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Red Pill Theoryinbredostrptw/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 08:55 AM
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Building Powerinbredostrptw/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 01:33 AM
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They have to act on their own accord. The only way to inspire them to action is to lead by example
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 03:10 AM
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Read some philosophy, develop your philosophical mind. Then live your life and decide how you want to live in the moment.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:29 PM
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Get better fitting clothes and try to work on your posture/v-taper.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 04:46 AM
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Is it me or are a lot of girls doing this right now?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:07 AM
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I’ve been told not to waste my brain. I’ve failed
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:47 AM
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Nofap is good if you have a porn addiction, which this guy might. Otherwise I agree, it’s a meme. I can’t remember the last time the thought of just titties popped into my head, unless a hot girl walks by and has nice tits
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:29 PM
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Usually after they’ve paid for their stuff, and if you’re on break chilling outside you can chat them up. Otherwise don’t fuck with the business
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:22 PM
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How old are you? I’m 20 and I’m a pretty horny guy, but it’s not like titties and porn just pop into my head at random, that doesn’t seem normal Stop watching porn. In fact, run nofap for at least 90 days. Start using your time productively.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:02 AM
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Well that’s because you’re committing to them (and very fast at that)... that’s boring. Just keep plates, maybe eventually you’ll be able to sustain an Ltr, but don’t give in so early. You don’t need to immediately jump into a relationship to do things well from the start. Just be honest about you seeing multiple people and see where it goes from there
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:57 AM
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You said you can’t just follow step by step instruction and want more understanding. Go on YouTube. Watch athleanx, Jeremy either, Jeff Nippard, and find some more channels with that caliber of content. Start lifting now though. I suggest ppl if you’re into bodybuilding. Although stronglifts is a good way to get the pure basics. Honestly, if you’re looking to understand from the ground up, I would recommend stronglifts. You will learn about progressive overload, learn how to do the main lifts, a…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:52 AM
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Lower your daily calories by 250 next week and weigh yourself every day. If you lose weight, keep that deficit, if not, remove another 250.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:47 PM
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If you’re the best looking guy she’s talking to, it really doesn’t matter what you say. Kiss Realistically you shouldn’t be doing that much chatting anyway. 1. Be hot 2. Basic convo 3. Ask her out 4. Escalate 5. Isolate 6. Close It doesn’t matter what you say, it show you say it. If you approach a woman with “hey, how’s it going?” With strong eye contact and dominant posture, she’s gonna submit and start talking to you anyway. Unless she’s just not interested or unavailable. Finally, asking ques…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 01:25 PM
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Shit actually helps. Good shit op. I’ll add that vitamin d, cold showers, 20 min naps before I go out, and 10-20 min of meditation tend to help me. Especially cold showers before I go out, just gives me a boost of energy.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 04:55 PM
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Sorry man. Stay strong. Best wishes to you
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:57 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Planning on working part time as a bartender when I finish school for this reason exactly. I’m already reasonably social, but the more reps the better
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 02:18 AM
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Lifting: look up ppl reddit program, it’s pretty good. Starting strength is also a good beginner program because it’s 70iq simple, but be weary because you won’t gain a ton of muscle, mostly strength. Diet: Calculate your tdee, figure out your weight gain or loss goals, then make your own diet in accordance with those goals Confidence/game: go out and talk to 2-3 strangers every day for at least a minute each Other things, get a job. Go for the best job you can possibly get with your current cre…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:38 AM
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Yessir
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:12 PM
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Hmm. I do this quite often. As I said I’m already pretty good at small talk, I can talk when I need to, oftentimes I just prefer not to. Similar to you I guess. I’ll just continue doing what I’m doing and try to leave my comfort zone whenever I feel like saying something I normally wouldn’t.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:39 AM
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I’m not sure I permanently want to be more talkative, but I would at least like to try it. I think it might benefit me, as I said I’ve always been able to make a lot of friend so who knows. What steps did you take?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:20 AM
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The rapping seems like good advice. I was planning on picking up meditating again actually tmr. More motivation. Thanks
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:16 AM
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Yell “hey” with dominant eye contact. Then while maintaining eye contact say “shut the fuck up”
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:12 AM
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Just focus on where you can improve and what will make you more successful in life. Eventually you might stumble across something you deem important
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:11 AM
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Go to clubs in a college town
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:02 AM
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Ignore. If it’s not something that you want, ignore or say no
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:56 AM
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At the very least I agree with the sentiment of being prepared for the worst
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 10:03 PM
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I’m meaning to check out Brazil and Columbia
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 10:02 PM
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Anywhere on the sea is not a good long term option considering global warming. Especially islands with shitty infrastructure.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:53 PM
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Everyone knows fat girls are undesirable. That’s why chicks are so insecure about their weight. “Never ask a woman about her weight”
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:41 AM
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Start talking to people . You will get better
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:37 AM
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Your problem is your frame. You determine your worth based on women’s responses to you. Start valuing yourself based on how well you live up to your own standards. Your standards should be ambitious, but realize that as long as you’re making progress you’re doing well. Stop looking for women to tell you how good you are and know how good you are.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:30 AM
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“I don’t want to get too big”
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 02:00 AM
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Are these girls you meet through approaching?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:05 AM
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Intelligence is unattractive if your strategy is look at me I’m the smartest guy here with nothing else. Intelligent men will make themselves attractive options in the smp because they’re smart. They’ll learn how to charm, look good , etc.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:01 AM
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I see what you mean about the genuineness. It’s in your best interest to be genuine anyway because then you select higher quality girls.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:41 AM
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Yessir. They oftentimes do not know.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:03 AM
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I usually don’t think in terms of cold approach and stuff like that. If I see a hot girl, I go. That’s about my thought process. I just write that stuff here to make things clearer
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:02 AM
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Except most guys don’t do this. They watch a girl walk by and say hey cutie in an unconfident voice with unconfident posture and no eye contact. If guys were doing this, you might see it every once in a while, but you don’t.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:58 AM
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Yeah. Personally I prefer direct for actual cold approaches. Like when I see a hot girl walking by. If it’s a warm approach or night game or anything else then playing the game works better.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:56 AM
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I don’t see how 40 could be any worse than 35 besides dick problems. If you keep making money and lifting you should be fine
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:00 AM
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Indeed
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:54 AM
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Start reading and meditating more regularly again. Save 15k
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:34 AM
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Disagree that men who are good with women don’t have time to make YouTube videos. Maybe if they’re only goof with women
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:22 AM
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You gotta decide my man I believe there is not objective value and that all value is subjective. Even if there is objective value, you still have to figure out what it is, and it seems to me like that’s bound to be a subjective take as well. For me, as of right now it’s enjoying life. Not just short term pleasures, but delayed gratification as well.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:13 AM
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So only take coochie. Escalate more. If they’re saying I want to wait. Just tell them you don’t wait and then maybe they’ll come around. Otherwise, they’re a lost cause anyway.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:10 AM
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Nice dude
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:09 AM
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She’s not that into you. Just game other women, maybe she’ll come around
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:08 AM
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Do this. Tell her to treat you like the only boy in the world. Bonus if you fly Rihanna out to serenade her
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:07 AM
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I don’t think it really matters at a club since there are so many people. When I’m out with friends and I want to go meet girls, I just go do my own thing. They’re just gonna keep dancing and drinking anyway. They can do that without me for a bit. Even when talking to a group of girls with some friends of mine, the goal is still to isolate and escalate. It helps if your friends know what’s up and will just play along or go do their own thing when things are going well for you.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:02 AM
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This is easy. You can do it just by dancing well and having passable smv.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:57 AM
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Stoicism is a reframe of suffering more than a cope. Instead of just suffering and thinking negatively, you realize that shit happens sometimes and you figure out what you can do instead of moping. It’s the most practical approach to suffering just short of enjoying it. Stoicism obviously doesn’t dictate “restraining yourself and that’s it”, stoics are not monks. Many stoics achieve great things which is the opposite of “passive and unengaged”. Sure freedom of thought isn’t actual freedom, but n…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 05:52 AM
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Gotta kick her out. It’s your room
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:28 PM
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That’s a lot, try to solidify like 3 of those things then add more
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:26 AM
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Good job for keeping a positive mindset. Lift. Some guy said inserts help a lot. Talk to everyone.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:30 AM
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That would be nice
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:26 AM
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Red pill movie suggestion: In the company of men
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 01:34 AM
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You’re being a pussy. You will see results lifting if you do it right and stick with it
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:59 PM
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With python you can get into fin tech.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:54 PM
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Why do you care? If you don’t like hip hop then don’t listen and don’t worry about what others are doing
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:50 PM
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As long as your satisfied. One thing, I wouldn’t personally go to happy hour before hitting the gym
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:47 PM
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Quality talks. Helped me through some tough nights
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 03:56 AM
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We don’t matter for shit. So at least make sure you live your 100 years with no regrets
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:25 AM
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Good point
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:56 PM
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Not old enough, but I never would. There are bad bitches everywhere.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:11 PM
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Idk, “yeah, I think she might be the one”. Doesn’t really matter, just joke around with it Point is stop looking for a bandaid and fix what caused you to do this in the first place
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:07 PM
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Hawaii. Very relaxing place. All the people are pretty laid back, you can find lots of girls to hookup with at the resort you’re staying at.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:06 PM
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You’re trying way to hard. You basically shit tested her, she passed, and now you look dumb. Not much else to say. Why do you feel the need to tell her about another girl? She should get that from what you do, not what you say. Lmaoo this is pretty cringe
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:04 PM
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Look up humansockpuppet. Pretty sure his bitch management guide is on the sidebar. The getting over the guilt part is on you. Think about how many guys women string along for their own benefit. When you find one who’s better frkm the rest, you can promote her accordingly
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:58 PM
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Don’t make the same mistakes again. Don’t worry about the past
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:58 PM
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Library genesis, you can download it there
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:25 PM
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Don’t worry about it, if you want to approach, approach. You have nothing to lose
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:55 PM
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Lol. That’s dope
/r/askTRP22/12/20 05:58 PM
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The frame is that if you see a chick you’re attracted to you can go over and talk to her. As for the don’t shit where you eat, I don’t approach in the gym often, but sometimes I can’t let the opportunity pass
/r/askTRP22/12/20 05:57 PM
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An asshole is just someone who doesn’t kiss their ass and does whatever the fuck they want
/r/askTRP22/12/20 05:53 PM
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Get out and start hitting on lots of women
/r/askTRP22/12/20 04:31 PM
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I do it to build discipline. Whether or not I nut one day does not affect my confidence or any of that shit at all. If I nut the day before fucking someone I tend to last way less long though when fucking
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:25 PM
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Hive mind
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:17 PM
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Men are the romantics because we believe in unconditional love whereas women are strictly hypergamous. As for why it’s beta, my guess is because it denies reality
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:15 PM
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This guy again. It must suck to be you
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:21 AM
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Yes you missed the opportunity because instead of saying something back you stood there autistically rhinking about a shit test. It’s not that deep, she was trying to talk to you
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:07 AM
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If anything, deadlifts are useful for good posture which I prioritize above my physique. Still agree with the majority of this post.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 09:42 PM
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I just try to enjoy life however I can. The ups and the downs, it’s all about experience to me. We got 80-100 years to experience life, make the most of it. I wanna look good and have money because that opens me up to higher quality experiences imo. I’m skeptical about money as a purpose because I wasn’t the one that decided money was so important. It turns out that it is, so I do see it as worth pursuing, but I try not to make my whole life about money
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:35 PM
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Same here. Was on stronglifts, switched to ppl 6 day, much more content
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 10:00 AM
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I find that most people are alright as well, and fit them I wish the best
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:13 PM
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My idea currently is interviewing randos on their philosophical views. Short discussions regarding belief in god, objective good and bad, and other basic philosophical inquiries. Recently took a class and we discussed making philosophy more accessible to the general public, plus I think it would be interesting to know the philosophixal views of the average person. I’m actually looking for feedback on the idea so lmk what you think.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:40 AM
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If his frame is on point, I’m sure she can get wet. An ugly rich/famous guy likely has preselection and that is highly attractive to women.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:58 AM
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Aunty and daddy
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:36 AM
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Hard to know why you’re hearing it, it’s case by case. I do know that if you were higher value you would hear it less in all cases. I’ve had success with “I don’t care” If it’s a shit test, you pass and get their number If she has a boyfriend and still wants to fuck you, you get her number If she has a boyfriend and isn’t interested, she’ll tell you no This is during cold approach, haven’t encountered it at social events, sure it would work equally as well.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:30 AM
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Appreciate it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:08 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:08 AM
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Yeah, I’m definitely trying to avoid that. Trying to find a balance between selfish and selfless. I think you articulated it well.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:03 AM
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Good saying
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:57 AM
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Oh I was referring to neglectful parents and such. Yes, your family, as in the one that you created, I believe you should always care for
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:47 AM
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Except if they don’t care about you
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:41 AM
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Yeah, the title is a bit extreme, but people understood what I meant. I guess I was confusing putting myself first with caring. I definitely care about my friends and family, but I consider myself first. I’m a former nice guy, so I’m trying to calibrate my degree of selfishness
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:26 AM
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Okay. I think this is about my mindset
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:35 AM
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Let her be delusional and keep fucking her. Reality will hit her eventually
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:25 PM
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Well how much do you have to your name. Do you have a place, a job, hobbies, are you content? If not work on that. You can still pursue women, just not with as much intensity
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:19 PM
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Get a job. Got an interview tmr, feeling qualified. Get back into meditation Keep lifting, gain 15 lbs Keep approaching Start a YouTube channel Give less of a fuck
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:14 PM
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That’s fine, don’t just cop out and mgtow though, unless that’s truly what you want. If you want some tight pussy, go get some.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:04 AM
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Just get rejected. When you approach a girl and she rejects you, she knows nothing about you. It has been said somewhere here before, she is rejecting your approach, not you. She can’t possibly reject you, besides maybe based on appearance, because she doesn’t know you. Don’t take it to seriously. Also if you don’t get rejected, you won’t get laid.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:00 AM
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Going for what you want is polarizing, you can’t let that stop you
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 06:58 AM
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She’s leading the conversation. You need to lead. Keep talking to everyone. Get good at leading by asking questions, and then switch it up to teasing and shit like that. Additionally, don’t respond with one word. Make an interesting/controversial comment or something to keep it interesting
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:01 AM
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Omlala
/r/TheRedPill11/12/20 01:12 AM
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Could be shit tests. Read how to get laid like a warlord. Could also just be validation seeking
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:23 AM
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Could be shit tests. Read how to get laid like a warlord. Could also just be validation seeking
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:23 AM
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Let some girls do it to me once for fun. Doesn’t really matter, don’t regret it
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:41 PM
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Majored in philosophy, so this question came up
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:58 PM
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I wrote about this once, were animals, but were humans animals, meaning we are intelligent. This intelligence influences a lot of our animal behavior
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:31 PM
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I’m guessing you’re a troll
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:21 AM
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You sound hesitant. Is it that you want us to convince you not to do it? Honestly, if I were you, I wouldn’t. Based on this post, you’re gonna make a fool of yourself if not get your ass handed to you. Stop overthinking things, and do something.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:45 AM
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Just make a move. It’s either gonna happen or it’s not.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:35 AM
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That’s fine, if you were improving yourself. If you’re at a point now we’re you’re getting good results you can look to implement social media into your strategy
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 02:24 AM
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You regret it. If you have done it, maybe she would have rejected you, maybe she wouldn’t have. Either way it’s a better feeling than living with that regret At this point you gotta stop thinking about it though
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:19 AM
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Rejection is better than regret. Gotta go for it if you want results
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:13 AM
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Move to a city. Approach young girls
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:38 AM
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I’ve been working with the idea of asking for Instagram on my approaches just to improve my profile. People will give out their social media like it’s nothing. If you approach 30 people in a day, you could get 30 followers pretty easily. Seems like there’s a lot of people here who aren’t willing to put in the work to reap the reward. As op said, this is a passive strategy. The way I think of it, is if you don’t have high smv, don’t worry about this shit, get your smv up. When you do have high sm…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 12:28 AM
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I’ll say I consider myself high smv relative to the 17-23 age group. I’m not sure when compared to all men. I would guess I’m close to the 80th percentile. I don’t text much at all. I’m known for not even reading a message until a day after I get it. I keep my phone on do not disturb so I don’t get notifications for messages. I have double texted before just to get my own field experience. I wouldn’t recommend it, but sometimes it works. Good friends, probably like 15-20 people. I can’t count ho…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:10 PM
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Pick em up and throw them against a wall
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:43 AM
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I don’t see how they’re profession plays into attraction. There are definitely 9/10s who are doctors and lawyers, etc. These women are also smarter and more interesting. They have more options because of this and because they are financially independent. It sounds like you’re hamstring not being able to get with these women
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:31 AM
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Yes, not caring is more important. Stop being so autistic There’s no perfect way to pass a shit test. The way to pass a shit test is to ngaf You can get better at making witty responses once you don’t care, but there’s no such thing as perfect
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:26 AM
3

