Intro:

“It just happened” is understood to be the female hamster’s explanation for hooking up with a guy. I believe it also helps to describe a successful mindset when it comes to women.

Body:

In order to make it “just happen” you need to approach women with an Idgaf attitude. If you see a girl you think is cute, you approach just to see what happens (could be nothing).

To help get into this mindset, you should get in the habit of talking to everyone. Now you obviously don’t need to talk to literally everyone (although I am considering doing this when I get back to school), but you should be talking to people all of the time. This teaches you how to not need anything from talking to someone, and how to enjoy a conversation.

Generally approach people who you think can add value to your life. This can be an attractive girl or a group of cool looking guys. As I said, approach just to see what happens. Go with the flow, but keep things positive (This your frame: stay positive and enjoy yourself at all costs. If you’re not enjoying it, leave it.).

In this sense, by interacting with people and just seeing what happens, when something good does happen, “it just happened”.

Of course you need good game and high smv if you want any options. Good thing you’re lifting and talking to everyone. You should still be seductive, but that shouldn’t be forced, it should be natural and should stem from your confidence, which presumably you have some because you’ve been working on yourself and seeing results.

This advice is more for people who have balls and are putting in the work, but still can’t seem to figure things out either women. I’ve recently been starting to put things together and have been seeing a lot of success.

TLDR:

Talk to everyone. This will develop a sense of outcome independence. Talk to them to see what happens.

Whatever happens happens. Don’t try to control people or outcomes. Just let things happen, and you will find that often times, if you’re high value, good things will happen.

You can’t expect things because then you will be disappointed.

I’m considering writing a field report. I’ll only do it if there’s actual interest.