"I'm not sure when men decided that 30 was the new 15."

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Hillarysdilddo_2016 · 2016-11-06T01:47:09+00:00

we need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely

What a fucking faggot bitch.

Normally i try to be at least a little witty but this really is all I have to say.

BoyWhoreWithASword · 2016-11-06T04:01:28+00:00

Men decided 30 was the new 15 when women decided they no longer need to bring anything to the table other than their used up vagina and entitled attitude.

Docbear64 · 2016-11-06T00:02:49+00:00

This is the line that confuses me the most Men so focused on their dreams, their visions, and their desires they find themselves wealthy, known, and alone

I've never see a wealthy , we'll known man alone. I've seen men who chose poor company that made them feel alone but a successful person without people around them by choice?

What I dislike the most is that over arching mindset of the post " your life doesn't matter unless you are sacrificing it for others" there is no happy medium in this post, you are a societal provider or you're a waste of flesh. No middle ground. That's insane thinking , he's not completely off base I feel like many adults lack maturity right now but the way this post ends in mental masturbation and a personal back pat annoys the shit out of me. "Be like me because I'm a REAL man boys" is the TLDR here.

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Iappreci8thegr8r8m8 · 2016-11-06T01:01:28+00:00

Lmao. How many "man up" articles will it take for them to realize at 30 they might as well be 60.

Unfuckable. Unlovable. Unmarriable. Whoops. Choices have consequences.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-11-06T07:45:06+00:00

Yawn. This guy is just another clueless idiot slinging insults instead of offering incentives.

"Man up" doesn't cut it anymore, Dale. You're free to be someone's unappreciated workhorse if you want, but for me personally, I'm going to demand payment upfront before I give a woman even an picosecond of my time and attention.

Swole_is_life · 2016-11-06T03:30:41+00:00

Always amuses me that women getting ignored in favor of video games or other traditionally male activities is seen as a male problem.

There are some men straight up addicted to gaming, but for most if a guy is ignoring you to play video games you should take that as a sign that there's something wrong with you (you're boring as fuck). Especially if he's turning down sex to go dragon slaying.

Andgelyo · 2016-11-06T00:10:59+00:00

I remember a bunch of my feminist classmates sharing a post about this guy a couple of months ago. The post was very similar in that he was basically saying that men should own up and commit and start actually making families and become "real men"......Let me just say that I hope this motherfucker gets jumped on the street by men who can't start families or are too busy to start commitment and get married. That post I saw made my blood boil so much, I wanted to strangle him through my computer. I have an older brother who is similar in age to him and he doesn't want to start a family simply because he doesn't have the financial resources. Also, since when was a guy who follows his dreams and aspirations to become successful not real qualities of a man? The icing on the cake was how an overwhelming amount of swooners were women saying "this is how a real man should be, guys take note". It was almost like he was posting this as a way of flaunting to other men that he had his life together. Fuck this guy.

scarletspider3 · 2016-11-06T02:27:01+00:00

Be a man and wife up and support a post wall washed up hoe?

cashmoney_x · 2016-11-06T05:35:52+00:00

"Men so focused on their dreams, their visions, and their desires"

That's what they applaud women for caring about. Yet men when do it its a disgrace. Interesting. Almost like men are only slaves for women....

squidracer · 2016-11-06T08:08:38+00:00

So men are supposed to "man up" and commit before 30?

But women want to have fun then focus on their career till they are in their 30s?

How are these men supposed to commit if modern when aren't looking for commitment??

[deleted] · 2016-11-06T07:55:35+00:00

"Selfishness" holly shit!!

So focusing on ones life is considered bad and selfish, jesus. The entitlement is real.

And the fact that its written by a guy, i'd say its more like insecurity. He's seeking validation for his own life decisions. Maybe he's stuck in a marriage, and knows deep inside he doesnt have the balls to do better, or maybe he has a few friends that are happily single, succesful, and conquering life, and its killing him inside.

Fuck this guy.

Johndoesmith67 · 2016-11-06T03:32:51+00:00

commit quickly and stay indefinitely

Here's your problem

MTGOStark · 2016-11-06T02:45:45+00:00

So men who cherish their time and don't waste their hard-earned money are selfish.

lolk.

treeoflif · 2016-11-06T04:08:41+00:00

He's trying to save people from the scourge of being wealthy and fulfilling their dreams.

Rougepellet · 2016-11-06T12:02:23+00:00

Honestly reading these articles makes me want to be the single, rich 30 year old guy they demonize. Single women at 30+ can't wrap their pretty little heads around the fact guys can be happily single at that age. They also need guys to commit now they've hit the walls and are trying to shame men into taking care of them and serving them unceasingly

newName543456 · 2016-11-06T12:39:31+00:00

LOL. How dare men actually be free individuals and do what they actually want to do instead of following strict script like a sheep and try to pass it off as "moral values"?

Stythe · 2016-11-06T12:42:14+00:00

Every dude who preaches passive aggressive "lessons" on the ills of our society has some good points in there, it seems. Doesn't matter. It's still passive aggressive and you only get one of two outcomes with that if it works: Someome does what he says or someone feels guilty.

For anyone who sees what he's doing, he looks like a little bossy bitch. Who is he to say what's wrong with our society? If people want to preach that, they better act the part. This dude better be in a happy marriage with kids who listen and are healthy, with a good job and have friends he sees regularly, a hobby or two he enjoys regularly, be in shape and be able to fix some basic shit. Otherwise he can shut the fuck up.