If you’re tall I think it’s common for form to change a bit. I don’t know the intricacies. I recommend asking this question in a more relevant sub
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:22 AM
1

I do the same thing to retards on ask trp. It’s hilarious
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:57 PM
5

You could just masturbate every once in a while
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:32 AM
1

Listen to the top comment, your brain is pretty adaptable, you can change
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:29 AM
1

Ignore
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:26 AM
5

I only take the number. If they say “how about Instagram” I say “I don’t use social media”. Thinking I should start saying “never mind”.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:15 AM
7

Build as much muscle as you can muscle and be lean. No shortcuts.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:12 AM
3

So learn how to socialize, and get some friends. You’re still in the victim mentality and will be till you improve. Hope youre also lifting.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:10 AM
12

I just shoot the shit. I ask questions, I judge them, I tease them, I escalate, I say outrageous shit, etc. Thing is I dint do it to keep them entertained, I do it to keep me entertained
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:29 AM
5

Grab them by the wussy
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:35 PM
3

Gotta just approach them. Since you’re a pussy you’re gonna suck in the beginning. Just push through it and learn.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:32 PM
1

“I have no fear of rejection”
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:06 AM
2

That hesitation is unattractive. Get to a point where you stand out amongst most men smv wise and then always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:00 AM
10

Approach. If you live in a decently populated area you probably walk by at least a few attractive girls a day. Approach them.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:38 AM
27

Just take it day by day. 20% of the work gets 80% of the results. So set your goals, and figure out the 20% you need to focus on. Then do those things daily and eventually you’ll see results.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 06:42 AM
3

For proof of this, look at the comments here.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 05:44 AM
1

Or you could select good leaders who are wise enough to know that people have complaints about life and can deal with those complaints appropriately
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 05:37 AM
2

It’s not binary. If you have true freedom you can also kill others. The goal is to find a balance between freedom and authoritarianism that is sustainable
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 05:16 AM
3

If you want to know why freedom isn’t working, read the republic. It describes American decline pretty well imo. Symptom of spoiled people and weak leaders as OP said.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 05:14 AM
3

I’ve been approaching all of quarantine, oftentimes without a mask. No problems here. Go for it
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:13 AM
1

When you get an ioi, if you think the girl is hot, approaxh and get her number. You can engage in small talk when you approach, banter, whatever comes most naturally to you and isn’t validation seeking
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:43 PM
3

Nothing
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:49 PM
1

This is it, when you start talking to everyone, hitting on girls everywhere, life is pretty enjoyable
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:16 PM
1

“I don’t use social media”
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:40 PM
0

Not sure why you’d want to
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:52 AM
2

Because you get access to some equipment
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:34 AM
2

People can work out well with just their body weight. I’m sure they can do fine at planet fitness.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:16 AM
11

Lol. Keep working out. Look to upgrade gyms when you can. Try to lower the autism levels a bit too (take it a bit less seriously).
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:14 AM
1

She should slap you
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:00 AM
3

You ignored countless red flags
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:57 AM
3

Curious as to what you mean by belief systems changing with your mood.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:53 AM
0

