I first have to give Les Brown credit for saying this. He is a motivational speaker and I heard this sentence from him once and relate it a lot to TRP. There is an analogy of the mind that compares the working mind to an operating system on a computer. I use this analogy because it makes people realize that they can change how their mind works when they feel like things are out of their control. And this is why a lot of guys can't get laid; because they can't control themselves enough to control a situation enough to get themselves laid.

Your computer has programs installed on it right? Many were pre-loaded by dell or HP or whatever company before you even turned it on. Then you added some major programs as you needed them. This is the ego. The ego represents the programs that you learned since you were a baby - your mom shrieked at you when you grabbed your sisters hair - you got spanked for making a mess - you got put in time out at school for saying a bad word. The human mind isn't too different. You program into your mind what you can and cannot do, what is right and wrong. As you get older you load more and more programs onto the operating system and, like a computer, things start going wrong. You probably have too much stored and maybe you downloaded a virus along with a certain program (ie. oneitis, fear, or self loathing).

If you don't take control of the programming, it will just be done for you. As I pointed out, when you were little you probably didn't resist punishment because you were small...smaller even than your mother and she could physically punish you. Well now you're a grown ass man and I bet you that if you got called out - for saying something offensive/sensitive or doing something boisterous - you'd still get a bad feeling in your gut and maybe (hopefully you already don't) apologize for it. You are essentially letting the programs from your childhood continue running although you've been a grown man for however long. So you need to realize that maybe it's time to delete...permanently remove some of these programs...and clear some memory for new ones. < if you don't make a real effort to do this then you will continue to be manipulated by those around you. Sexual strategy will not work if you do not readjust your operating system, or else you would be swimming in pussy already...

Keep on the alert. You are being programmed by everything around you. The food you eat, the shows you watch, the news, social media, all of that shit is designed to psychologically affect you in favorable ways for whoever it's coming from. Your reality may not be what it seems. Delete the fuck out of the shitty programs that receive and process this crap. Don't even process it in your mind. Start recording your behavior down so you can figure out what needs to be deleted before you start trying to figure out what to add (in terms of game, SMV, etc.).

Something to add

A lot of dudes on TRP treat gender as something that needs to be overcome which is what causes all of these issues. The human operating system is the same, but the preloaded programs are different for white males, black females, gay Indians, etc. Human's are just decision makers...behind ever face is a decision maker who listens and decides to believe what they are seeing/hearing or turn it down. This is where power comes in. Powerful people can manipulate decision makers to decide to act in their favor. What makes you weak/beta is that you decide to follow other people's rules and do things in their favor. You have a lot of tools on TRP to learn how to control people, but the point I am trying to stress is that you cannot bend people's will to your own if you have mental reservations for rules/beliefs/morals that do not align with the things you are trying to say or display in front of others.

Note on censorship

Everything in our world is viewed more closely because things are recorded and viewed over and over again and people become upset at certain "obscenities". I'm talking about fat shaming. I'm talking about the words faggot and nigger. If you can be told what you can see or read, then it follows that you can be told what to say or think.