IIlllIllIIIllIl · 2016-11-06T03:36:46+00:00

Crazily enough, I'm reading a Christian theology book right now that's talking about the general exodus that we live in. Called "post-christianity," they don't outright call it feminism but thoroughly describe the kettle. So people are waking up, and they're seeing between the lines, but outside of here and the manosphere they're missing the mark. Any progress good progress, and I'm alright with that.

JJMcgray · 2016-11-06T16:19:40+00:00

That's gay as shit.

Since when did being a man depend on chaining yourself to a woman? Probably around the same time Chivalry became about romance, and not combat etiquette.

Lsegundo · 2016-11-06T17:47:25+00:00

we need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely

No mention of women who will stay indefinitely?

I'm not sure when video games and "guy night" became more important than tee-ball and date night.

Sports with the kids is #1 to me. If a man knows himself and that isn't him why act like a bitch and try to shame him?

We need more men of integrity and character.

Maybe we need more faithful, feminine women that men would considering keeping long term?

If you're anything like me swallowing TRP will leave you annoyed at the constant hypocrisy of the double standards. It's always the men that need to do this or that. Women's flaws are never examined as part of the problem. Women's flaws are not part of the blooper fairy tale.

PS2Errol · 2016-11-06T17:51:45+00:00

Lets see women lose weight, actually start behaving like women etc first.

4chung · 2016-11-06T17:59:31+00:00

check out the pics of this guy hover handing his own wife

a_war_of_ideas · 2016-11-06T20:23:50+00:00

Typical pattern of shaming by the feminist imperative. Implying living life on your own terms, not marrying, and not reproducing equals "being a boy" If you read between the lines it's basically saying men should "man up" marry off, support a woman, raise kids, and overall be a supplicating mindless cog in the machine.

It is not surprising that anyone breaking away from this mold will be shamed to fit into it. Speaking as a man in his 20s I expect to face more shaming like this as I get older. Keep your eyes open to the bigger patterns in society as the west continues to be feminized. Think critically and don't let shame and social conditioning dictate how you live your life.

somefrommars · 2016-11-06T22:11:59+00:00

This guy doesn't address that many women are immature, expect a man to do everything and have high standards in terms of their ideal mate.

He seems to not see the other side of the picture. I'm sure he is basking in the likes, he is getting om Facebook from females.

As for me -- I will game, travel, not get married/have kids and pursue mt passions all I want. drops mic

HeatseekingLogicBomb · 2016-11-06T23:25:33+00:00

Some people are not just betas, but worship themselves for it, and try relentlessly and desperately to validate their world-view, poor life choices, and failures by projecting onto others and virtue signaling. It's extremely common. We know them mostly as SJWs.

This is a passive-ingratiating sexual strategy on display. Pitiable, at best.

0kool74 · 2016-11-07T04:52:27+00:00

TLDR: Cuck blames men for acting like boys and not marrying quickly enough.

Yea I don't listen to pink pony riding safe space seeking feminist girlymen like this. They don't like their life in the matrix so they want to shame other men to join in their misery.

But the last breath of death and visions of a life lived "what if" will soon come to take them, and I will still sleep soundly at night. Life is good!

The__Tren__Train · 2016-11-06T00:39:57+00:00

I hope guys get the message and start to man up

Duchenne4089 · 2016-11-06T12:59:15+00:00

Is this the guy that wrote an article shaming men for not getting married? I remember it was on TRP, but couldn't find it anymore

youssarian · 2016-11-06T15:52:54+00:00

commit quickly

No. Hell no. Do you realize how many people I've seen that end up in miserable parts of their lives due to rapid commitment? I move slowly. I take commitment too seriously to just step right into it. If you want me to commit to you, you better prove yourself worthy of it. And that proof can only come with time, lots of time.

To turn their hearts toward children and work to raise them well.

Please, the world doesn't need anymore children. I don't want children. I'm sure I'd make a great parent, but I have too many things I'd rather do, and children are an unnecessary impedance.

JohnnySkidmarx · 2016-11-07T03:44:20+00:00

Is the author a eunuch? Sounds like it.

goldnhorde · 2016-11-07T17:14:58+00:00

This is an easy one. He thinks he is more man because he was told THIS IS WHAT A MAN DOES!!!! YOU'RE NOT A MAN UNLESS YOU DO THIS!!! DON'T YOU WANT TO BE A MAN!!!! and he nodded and walked across to pick up his "I'm a Man" shirt. He's looking at himself and his gender and he's making a call. good for him .... except .... he forgot to look at the other side of the gender equation. oh lordy, if we had a nickel every time someone thought to coerce us by threatening the idea of our manhood.

all of his "When did (fill in the blank) become more important than (fill in the blank)?" are easily answered with:

"When women made it no longer worth doing"

two answers

Truth_Himself · 2016-11-07T19:12:53+00:00

The irony is that he sells this snake oil to women and they fawn all over him. Then he sleeps around behind his wife's back with the groupie swarm. I see through this man. He's running the same game that preachers and community leaders and politicians have been running for millennia. But this time the message is laser-focused on making women's misery the responsibility of men.

Is he a genius? Is he a chode? I'll let fate decide.

ChildOfTheLostTribes · 2016-11-09T16:41:34+00:00

Fight for romance? I don't understand. Out of all the things men have to fight for, why romance? Fighting who!?!?

ranci · 2016-11-06T14:53:07+00:00

People in modern society will find any reason to believe they are superior to others. In the abscence of such reasons, they will make some up.

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Title	"I'm not sure when men decided that 30 was the new 15."
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Upvotes	68
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Date	November 5, 2016 11:23 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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