Wtf did other people do to this guy.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:34 AM
1

This has to be a troll, right?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:32 AM
1

It probably has a bullshit spin on it, but it’s a pretty sound claim
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:24 AM
1

Here’s the thing. Imagine a very high smv man. Take the rock for example. Do you think he spends a lot of time texting? Probably not, he’s usually busy.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:15 AM
1

Talk to more girls. Your limiting yourself a lot by banking on these two. You should try to close them, but you also need to have more options.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:12 AM
3

Read them. If she doesn’t seem too attracted, shake her hand, if she seems receptive, give her a hug. Better yet, give her a hug and pick her up.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:00 AM
2

This guy is telling you what to do. If you can’t make something happen when you do come across them, then you have bad game, and probably need to lift as well.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:58 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:54 PM
0

Take more risks.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:49 PM
2

Keep lifting. The main thing I would suggest is start talking to people. It’s very easy to form negative images of people when you don’t interact with them. However, when you do, you find that a lot of them are just minding their business and trying to get by/have a good time. You need to be social. For making friends, join a club for people with the same hobbies as you. Probably guitar for you. If you have no hobbies, try something you liked when you were younger. Talk about sexual frustration …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:46 PM
12

Just practice man. I was much worse than you at some point. I went on my first date (where I had the balls to ask her out) in college. I could hardly muster up the courage to hold her hand during a movie. But I did, and next time it was easier. Really, you will get better when you stop thinking you need to bag the girl in front of you. Think of it as practicing and failing now so you can bag any girls that’s in front of you in the future. Some ways to make it easier. Shake hands when you meet Hu…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:01 PM
2

Let them stare. I always hold eye contact with people staring at me to get an idea of their intentions, but it’s not gonna stop because you want it to, and it’s a good source of external validation. Not ego validation, but validation that you’re making progress and doing things right. I feel you about not wanting to be the center of attention, but you have the choice to just ignore it and stay in your own world
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:54 PM
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Why worry about that girl if you have no problem getting chicks now. The only way I would go back to girls like that is if they are the ones reaching out
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:42 PM
1

So you are exacting revenge for her rejecting you? You invited this girl into your crib, she rejected you, and now your acting butt hurt as you said. Not a good look
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:38 AM
7

So do you want to have sex or not? You act like this bitch disrespected you by offering sex. You have every right to decline it. I don’t really see why you would, unless you want to maintain your platonic relationship with this girl, in which case you belong with the incels. Either you think this is the coolest girl in the world and you want to be friends with her, or, more likely, you wanted to fuck her, were too pussy to try, now she’s offering, and you’re still too pussy.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:00 AM
1

If you want to run some dread game, I assume you’re reasonably attractive. I would just start running game on girls when you can, keep lifting and stuff, and see if that changes anything. If not, you’ve been talking to girls anyway
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:51 AM
2

Well, she’s not really invested so to speak. She’s agreed to a date, so keep having fun on the date, make sure to escalate, and try to close. When she is invested (after you fuck her a couple of times), push pull is more subtle. It’s more about your investment of time. Read humansockpuppets guide on bitch management
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:42 AM
3

Take advantage of it by not worrying about it
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:37 AM
1

So basically you haven’t done shit. Lift some weights, and start approaching women. Also don’t listen to that retard below. Cold approach is only begging if you’re actually begging. If you see a 9/10 walking by you can surely go up to her and ask for her number (because you and pretty much every other guy alive want to fuck her) without begging.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:49 AM
2

I’ll add it’s not just about putting in work at your job. You need to be physically and socially fit. If you have a good job and are lacking in these areas, then work on that.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:58 PM
1

Retard alert. Stop eating so many vaccines
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:53 PM
0

Do some research
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:51 PM
1

And to get girls like that, you need to raise your smv. Think of it this way, with your current smv, you can get hot girls with red flags, in order to get hot girls with less red flags, raise your smv.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:49 PM
2

Sounds like you’re getting a bit stressed out cuz this girl isn’t giving you any. As others have said, talk to more women. That being said, you did smash, so don’t worry about it to much, if the plate breaks it breaks. You need multiple women for her to be a plate tho.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:45 PM
1

Respect your time. It doesn’t matter what she does as long as you respect your own time, she doesn’t want to show up when you’re available, next until she reaches out
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:41 PM
3

I mean you could also give up, but you’re the one that doesn’t want to settle
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:39 PM
13

So your only good option is to raise your smv and fuck hotter women who are less crazy.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:30 PM
2

lol
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:42 PM
1

Who cares, that’s her problem. You can leave her if you decide that’s what you want, if you don’t want to that’s a different story, but make sure it’s for good reasons
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:11 PM
5

She wanted you to come over and fuck her. In that scenario you escalate hard. Too late now, Uber home if you can, or see if you can sleep over, if she says yes I would escalate In response to the edit, get that 3 some going. Escalate on the girl you met yesterday, make the other girl jealous, and try to get a 3 some
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:07 PM
3

Chad probably hit them up. They keep their options open until the best one comes along
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:24 AM
5

You’re not doing anything wrong, but you’re not high enough value for them to want to hang out with you. They probably have better things going on.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:09 AM
1

You can be nice when youre with her. That doesn’t mean you’re her bitch, it means you treat her with respect so long as she does. The thing about being nice is that you don’t make it your goal to keep her happy. You act nice because that’s how you enjoy yourself most, she’s an afterthought. If for some reason you enjoy yourself more by being a blatant asshole, then do that, but you need to calibrate because I wouldn’t expect much play being a blatant asshole You will he seen as an asshole when a…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:53 PM
1

Raise your smv and spin plates
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:44 PM
1

I mean you have the only correct approach. Keep doing it till it’s nothing. It will only feel easier when you get success, but it will come eventually. You’ve raised your smv but you still haven’t learned how to interact with girls that well. Just keep going out and failing until you learn some shit
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:41 PM
3

Solid advice along with the advice above
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:24 PM
1

Just have some fun and escalate. That’s really it. A good date at either place is cooking. If it’s just a plate then you shouldn’t even need that
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:20 PM
3

I’ll try to explain it in terms of women. When you approach enough women and get rejected enough, you get to a point where you don’t care. You will be willing to escalate, say whatever you want, etc, without caring about the consequences because if a girl rejects you it doesn’t matter. The effect becomes two fold when you have high smv because then you can actually get most of the girls you want
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:14 PM
1

Talk to people everywhere. Especially chicks. Read some shit and try it out, if you like it, try it again.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:04 AM
1

If you’re lifting right and eating right then you shouldn’t have a problem. You say you’re eating right, so it’s probably the lifting. Get on an intermediate or advanced program with a reasonable increment in weights.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:10 AM
1

I mean if a Milf is dtf she’s gonna make it really easy, although if you’re smooth, most girls will. Generally, if you’re attractive, it’s just as easy with both. You need to get through a threshold where you become attractive to most women.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:05 AM
1

Lol what. You’re trying to talk your way into her pants. You gotta isolate and escalate. Take her out or over to your place She thinks of you as a friend now cuz you have no game.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:02 AM
1

Look for girls that give you an erection when you interact with them
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:00 AM
1

I wouldn’t feel too much pressure to choose what you want to do for the rest of your life. There are many ways to get a good paying job without a degree. You can quickly study real estate, sales, etc and make money. I was in the same predicament as you and I chose philosophy to study because nothing else interested me. Now philosophy is probably not the most advisable choice because it will not on its own get you a job. I have other things on my resume that will. In general, don’t stress the dec…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:30 PM
1

Do what you want unapologetically
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:52 PM
1

666, 420, just play with it
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:17 PM
0

Probably a shit test. You know what you want so if your a high enough value commodity they will conform
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:12 PM
0

Smv is relative, people in poor black communities aren’t exactly meeting CEO’s
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:05 PM
3

You did fine I think. This has happened to me before too. When she was giving you a hand job you should tell her to blow you if she’s not putting out. If that’s a dub then head out. Another thing you can do is when youre fingering her, kiss her neck until she’s squirming, then pull back. Tease her the same way she teased you. These are things to do with other girls, not this one. After this just find another chick I’m not from a poor black community, but I’m black and I know the types of niggas …
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:03 PM
2

Yeah that’s the thing, you don’t see many people your age out and about alone. Don’t worry man, keep working on yourself and take opportunities when they arise
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:55 AM
1

I wrote a post with the same idea. The thing is you still need to take steps to have sex. It’s the same with everything, work towards it, but don’t expect anything.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:52 AM
7

I think his point is that people distill too much from Freud
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 08:34 PM
6

It does imply that he has engaged with the content
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 08:31 PM
1

Using this example, where NNN is the manifest content and DDD is the latent content, latent content changes with the observer. For example, if there is a man who typically masturbates 1 time a month, then the latent content wouldn’t be DDD, it would be masturbate once December. DDD is only the logical entailment of NNN if a man typically destroys their dick. Since latent content is explicitly not said, then it is only exists in the way it is imagined by the observer. As the other guy said, sheep…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 08:28 PM
2

It’s hard right now. I’ve managed to make a couple of friends over the past three months just by cold approaching and talking to a lot of people. School is closed for me as well but talking to randos has done me some good with regard to chicks and friends. The younger you are the harder it is probably and the less viable of an option this is I would imagine. My suggestions for you is to maybe play some sports at a popular park. I meet people by playing pickup soccer sometimes. Or if there are an…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:45 PM
1

Alright man. I’m gonna tell you, considering how alpha you say you are, you should decide for yourself what you want to do next in life, and even if you don’t know yet, I’m pretty sure you don’t want to be asking asktrp
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:41 AM
1

Then do something else. Own a farm if that’s what it takes, idk. You don’t just have to do sales, unless that’s all you’re good at, then get good at other shit. Why don’t you join a band or something? There are a lot of options man
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:36 AM
1

Do you want to be told how to acquire capital? Otherwise you just answered your own question sir.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:33 AM
7

Fair enough, maybe there is a need to take it to that extreme.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 07:00 PM
26

Facts. Have a relationship if you want, and enjoy it, but never over invest. Chances are it will end. And since you know that and don’t care, do as you please.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:17 AM
20

