are essentially an enemy of the state.

L3onard3 · 2021-12-01T13:32:32+00:00

It doesn’t need to be taken literally always. It’s also about being calm and comfortable in all situations, including silence, which OP alludes to.

11-Eleven-11 · 2021-12-01T16:20:43+00:00

Are you trying to tell me women in other countries would actually want to listen to what I have to say? Interesting.

Xexitar · 2021-12-01T10:14:22+00:00

Post too long. Have you tried STFU?

IdiotNo22246 · 2021-12-01T09:49:35+00:00

I agree with OP. If you STFU, stare at her eyes, she smiles and you don't get it, you're obviously retarded.

MixxMaster · 2021-12-02T04:05:13+00:00

I agree, our culture has a lot of hyper-extroverts that lives revolve around socializing constantly about everything and anything, like some AHDH-addled kid.

TheDumbAsk · 2021-12-01T13:22:38+00:00

I really do have to take a shit right now.

DeputyDomeshot · 2021-12-01T16:34:58+00:00

I think it’s funny how these little ass countries generalize Americans. Got more people in one city than your whole country. I get it’s hard but euros gotta start seeing states as countries cuz it’s more apt. If you think people from New Jersey are like people from Wyoming or people from Wyoming are like people from Texas and so on so forth, then you don’t really got a fucking clue.

PirateDocBrown · 2021-12-01T08:38:36+00:00

You are right. Many of us Americsns are like that. But many also are not. We often travel, to get away from the other kind.

trplurker · 2021-12-02T15:17:24+00:00

All seduction / sleeping with girls boils down to two rules.

Be Attractive
Don't be Unattractive

STFU applies to the second bucket. Dudes frequently talk girls out of sex not the other way around.

Aesthetic_God__ · 2021-12-05T02:12:26+00:00

" I gotta go take a shit "

Gold. lol.

RedPandaParliament · 2021-12-01T16:50:55+00:00

Ah yes, all of X kind of people are exactly like the 2 examples of X people you met.

Replace "American" with "black" or "Muslim" and keep going with that stellar mentality.

JohnPettimore · 2021-12-01T18:40:00+00:00

What an utter load of stereotypical bullshit. I worked with a bunch of people from Eastern Europe for a year, and none of them could actually hold a conversation worth a damn. It was like being in a room full of robots. Any expression of any kind of emotion at all, especially positive ones, would practically make them fill their pants. It was beyond absurd. It was like everyone was frightened all the time. Engineers dressed up like low-rent pimps, whose idea of a real relationship-builder was either weightlifting, going to the range, or drinking until they blacked out. Try that generalization on for size.

the_green_grundle · 2021-12-02T07:10:33+00:00

Most Americans are obnoxious slobs who lack critical thinking ability. Endlessly brainwashed by dopamine spikes and consumerism. You'll find intelligent people who want to learn in places like this which usually involves the aforementioned fat and obnoxious people demanding their ban/quarantine.

StinkingDischarge · 2021-12-01T13:47:34+00:00

You're absolutely correct. Americans are, by and large, rude, boorish, obnoxious, loudmouths that thrive on noise. And 90% of the noise comes out of women. They literally can't keep their mouths shut for 15 seconds without exploding. It's fucking intolerable and the main reason I rarely eat out or attend public functions anymore. There is no place you can go to escape televisions on every wall blasting sports or some shit masquerading as "news" or a stereo cranked to full volume making it impossible to have a conversation with someone 3 feet away without screaming. And when one person starts screaming everyone else has to scream even louder to be heard. It's fucking ridiculous. Even outdoor venues aren't immune. There will be a "stage" or 3 somewhere with speakers the size of refrigerators playing music so loud it hurts your ears 100 feet away. How can anyone actually enjoy that shit?? No, you are correct and the "ugly American" stereotype is spot in.

Brazilian_Slaughter · 2021-12-01T21:32:44+00:00

Probably unrelated, but lately I've trying to talk less and say less words. Which is hard because deep down I like talking a lot with someone who is engaged and talking a lot as well.

Its just... I feel less interested in talking now. I prefer to hear from people and take their knowledge, than speak anything myself.

redisbest615 · 2021-12-07T10:48:19+00:00

Ironically the last American I (a non-American) met abroad was a moody up-his-own-asshole fuck. Then again he was from Seattle, so thay might have something to do with it.

On the other hand I've had my share of motormouth Americans. I was once returning from a business trip from Africa. I was exhausted since on top of all the travelling for work my flight had been cancelled and I had to spend the night at the airport. There was this very animated group of young Americans on the plane and I had to sit next to one of them. An extremely nice guy, but as soon as a took my sit he started bombarding me with small talk questions as I struggled to keep my eyes open. I ended up falling asleep as he droned on. Sorry, buddy.

falecf4 · 2021-12-01T18:32:53+00:00

Wow, so many fucking butt hurt comments. I'm American born and raised and I fully agree with OP. All the whiners "you can't generalize ALL of us" but Americans do this every day. I bet you guys go onto the women's sub and comment "not all men" too. Fucking crying ass bitches.

It's a stereotype for a reason. Bet most commenters haven't been out of their state let alone the country.

OP, to me, your post highlights the problem a lot of guys have with TRP. They treat every word as gospel with no room for nuance or interpretation. Spazzy sperg huurrr der der der.

riggedved · 2021-12-01T18:58:19+00:00

While this is a mere generalisation, having spent a lot of time in America I can confidently say that it has the most unaware and compulsive people in the world. Americans (most) and cry babies and whiners.

ShameYouForStupidity · 2021-12-01T17:58:00+00:00

People from these never-put-a-flag-on-the-moon countries need to stop shitting on Americans. If it weren't from America, you'd all be speaking Nazish.

watermouse588 · 2021-12-01T12:16:00+00:00

Hey OP, STFU your posr is too long and boring. Again STFU

ChickenBalotelli · 2021-12-01T18:12:24+00:00

Lots of triggered gringos in here. Thanks for the perspective!

TheKongoEmpire · 2021-12-01T16:58:07+00:00

I am from a small country in europe that people from USA never visit.

I'm thinking the Balkans? Maybe the Baltic states?

PirateDocBrown · 2021-12-01T08:34:09+00:00

Cyprus or Malta? I'd love to visit either.

macrian · 2021-12-01T13:26:38+00:00

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Title	I never understood STFU until I met people from USA
Author	macrian
Upvotes	280
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Date	December 1, 2021 8:22 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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