I’m sure this works for you, and I agree that people should looks max, but you’re overcompensating. 4” heels my guy? Instead of putting so much effort into falsely appearing attractive to girls, why don’t you just put that same effort into a passion. I mean just look at all the things you just listed all in the effort to get women. Is it really worth it? So once again, I agree, get a haircut, work on your posture and body language, lift, but there’s no need to take it to that extreme. If it work…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 03:18 AM
1

Teasing is our form of shit testing
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:58 PM
14

You should have escalated before. She probably got the vibe that you weren’t gonna do anything and became disinterested. That behavior is a major sign of disinterest imo
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:55 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:06 AM
1

A person makes it toxic. Trp is just ideas, you can use them however you want
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:29 AM
2

They’re attracted to attractive men. The vast majority of attractive men are older because that’s just how it works for men. Look at the 18-25 yo men around you. Most are not on their shit. The ones that are do fine in that age group
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:28 AM
4

So then you should know the best way to slide into dms
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:22 AM
2

I’m trying to get to this point. On my best days I am direct with all of my approaches, on my worst I can’t muster up the ability. How long did it take for it to become natural for you? Also do you mainly approach interested parties or parties that interest you.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:16 AM
1

If you want to do cs, do one of those boot camps, lower investment for equal quality opportunities
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:28 AM
1

Yup. Pussies really. Just go and enjoy yourself. People really making reasons not to go to a party.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:27 AM
2

It depends. I change programs depending on what stage I’m at. Right now I’m rebuilding strength after quarantine so 3 days a week. I’m about a month I will be changing to build mass so it will be 5 days a week
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:25 AM
2

Get some self respect. Lift so you can look at yourself and be proud. Stop watching porn. Talk to people.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:24 AM
4

20 here. I try to do 2 week periods every once in a while, and never more than 2 days in a row. For me, it’s just a discipline thing. Don’t want to be a slave to my dick. My erections become much more potent when I do it, and sex is better
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:21 AM
12

You’re reading into this aloha beta thing to much. There are alpha and beta traits and that’s all. That guy doesn’t give a fuck about alpha and beta and is just enjoying his life which is attractive. He’s probably not gonna get a ton of women like that, but he doesn’t need to.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:18 AM
1

Why did you delete the post. Based on the comments I want to read it.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:10 AM
3

I don’t enjoy it per se. I had a girl flake yesterday. Was I happy about it? No Was I upset? Not really, I thought about why, then I made other plans.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 06:39 PM
1

Yeah. I told her about it. It seems they have no ideas they’re doing it. I just let it go, not my problem rly.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 05:37 AM
1

The reality is that this is how models are. They know they are the hottest and that every guy wants them and they will use that to get with the best guys. Now that doesn’t mean that you have to be famous, but if you’re not, you have to have a lot else going for you. So I mean I’m sure you could lie, wouldn’t be easy or worthwhile. If you want to sleep with them you’re better of just becoming one of the best men. You’re better off doing this because you get value other than pussy as well
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:25 AM
5

I can’t tell if you’re endorsing or criticizing Hunty B. It’s like a GLO post without a clear point.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 12:10 AM
1

I mean in terms of approaching, I don’t necessarily disagree with raising your smv first. A random stranger isn’t going to give you the time of day if you’re not at least somewhat attractive. That being said, make some friends, join a social circle, go out, put yourself around some women. You’re room mate has less standards for his life than you do. That’s fine. We don’t matter that much so you can really do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:43 PM
2

Lmfao.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:41 PM
2

How about you lean in and find out.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:40 PM
2

Victim mentality and red pill don’t mix
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 07:09 PM
5

That was the best decision according to the facts/science/reality
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:34 PM
3

I wouldn’t be surprised if after hearing all this he still does it
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:26 PM
2

My take on relationships is that most of them will go stale at some point. If one doesn’t, wow, lucky me. If it does, oh well. I don’t really have expectations of women to be exclusive unless they say they will. If they do and they break that, then I guess I got played, no use getting upset. I’m not really looking to wife this girl up, or any girl in the near future for that matter. I’m really just getting started with this shit, there’s a lot to experience before I even think about that I rejec…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 06:39 PM
1

Lmao. Yeah I thought she seems like she’s vetting me for boyfriend material. That being said she knows I have to go back to school soon and that I hang out with multiple women. We’ll see what happens. Never had a girlfriend before so I wouldn’t particularly mind. I’m not sure if her thinking I’m Ltr material is my doing, such that I could be acting differently to be just a quick fuck, or if she’s just not into a quick fuck. Appreciate the kind words my guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 05:49 PM
2

I disagree that her nervousness was because I’m a stranger, I was there and in context it seemed like it was because she was attracted to me. Additionally, after she got to know me more (the second time we met) she said it again when I escalated and when I kissed her. Take it as you will. I will consider the possibility that it’s because I was a stranger, but I did a good job of building comfort. I agree that if nothing further happens I maximized the potential. But as far as I know further stuf…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 05:39 PM
5

Angry dude here. My parents don’t pay for my school, I go on a scholarship and a small loan. I do have some privileges but that’s life. Really, what makes you think I didn’t work hard, study hard and make good connections to get into school. Getting into that school was a goal of mine since I was a young child, my parents are not rich and worked hard for what they have as well. You are probably mad because you don’t have what you want and don’t know how to work for it. Some black pill shit here.…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 05:03 PM
2

Yeah about the birthday party, idrc care too much, I’ll just go for fun and to socialize. Realistically this girl won’t be in my life for long as I have to go back to school so I’m not stressing it at all. Yes this has become my favorite part as well. As for the birthday party I will take the other guys advice and try to go earlier. If I had my own place I would have invited her at that point. Sadly I don’t rn.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 04:57 PM
3

I’m from the US. NYC. Yes, the women are amoral too isn’t a great argument in my opinion because I strive to be better than that myself.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 01:09 PM
7

It’s not like I’m walking around saying things. We’re talking on the red pill here so I speak in the terms. Consciously doing the right thing turns into unconsciously doing the right thing. Right now I’m at the former. And yeah, I’m not always available. She even complained to me that she has trouble getting a hold of me. I’ll take the advice of not always meeting her with her friends
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 12:39 PM
13

You’re looking for someone to make your life complete which isn’t going to happen. Especially not the fickle lady. Make your life one that is good without women, then you will be able to enjoy women.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:18 PM
1

As long as you’re making the gains it’s all the same to me
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:29 AM
1

Heard from multiple credible sources*
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:19 AM
8

Hey, appreciate the advice. You are correct. I was slightly exaggerating for effect. This girl has been kind to me and I will reciprocate that. Normal confident guy was always been the plan, whatever happens happens. I try to keep my moral compass in tact, women aren’t worth compromising that for. And good idea to show up early. I understand the don’t moralize sentiment, because there are people here that abandon morals to get laid, and that’s fair as women abandon morals for their gain as well …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 10:35 AM
9

That’s the plan. I’m already back in the gym and on a meal plan. Idk man, I know I’m young but she keeps seeing me. I get there’s some resistance because of my age, and I know a lot of people say this and are bsing, but I’m pretty mature for my age. I sound like a dickhead for saying that, but on that second date I was out with these guys, the friend I was hanging out with is also 26, and without me prompting them, they all told me I act like I’m their age. When I’m hanging out with these guys I…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 10:30 AM
7

It’s not that when I’m in the moment I think of it in terms of me holding frame per se, but objectively, that guy coming at me the way he did was a shit test. If I had failed he probably would have kicked me out. As I said, I don’t really care that I didn’t close. I can accept that I fucked up and I can learn from it. Next time it won’t happen for the same reason. This girl is still attracted to me and I still have time to recover. I was just thinking about why I didn’t close and I realized it w…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 03:12 AM
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That’s kind of the point. I didn’t fuck her because I slightly lost frame. My fault, I realized it, and now I’m going to move forward. The second time I met her I definitely could’ve fucked her and it’s my fault I didn’t. I’m glad I made the mistake then and learned from it. I don’t really care about getting laid too much, I care about improving more, which I am. I’ve got another girl coming over Thursday for that. As for the holding frame thing, I say it like that because it’s not that hard. It…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 03:01 AM
1

Lol what. Fuck them. They already think your dick is big. Bitches are dumb, they don’t know the difference. They just want other girls to think your dick is big, and they want you to fuck them well. You’re not as high value as you say because if you were you wouldn’t be insecureb
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:04 AM
1

I met a girl last weekend and she’s paid for my Ubers every time we’ve met as well as my drinks. If she’s highly attracted to you and has money she’ll be down to pay for your shit. I’m in college also and will make a lot of money when I graduate. I think it’s easier to get girls to pay when you’re in college if they have a job. I’m attractive but I can’t afford to do all the shit like go to clubs and bars so they pay for me.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:58 AM
1

No. I’m not a bitch. Bitches get nervous around high smv men. A man should not qualify himself to anyone if he has abundance. It’s okay to want to make a good first impression, but getting nervous sounds like bitch territory to me.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:56 AM
10

It’s crazy. Based on the way people talk here you’d expect to see some people walking around with confidence. Except you don’t. Most people here, even if they do follow some of the advice, don’t have what it takes to fully transform themselves. Even I’m just now getting to the point where I can realistically get a rotation. I find it incredibly hard to believe that so many guys here are fucking 7-10s regularly. As you said, larping. There really aren’t that many men out there capable of bagging …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:53 AM
1

Id say “not really” and then set up a date.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:45 AM
1

I would say if you’re “outgoing” and failing to give off the mysterious vibe it’s due to insecurity. A guy like that would tell people all about their job and friends and finances to get approval from others. You can be outgoing without revealing your life.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:39 AM
1

I’m an outgoing guy, but not in a clownish way. I get people to talk about themselves and if it’s a woman I tease her about herself. It doesn’t matter if your a silent or outgoing type, what matters it that you don’t care too much and aren’t that invested, and that you have a frame of amused mastery. As I said, I’m outgoing, but people usually qualify themselves to me and end up talking more than me because I listen critically. I believe I have to ability to make anyone else outgoing if they giv…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:31 AM
1

Do what you want if you have a well adjusted life. If not, listen to the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:21 AM
1

Nyc is chillin. Plenty of girls to cold approach. People go out on the weekends. I’m the opposite of you, I’m in school so I had to come back for COVID, very glad that ended up happening
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:15 AM
2

Your tdee accounts for training intensity. I’m not sure if the 165 number is 100 percent accurate but I’ve heard around 200 is enough so I trust it
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:09 AM
1

That’s the thing, the two are intertwined. Self-acceptance or confidence comes from succeeding at goals that you define. This guy wants to get laid, he is taking the steps necessary. On some level a desire to get laid is a desire for external validation because women validate men by being attracted/submissive/giving them sex. It’s a nice feeling, I won’t lie, but I get the idea that most men wouldn’t care about that validation if they weren’t getting laid also (think of the nice guy).
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 05:00 PM
1

Both. Groups take some more balls. But if they look good I’ll muster up the courage
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 04:54 PM
2

Good shit my guy. 100 in a month, I might try to hit those numbers
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 04:52 PM
1

I’m a broke college student. Working on getting a job rn.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:11 AM
1

That was the plan. That being said, I still want to have some logistics set up, it’s not gonna happen by itself
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:10 AM
2

Then you got it man
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:09 PM
1

It’s insecurity. Set yourself apart by shutting the fuck up or maybe by teasing the chick.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:07 PM
1

Lol what, this is not the beginning of getting a plate, the beginning is fucking her or at least having her highly attracted to you. What you did was nothing productive. That being said, if you enjoyed yourself, relish in that but don’t expect anything to happen.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:02 PM
2

It doesn’t really matter because you didn’t do anything. Take it as an ioi.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:58 PM
1

Meditate, lift, and approach. Meditating will help you be aware of your thoughts and stop bad patterns in their track. Lifting is just generally hard if you do it well, builds discipline and mental toughness. Approaching puts you outside of your comfort zone and kills your ego to an extent
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:57 PM
1

Pussy
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:56 PM
2

Doesn’t mean you can’t get older women when you’re young. I’m also 20 and I’ve been hooking up with 25-27 yos for a bit now
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:55 PM
17

You shouldn’t think of it in terms of what will get more women into you. Being lean is objectively healthier and better for you. You realistically have the same amount of muscle and maybe slightly less strength when you are lean
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:54 PM
2

Stronglifts/Starting strength This is not a bulking program per se, but if you’re a beginner that’s not what you need. You need to build your baseline strength, improve coordination, improve posture, and learn the lifts. Stronglifts is great for all of this and you will build muscle as well (not a lot, but a noticeable amount)
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:52 PM
0

Eh, I mean if you’re still not getting any positive feedback from women you’re not in a great position to give advice here. You’re right that you need to commit, but it’s not like committing to improving will automatically make women enter your life, women is a part of your life that you need to learn how to handle as well.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:50 PM
1

You already know the answer
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:47 PM
1

Lol. Just move on. If she wants some she’ll hit you up
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:46 PM
1

Look up an intro philosophy course at any school. Follow that reading. Or if you have a particular subject in mind, find a course for that subject. I study philosophy in school so I didnt have to find the material on my own
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:03 PM
1

Look up an intro philosophy course at any school. Follow that reading. Or if you have a particular subject in mind, find a course for that subject.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:03 PM
1

I guess in the amount of time you spend with them
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:15 AM
1

I always say “hey, how’s it going” Works with high interest and low interest girls in my experience. Really you can say anything. You’re really just feeling her out, don’t worry to much about how it goes
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:57 AM
1

Hang out with friends, love walking, play soccer, talk to people, reading/philosophy, video games, tv/movies, looking to take up fighting. Really I try to enjoy everything I do.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:55 AM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:51 AM
1

You did fine I guess. You kind of care too much, hence the post. Your initial reaction though was fine, it seems like you dismissed it, and when she went cold you were fine and do your own thing. Withdraw attention from her and fuck other girls. Don’t FaceTime her. This will happen more often, you will face shit tests for no reason
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:50 AM
1

Pussy. Who cares. She’s giving up her pussy to bad dick, she’s responsible too. Don’t give a shit about others opinions. That being said, work on your self image because your opinion of your self definitely matters
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:46 AM
1

Yes. Except it’s a little bit weaker. When you find a good male friend, you should try to maintain that friendship and help each other to improve. If you ever feel as though you are being treated as less than you should be, then you should have the thought to leave. I have left interactions that we’re going great after one disrespectful thing being said.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:24 AM
2

You can think of your frame more like your mental orientation towards the world. It ranges from positive to negative. If it’s positive, you’re self confident, you don’t take what others say seriously, you constantly improving, etc.. If it’s negative, it’s more the opposite. So the way you hold frame is when she does something that annoys you, you stay in a positive mind frame by actively dismissing it or ignoring it. An argument isn’t really a frame battle if you are always willing to learn some…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:16 AM
1

Exactly. On some level women need to be validated. They will never be interested in you if they think you rejected them.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:10 AM
1

Eh, people need friends. Not many, but at least a few.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:04 AM
2

It’s interesting, I resonated a lot with this post. I would say that I have always been charismatic, as in it has always been easy for me to have a lot of friends and know most if not all of the people in a group. That being said I started off very introverted up until college. Literally for the first month I didn’t talk to anyone on my floor. Now I talk to everyone. I’ve gotten used to approaching random people, I love talking to people I know. Whereas when I started I somewhat feared a new int…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:57 AM
1

Do you have both at the same time?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:51 AM
3

Same here. I also never hesitate to check out attractive girls. I don’t know about the free validation thing, I think it’s fine to give validation, just don’t over do it. If I think a girl is hot, I think she’s hot, that doesn’t mean I think she’s perfect or some superior being
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:39 AM
1

Don’t worry about other people’s judgement of your actions. Judge yourself based on how you all things considered want to be and how you live up to that
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:32 AM
2

Lift, talk to people everywhere, and read/analyze philosophy. Do this and things will get better
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:30 AM
3

I’ve struggled with feeling too young and I can confirm that if you’re attractive your age doesn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 09:25 AM
3

Will do. Gonna read up on some field reports first so I don’t produce complete garbage. Its not easy to write a field report
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 04:40 AM
2

Talk to more women. Put your phone on do not disturb
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:26 PM
1

Work on yourself. Improve the areas you don’t like
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:54 PM
2

Idk what to tell you man. You should do it because life is more fun that way. How it sounds, you’re making yourself miserable
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 10:09 PM
2

Cultivate an interest in people. The best is being interested in a mix of what they find important in life and how they react to situations
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 07:41 PM
9

I rebrand it because it helps me to understand my own mindset and where I want to go. I think it can also be useful for some. The sidebar takes repeated digestion. Reframing some of the key points helps understand things from different perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 06:46 PM
4

Okay. I’ll read up on it again. Appreciate the advice.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 11:59 AM
4

I think I see what you’re saying. That’s kind of what I meant when I said you still need to be masculine and seductive (move things forward). It’s like taking her outside for a cigarette.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 11:22 AM
1

If you’re having a good time talking to her, keep doing it. If not, dip.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:15 AM
20

The idea is you’re not hoping that something just happens. Realistically you know that something will always happen next, but you should have no expectations as to what that is. Now from there, you can start to game.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 11:11 AM
1

I just made a post directed to someone like you. Check it out
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:40 AM
1

Great way to think about it. If you don’t give a fuck, all girls are the same. Just from reading the title of this post I could tell it was bs. High value women still have sex, op is just not high enough value for them to invest.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 08:20 AM
3

This is what I was thinking. Try to work on your small mannerisms. Make them more congruent with your thought process.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:59 AM
1

Become a chad
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:50 AM
1

Bro why do you care so much. She is a plate. That means she is literally just for sex. There are a lot of posts like this. Idk why. Just enjoy your time with the girl, and live your life. You’re having sex with her now. Enjoy that. Accept and dgaf about what is out of your control. I just read the rest of your post. You’re idea of a plate is entirely messed up. You said you feel like you won’t find better. Scarcity mindset 101. As long as you keep on your shit you will always he the prize. Find …
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:38 PM
1

You’re life doesn’t start at birth. It starts when you take control of it. You know what you want to do so do it. I’d add approach as often as possible. I think people really take for granted the confidence that you gain from learning how to talk to anyone and everyone. You can meditate and cold shower to help kill any remaining bitch in you. Most importantly, just actually do this stuff. Don’t say you’re going to do it and then half ass it. Commit to it for a month, then once you get to a month…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:29 PM
1

I always think, if I’m in the right room at the right time, I have a shot with any girl
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:59 PM
1

You keep saying you will never have friends. You seem like a sensible, aware, interesting person. You should have no issues making friends. Some people are quite superficial yes, and will think you’re a weirdo from the get go, but you don’t want to be friends with those people anyway. I challenge you to go out and join a club or something, you will be surprised how easy it is when you get out of your own way and let people want to be your friend
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:47 PM
3

Talk to them. If they’re excited/engaged keep on going. If they aren’t or ever stop being that, leave.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:44 PM
1

So your saying you don’t find any 30-35 yo hot? That is a strong stance in that it shouldn’t change as you age since men always find the same shit physically attractive
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:43 PM
1

Complacency
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:39 PM
5

I wonder, how many red pillers do you think are actually Oreos? Does the 80/20 rule still apply here?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 03:56 PM
2

No, I literally open with the same thing 95% of times
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:15 PM
2

Can you explain this. My intuition is that coffee is short, builds rapport, and some basic escalation. What do you do from there, set up a next date at one of your places, or just take them home from coffee?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:11 AM
3

How do you deal with the ‘you’re too young’ shit test. I’m 20 yo and I frequently hit on milfs (as well as girls my age). Anyway, the milfs are usually quite receptive, it’s just the you’re to young shit test that usually trips me up. I usually just say something along the lines of “that’s not a problem for me” Also yeah, I’m starting to believe that younger women aren’t worth the trouble, although I will still hit on them, milfs are just much more laid back and play way less games.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:12 PM
34

Here’s your obligatory virtual pat on the back. Pat Pat
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:53 AM
2

Whenever I’m walking around if there’s an approachable hot chick I’ll game her.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:32 AM
1

Better yet, bring a beer to her place. Even better, if you’re older, tell her to bring a beer to your place
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:28 AM
1

Some low key way of saying because I’m going to fuck you. It’s up to you exactly what to say. And cut the crap. If you want to fuck this girl, when you guys are in an isolated area, escalate on her. You don’t need to do all of these dates and stuff. On the first meetup, isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:27 AM
6

I’m pretty sure the Bible is pretty red pilled, just not the church complex. So what I would do is take a look at the Bible from a red pilled perspective and find what explains the concepts you are looking for.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:20 AM
3

I approach without one all the time. If I don’t care, they don’t care. And if they do, they tell me and I leave. I didn’t realize it was so hard right now. I’m doing alright considering. Just go out and approach. Get some numbers, and find the interested parties.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:18 AM
9

Lift some fucking weights man. You’re 6’4. You should get some muscle mass and stay lean, you’ll kill. Also, let other men look at her, so long as you’re doing your shit and improving, she’s not going anywhere
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:14 AM
1

Lol, you didn’t escalate? Do you want to fuck this girl? I mean she probably was interested, and now she’s gonna string you along.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:12 AM
2

If it’s not you it’s someone else bud. They still gotta get dick. They’re not retarded; they know what they’re doing
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:08 AM
1

... either you don’t want anything to do with this girl, or you do.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:08 AM
14

Milfs are fantastic. Whatever you decide to do I would keep it low effort. I also wouldn’t go to the gym because there’s no realistic logistics there. I assume you don’t want to be this woman’s friend or workout buddy and actually want to hit it. So what I would do. Is plan to go to the gym at the same time, give her minimal attention, workout separately, and when you finish, chat her up and set up a date for later that night. Really you just need to polarize and see if she’s dtf.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:59 AM
1

This is what I was looking for. Very succinctly explains the process
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:32 PM
2

Lift and approach. Eventually you’ll look good and know how to chat up girls. School is my main social circle, but thanks to COVID I can’t access it. It’s not a problem and I don’t feel lonely, because I talk to people all the time. Mostly women admittedly because it’s more fun, but I’m always open to conversation and whenever I want to have one I can. Point is, you can make your own social circle. You should join clubs/groups/organizations, meet people at work, and approach whenever you want to…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:00 AM
1

Bro, it is a simple situation. This is how it is. It doesn’t really matter if she’s interested. Are you interested. Make a move, make it a good move, and see what happens. No expectations
/r/askTRP03/10/20 06:08 PM
1

Lmfao, chill tf out. She’s not into you. Your game shouldn’t be shaken at all by rejection. She doesn’t know anything about you besides your physical appearance and how she perceives your confidence. That’s all. You should be happy that you approached a girl you wanted to, and when you do approach, have no expectations
/r/askTRP03/10/20 06:06 PM
1

Then stop buying her free food and see if she sticks around. Just try to fuck her, if she’s not down then she was using you.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:04 PM
1

In the company of men. That’s shit is scary. It will make you think a lot. It made me queasy. It’s a great movie with a lot of RP truths
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:55 PM
1

Do you care? Do you care if she likes you? Or do you just want to fuck her? If you do care, why? As long as you like yourself her opinion of you shouldn’t matter
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:53 PM
1

Tell her you’re going to leave her if she doesn’t lose weight. If she still doesn’t lose weight, leave her
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:17 AM
1

Happens all the time. Just go out again. It’s really just a numbers game, don’t let a lack of external validation shake your frame
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:12 AM
1

Same here. But I still smile at them when I approach them cuz it makes it more fun
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:50 AM
1

Bro, chill out. Just feel this girl out for a bit. Talk to other girls, don’t get caught up on bagging this one girl. You’re doing fine. Keep doing what you’re doing, stay calm, do things at your pace.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:48 AM
0

Bro don’t engage this guy. 18 year olds are hot. We can’t help that. If you want to fuck her, go for it. You said it’s legal, and she clearly wants you.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:39 AM
2

She wants you to fuck her, and it’s legal. I don’t really see a problem unless you think it’s immoral
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:37 AM
1

That’s fine, do what you want. Just remember you don’t need to get married if you don’t want to. And if you do, don’t get raped.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:34 AM
1

Be strong, be lean. You don’t need to be huge, just confident in yourself and your body
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:29 AM
2

Respect your own time. Why do you need her to respect it if you can do it yourself.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:24 AM
1

It’s an orgasm, tons of dopamine. Post nut clarity is you realizing you actually don’t like this bitch as a friend that much, you just convince yourself of that to fuck her. Don’t worry about it to much man. A girl liked you enough to give up her pussy, whatever you’re doing right, keep doing it and more. Now you say it doesn’t feel like sex if you don’t nut. Here’s what matters, if you want to nut fuck her until you nut. If not, then you probably don’t even need to fuck her, but if you want to,…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:14 AM
1

It definitely feels better when you do
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:52 PM
1

I’d say not very considering most guys don’t have standards
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:51 PM
2

Just do the basics. Lift, meditate, read, and try to find something you enjoy doing
/r/askTRP28/09/20 05:23 PM
7

Patrice O’Neal went on a rant about that. Tell that bitch to shut the fuck up, cuz she’s not the one who’s going to have to fight
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:29 PM
3

Sure thing bud. An hb9 is an hb9. You could claim there are no hb9s in the hood, but you can’t claim that a hood hb9 is a high status hb6 because the scale remains the same for all women. The only thing you could be using to account for the difference in this case is their status difference which does not factor in to the hb scale. Understand?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:12 PM
2

Stop caring so much. Game other girls. The ball is in her court
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:01 PM
2

You don’t understand the scale
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:54 PM
2

Anything from “hey, shut the fuck up, I was talking”, to “hey, give me a second, I wasn’t done”. It’s just enforcing a boundary, doesn’t really matter what words you use. If they don’t respect it, as others have said, leave.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:44 PM
8

I know it does. So masturbate every once in a while, or keep doing no fap and genuinely don’t give a fuck.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:41 PM
18

Go for round 2. Or just fap every once in a while my guy. Just have some self control
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:37 PM
2

Fuck her and let another girl your dick. If you want your girls to all suck you dick then leave her
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:30 PM
54

It seems weird to me to invest so much into something that we made up.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 10:34 PM
3

I don’t care if it inflates their head if I can get them. I just won’t tolerate bullshit. You’re free to do that. I think that you miss out on a lot of fun by doing so.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:51 AM
1

You don’t need to be consumed by another’s thoughts to entertain them. Reading philosophy is a practice in entertaining the thoughts of others. There is nothing weak about that
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:38 AM
2

You’re probably not doing it right. Do stronglifts 5x5. Make a diet base in your tdee, and that’s all you need to do. Listen to criticism but always do what you want.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:04 AM
1

I agree. But in deep conversation we also adjust our thoughts based on others
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:03 AM
1

They’re all based on guesses yes, but many of the guesses are realistic because of the patterns we recognize in the world
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:54 AM
1

Sounds good. I recognize the feeling of wanting to approach. You’re saying to act on it without thought.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:51 AM
1

Alright, this is my goal.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:48 AM
1

Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:45 AM
5

Control what you can controls. Ignore the rest. Lift. I’m honestly pretty skinny. But I work out, I’m pretty strong, I’m working on gaining mass, and I’m lean year round. I also have glasses. Girls love my glasses, and when I take my glasses off they always know what’s going to happen next. That said I might get surgery because no glasses is still better than glasses. A lot of it is also how you frame stuff. You should look at yourself in the best light possible and work to improve your flaws. T…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:14 AM
2

Okay, I this definitely helps. I have noticed this that even when I’ve been off for a week or two, when I come back even the first receptive approach is pretty good. I guess more what I need to focus on is training myself to approach the girls that I think are hot instead of just looking at them. I do sometimes, but it takes conscious effort. I want it to be more automatic.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:43 PM
2

Go start talking to people. Ultimately you can’t change if you don’t take action. If you know everything it takes to be outgoing and you still don’t talk to people, your not outgoing. So start talking to 1-3 people a day with the goal of enjoying yourself, learning something, being brave, and changing yourself.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 08:08 PM
1

The ideal life is whatever you want it to be. You decide. For me it’s probably living alone. Although there are some friends who I’ve considered it would be fun living with. But don’t look to others to figure it what’s ideal for yourself. You should ultimately decide, nothing wrong with asking for opinions though.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 08:06 PM
1

You probably are right. I remember when I was in that cycle as well. The thing is I couldn’t get out of it until I had had enough good conversations to feel confident that I am a good conversationalist. Maybe it would’ve helped to have just pulled the trigger anyway.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:02 PM
1

Caring about the progress you’ve made is caring about the numbers. 2 things: If I tell you that the numbers you have are good will you just automatically think they’re good? You should judge for yourself. Progress is progress. Don’t worry about how much you make. What you worry about is that it’s there. If it’s there, that means if you keep on doing what you’re doing you will eventually get to your goal. So set a goal. If you want to get there faster than you are now then that’s how you gauge ho…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:41 PM
1

you’re right about that. But this guy doesn’t know that and just telling him probably won’t give him the confidence to just make move. Until he feels like he deserves it, which is until he’s happy with his conversations, he not gonna pull the trigger
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:32 PM
1

Yes, I understand he wants to have sex. But look at the entire focus of the post, it is on conversation. I’m sure he doesn’t want to have a thought provoking conversation once he knows what that’s like, instead, he wants to learn how to not have a boring conversation. Meaning, he doesn’t want to sit there bored trying to fuck this girl. He’d rather both he and she enjoy themselves. Obviously he wants to know how to fuck this girl, but clearly he also is not confident in his conversational skills…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:24 PM
1

Oh lmaoo, she definitely wants to fuck you. Good that you won’t go there. So yeah, don’t worry about what she says. She knows nothing about you or what it’s like to be in your head. You do and you should own that.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:19 PM
1

I agree he wants to have sex with women. I imagine he also wants to stop having stale boring conversations with women and men as did I at some point. What the girl wants matters, I agree, but it is her job to make it matter, not yours.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:17 PM
1

If you’re serious that this girl has always hated on you, you could probably fuck her if you run decent game. To answer your question, don’t worry about it, you know you’re not an Incel right? So be confident enough in that
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:15 PM
3

Honestly, pretty shit. But that’s fine cuz you just got started. Stop worrying about what others think about your numbers. You’re seeing progress aren’t you. Get addicted to that progress like its heroin.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:13 PM
1

Bad advice. It doesn’t matter what the woman wants. What this guy wants is to be able to talk to girls and for them to have fun. Which is also slightly the wrong approach, he should want to be able to talk to girls and enjoy it himself. The girl can worry about what she wants, this guy needs to worry about what he wants.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:11 PM
1

This guys got it. Stop focusing on one girl and focus on yourself. Become someone who can talk to anyone and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:07 PM
2

Talk to a lot more people. You’re a bit ahead of where I started. I was anxious so i couldn’t even talk to people. After a while I could talk to people but I was boring. This is where you are. Talk to 1-3 people every day, be honest with yourself about how much you learn from the interactions. As you have more experiences, take more risks, and leave your comfort zone you will become more interesting. In 2 years I’ve gotten to the point where I think most people are pretty boring and I bring the …
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:06 PM
8

The one thing you should take away is to stop asking others what to think or to do. Think what you want. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:53 PM
11

Beta is a mindset. I know what you’re taking about. Most guys in the gym are there because they are insecure and want girls to like them, or some other petty thing. Which honestly is why I joined, but if you read red pill stuff or are naturally alpha, you will grow out of that. Don’t use other people’s failures as a reason yo not go, you’re smarter than that and them. But I notice that to, even the jacked guys I see walking on the street are pussies who lack confidence. You can lift and look goo…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 03:47 AM
1

Honestly if you live in America just look around. How many fat, ambition-less, confidence lacking people do you see? It’s the majority. Just don’t be that and you’re automatically one of the most attractive people around.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 03:35 AM
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One reason why I appreciate the advice of working out so much is because it is intrinsically valuable. Even if working out didn’t get you laid, you should do it for yourself. And that’s what the Red Pill is about, doing what you want when you want without having expectations or relying on others. Lifting is a great way to get started because when you notice the benefits it becomes something that you do because you want to, not because you want something else. It also requires hard work and disci…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 03:32 AM
1

No, beta and alpha are mindsets. I will be rich and I will still be an alpha because I want to. It comes down to how much you value yourself and what you want. Don’t try so hard to get sex with a woman, if she’s acting how you want her to, go with it, if not next. Also, you don’t play an alpha game to get laid. You be alpha because that is putting yourself first and getting what you want. If you want to get laid, you go get laid, not by playing an alpha but because you are alpha.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:28 AM
1

Something that always gets me hard is when a woman wants me, and she wants me to fuck her. So, turn her on a bit, and it might go a long way in turning you on.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:24 AM
2

Focus on one or two goals at a time. Don’t be too hard on yourself, but just know, if you don’t do the work you won’t get what you want. If you like where you’re at now maybe you don’t need to work that hard. But if you really want something, you will work for it
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:23 AM
1

I got lucky and learned this without suffering to much, but do not drink excessively. You lose self control and that is the worst possible thing. All for what, a bit of confidence and a good time. Not worth it. Drink, but keep it moderate. Since you say you have a problem, keep it to three drinks a night. This is the part you don’t what yo hear, if you can’t keep yourself to 3 drinks a night, everything you do after that is your responsibility. You can’t use, I was drunk as an excuse. You make t…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:22 AM
1

I think the way to use this to your advantage is genuinely not care if they leave. You can want them, we all want women and sex, you just can’t need them. This puts you in a mindset where you won’t tolerate excessive shit and you won’t prioritize them as much. You don’t have to intentionally ignore them, but don’t try too hard to get them, it’s not worth your time
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:18 AM
1

To be masculine in my opinion is to do what you want, when you want, how you want to without worrying about outcome/ having expectations and without relying on others. This can take form in many ways, you could be sucking 3 dicks and still be masculine if you’re sure of yourself and why you’re doing it.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:14 AM
1

Here’s your problem, you are successful, but you don’t think you deserve things. You have proven that you’re a valuable man, better than many others (at least at making money) so own it and be confident. Don’t worry about what will make women like you, worry about what you want and be confident that you deserve it and have the ability to get it
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:13 AM
1

Walk up, hey, what’s up. Rely on your instincts form there. Especially assuming they’re as good as you say they are.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:11 AM
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Lmao, I was the same way when I first smoked. Smoking weed once will not do shit to you, you will not change at all. You will have a good time. Be weary of smoking too often because then it becomes the problem, but after the first time, you will guaranteed still have te self control to never smoke again
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:10 AM
2

Lose/gain weight. They’re assholes for making fun of you, but on some level they’re right and that should motivate you.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:08 AM
1

Be the hottest guy there
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:07 AM
1

Fuck her. If you’re ever alone with her, start feeling her and once she’s comfortable start kissing her neck, instant panty wetter
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:07 AM
1

My go to is You should give me your number and we can hang out some time If I really like her You should give me your number, I’d like/love to hang out some time
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:06 AM
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Here’s my game plan, I’m 2 years in with a 6th month break for COVID, so I consider myself still a beginner. Lift for strength at first, you don’t want to be a weak little bitch. Once you get to a certain strength threshold you will need to put on more muscle, that’s when you build for aesthetic (hypertrophy) after that point go back to strength and maximize your strength with the new muscle. Rinse and repeat. Ultimately from an evolutionary standpoint it seems like strength is probably the bett…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:05 AM
1

I’m definitely considering it for when I get out of college. Seems like a great time. Go for it
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:01 AM
1

Be calm always, enjoy yourself, and be direct (ie text for logistics)
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:01 AM
1

How many calories are you meant to be eating, I can help you make a diet
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:00 AM
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You want to get her when she’s warm. You hit her up and she’s responding so she’s warm. I don’t think there’s a problem with talking for half an hour then inviting her to hang out some time, although I wouldn’t personally do it. What you want to do is when she’s warm and responding invite her to hang out. If you wait a day she might be in a different emotional state and just not be interested. I think you should have invited her out earlier but the sooner the better. If you hit her up again and …
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:59 AM
0

I just had to tell you, you’re the most alpha person I’ve ever met. No one has ever had the balls to call me an autistic moron. And over the Internet at that. Wow
/r/askTRP21/09/20 09:31 PM
1

Y’all are trying to be negative about anything. I wasn’t rude or disrespectful in any way to this girl. I let her talk, and when there was a chance to change the subject I did. So you’re saying I should’ve sat there and let her cry about her dead mother the whole night. Not for me. I’m sorry she lost her mother, but I can honestly say I don’t particularly care that much beyond that I’m sorry she had to go through that.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 09:22 PM
2

She noted that tons of people came to the funeral and I said it was good that so many people loved her
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:14 PM
1

Absolutely correct. Never let a woman decide anything that’s important to you (in this case your relationship) because she doesn’t know how to, and she doesn’t want to. You noted below that you define your own reality. I like to think of it as creating a reality, but defining is a part of that. Women fundamentally don’t have that ability, don’t refer to them to figure out reality, grab your balls and make it
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 04:56 PM
1

Mindfulness is required to lose the beta mindset. Youre fundamentally altering your mindset which requires you to be aware of it in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 04:00 PM
1

Work on that resume. Any accomplishments you have, put them on there. Any skills you have, even if you think they’re irrelevant or that you’re not the best at them, put them on their and act like you’re the best. Employers generally know what skills it takes to do the job your applying for but you can mostly pick them up on the job as most people aren’t experts in these skills. Embellish on your resume. Don’t lie, but hype yourself up. So long as you know that once you get the job you’ll be will…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah, I’ve gotten better at noticing when they’re swept up by their emotions. Usually I’m happy about it cuz it means I don’t need to do shit. But I don’t let them just talk about whatever, I want to be somehow entertained.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:50 PM
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I can’t help but think that that’s what I did. I let her talk so long as im interested, amused, etc. For example sometimes she’s talking about something that isn’t that interesting but I’m amused by the fact that she thinks it’s interesting so I let her go and then I tease her about running her mouth. In this case it was none of these things so I let her go a bit cuz I’m not just gonna tell her to shut up when she’s talking about her dead mom, and st the first available moment I changed the subj…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:49 PM
1

If you don’t know anyone it’s the same as cold approach. Keep on interviewing (well) until one lands.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:10 PM
1

I like this thought
/r/askTRP06/09/20 05:01 PM
5

The real hack is to take a mid day 20 min nap. No more, no less. You will feel tired when you get up, but in 20 min after you will be energized for the rest of the day
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:46 AM
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That’s fine by me, smart guys like you can see past the language, I tried using the word slut to get the message across because harsh language makes people pay attention. Miscalculation on my part, doesn’t rly matter tho
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:21 AM
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That was my plan. My default will now be it’s a shit test
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:39 AM
1

No, I deleted the post. It is pretty basic sidebar shit, but you don’t internalize the sidebar from just reading it once. You read it, go out, approach, fail, maybe succeed, come back and read again, repeat. I recently internalized this and I’m sure some people will find value in having it stated bluntly
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:21 PM
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That’s added value. But I assume that you do blow your load into them and they enjoy it. Good on you for finding quality women that you can have a relationship with. doesn’t mean they don’t love the sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:18 PM
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I don’t need you to agree with me, I’m writing to figure out what I think. Thanks for the fun tho
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:11 PM
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No, all the others are hot ones that he wants to fuck, who knows if they want to fuck him. I’m not specifically involved in this scenario so yeah none of them want to fuck me, but there are always around 4 billion chicks who don’t want to fuck me so who cares. Same goes for your friend, who cares if she wants to fuck me, I don’t know her. If she’s actually hot and I knew her I would make it known I want to fuck her. Lemme ask you, are you fucking her, or are you just friends?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:08 PM
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Whether or not Jeff bezos knows his wife is fucking him for money has nothing to do with whether she is or not. She is fucking him for money, therefore she is at least somewhat smart for knowing how to leverage her resources
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:03 PM
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Lol idc if that hot chick wants to fuck me or not, that’s on her. Lemme ask you, are you fucking her? I hope you’re not keeping her around just for her opinion on RP literature
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:02 PM
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No one is whining. People think I’m whining cuz I used the word slut. I used the word slut because it doesn’t matter what word I use. I could have said women like to have sex and probably gotten a much better response, but it doesn’t matter because women are the same no matter what word I write.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:00 PM
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No, most of the hot girls aren’t dumb. Most of the hot girls are fucking rich guys because they’re smart. They’re generally pretty interesting. You ever wonder what it’s like to be a person that everyone wants a piece of. That’s what it’s like being a high value man or a hot girl. It’s hard to have everyone want something from you and be stupid, then you get finessed
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:56 PM
1

Omfg ik, I’m typing a lot. Don’t sweat the small stuff
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:54 PM
1

Yup, if you’re going to have a relationship it has to be entirely on your terms. And yes, you have to let her know that you know her secret and you want in on it, but you won’t tell.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:41 PM
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Yeah, cuz slut has a negative connotation. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t like to get fucked. Hell, you can even validate her for it. It doesn’t matter what word you use to describe her behavior, it’s the same no matter what word is used.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:40 PM
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No, but my mom is not an ugly chick. I was talking to a friend recently and he said at parties he’ll invite a whole group of girls in except the fat chicks. “You, you, you, you, not you you’re fat, you” etc. There are unattractive women and men in this world. Women’s attractiveness is determined in a different manner than men. Once again, the fat chicks are all your my man. Do you and love them
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:37 PM
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That was my point. I don’t mean to vilify them, I used such an abrasive word simply to prove this point. This is nature, there is nothing wrong with that. Slut has a negative connotation when it simply describes their natural inclinations. You pointed out a nuance in the word slut which I’ll take into consideration. I knew the word slut would get some hate, maybe miscalculated a bit, but whether you call them sluts or fun loving girls who enjoy sex, it’s all the same. And yes, good women know ho…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:30 PM
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Lmfao. “Every woman is hot, just depend on the way you look at them” I’ll leave the fat chicks for you then
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:26 PM
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Yeah, just approach them and have a good conversation and they’ll know you want to fuck them. You have to show your sexual intent somehow, eye contact, kino, etc. I’ve approached many girls for just a platonic conversation and they will gladly oblige because they are bored and it’s fun, but they won’t want to have sex with you based on that.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:21 PM
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Yeah, and what makes a guy horny, when she’s hot? What makes a women horny, when her circumstances make her feel horny. I don’t fuck girls because they’re interesting and neither do you. Hot girls who are interesting are great, but I dint walk around thinking, she’s interesting and then suddenly I’m horny.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:15 PM
0

Yeah, what does make me confident is hitting the gym, approaching girls and getting numbers, having a large social circle, all things which I do.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:06 PM
1

I’m not angry, and the point is that there is a negative connotation with it when there shouldn’t be. Women are sluts and that’s fine. Slut is just a word. It means they love sex. Nothing demeaning about it except the connotation. I used that word because I knew the connotation was bad but I also know there’s nothing inheeently bad about the truth Somehow men are led to believe that she needs to be in love or see a future with a guy to want to have sex. That’s not true, she just needs to be in t…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:04 PM
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Hey I love it when a women takes charge to, but that’s not my strategy. How many times has a women walked up to you and said she wanted to fuck you (directly or indirectly). If she’s hot you would appreciate that wouldn’t you. Why is it wrong to assume that women appreciate it to. Slut is just a word I used for effect. Thing is they like to have sex just as much as men. This means you don’t need to try to make them want to have sex, you just have to get them in the mood for it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:00 PM
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Hey I’m on it, I’m just fucking the hoes along the way.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:39 PM
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I deleted the post to remove some of the ego stroking. Also, wtf are you talking about, srsly.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:36 PM
0

It’s funny to you but many guys are. Meanwhile the guys that know they like sex and also want to have sex are going out to get it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:34 PM
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This sub is for getting laid. That’s why you joined and why I joined. Building power helps you get laid, but not if you don’t know how to communicate that you want to have sex
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:33 PM
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Good for you, they’re still sluts whether they have a high body count or not. So go have sex with them. Remember, don’t look for unicorns
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:31 PM
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Use some social skills, I expect you to be a non-autist to apply this
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:27 PM
5

Yes, there are some who are fully conditioned to control their pursuit of sex, not many though thanks to new female liberation.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:24 PM
3

It took me a while which is why I shared. I’m sure there are many guys who simply don’t understand this on a conscious level. I know I didn’t.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:22 PM
0

Obviously, and I’m not advocating that. I’m advocating being up front. I don’t want to wait around talking about shit I don’t care about just to brush arms and hope she understands I want to have sex. She likes sex, I like sex, I want to have sex, I’ll find out if she does to. You will get rejected more like this.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:18 PM
0

You don’t have to be a macho man, you have to know what you want and communicate that. Not every women is going to want to have sex with you. I’m fine with getting rejected, but I’d rather be upfront about wanting to have sex then play games. It’s important to guagua attraction and escalate, but don’t just sit back expecting her to know you want to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:15 PM
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It really isn’t that deep, yet for some reason it took me a while to realize.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:09 PM
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Maybe it would’ve saved me the trouble of dealing with all of these pussies in the chat. Idk it took me a while to internalize this so I assumed other people are probably deluded too
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:07 PM
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What, you’re gonna ask a chick to touch her every time you want to? Don’t just go grope her ass but if she thinks you’re attractive she will appreciate you touching her. If you think otherwise idk how you think people get laid Also remember, women can’t decide what they want, they know what they like when they see it, watch what she does not what she says
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:03 PM
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As I make improvements in my game, i share. You don’t need to be good at sex to understand women. Plus I’m getting better.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:55 PM
-1

It’s the truth, I don’t take her seriously cuz she’s highly emotional
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:49 PM
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Yes. I should add that. Plausible deniability. You have to show her it’s okay to be a slut with you. You won’t judge
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:46 PM
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The point is women like sex. This took me a while to realize, I was in fantasy land thinking they wanted a relationship and love. Maybe, but that’s not how you get sex
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:42 PM
-40

Lol. The main point for me is that women like sex. This was some blue pill conditioning that took me a while to shed. Decided to share
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:41 PM
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You don’t have to be angry about it, but it’s the truth. Women are sleeping with guys whether you like it or not, are you going to be that guy or not. If you are, you have to be dominant otherwise another guy will
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:39 PM
-1

I have pretty good game in general. And when you treat a slut like a slut.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 02:06 AM
1

This is an interesting thought. You don’t need to want to share your value with people. However, the ability to communicate the value you are offering through writing is a skill set of its own. There is merit to writing just for yourself, but, then you lose out on the ability to effectively communicate your value to others (which will increase your likes and interactions).
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 06:59 PM
3

Lmao I saw that, what an entitled bitch. She thinks cuz she’s high status she can have whatever standard she wants. Sry hoe, it’s just your tits, and when they shrivel away, I’m not gonna wanna fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 08:40 PM
2

Here’s a bit of advice, so with a women, and in general, you dictate the frame. When you meet a women what are your intentions. For me, have fun and fuck her. Sometimes she may reject that frame but there’s always another chick. Now how do you show intention, imagine she’s already agreed to that and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 06:39 PM
1

Your frame isn’t about trying to control her, it’s about controlling yourself
/r/askTRP10/08/20 06:27 PM
1

Is it simply a matter of knowing what you want and holding frame? If she doesn’t submit to your frame whatever, but if she does then you’re game.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 08:51 AM
1

Hey, I commented on your most recent post and we had a short back and forth. Your content is really good for the point I’m at. My thoughts on this one are that as a man I have the power to decide what I want. A women doesn’t have the ability to decide that for herself. I’m going to reread the way of the superior man. Right now I think that as a man, I am able to decide what has meaning and is valuable and pursue it. This is why lifting is good advice for noobs because it has a lot of obvious val…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 02:58 AM
1

Got it. That’s pretty standard stuff actually. I’ll delete the post. Was kind of using it as a mind dump.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:39 AM
1

If she’s interested in you she wants you to escalate. Just do it, for your sake and for hers
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:26 AM
2

I’ve heard you have to pick 2 out of the 3. Sleep and work are the obvious ones and then you work in time to go out. Won’t he every night but if you’re looking for the time you’ll find it
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:29 PM
1

People aren’t gonna sit around for you. They have their own lives.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 10:45 AM
1

Great book. Gonna read it again. Gonna try to read this whole list l
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 04:49 AM
1

Got it. Appreciate the post and your time.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 06:19 AM
1

Alright so let me get this straight. I pursue my goals because I want to. I pursue them because they are intrinsically valuable. By pursuing them I become more like the man I want to become through experiences, challenges, etc. I go to the gym because I can be stronger and generally less of a bitch. Although I started in pursuit of women I now do it for myself and to realize my potential. I develop social skills because talking to people makes life more enjoyable and I want to be good at it. Alt…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 05:56 AM
3

My go to is “just the attractive ones”
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:40 AM
1

I made a post recently, check it out let me know if it helps
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:39 AM
3

In regards to women. Women are like babies, they experience lots of emotions constantly and in this sense they are like a series of waves(read the rational male). Your ability to withstand that unphased is attractive
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:32 PM
3

I would like to experience peak fitness. There are other things, but your post is right, I need to focus on one for now. I think I will ideally split my day into 3 things that I focus on.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 07:29 PM
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This is a comment I made on another post and I think it can help here too. I’ve was always introverted but still had one of the largest social circles and a lot of acquaintances. So first I will tell you how you can get a larger social circle and then I will tell you how you can become more extroverted. As I said, I was introverted, so I never spoke a lot, but, I was always listening and knew how to genuinely connect with people and could always chime in with insightful and witty comments. Liste…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:22 PM
6

I’ve was always introverted but still had one of the largest social circles and a lot of acquaintances. So first I will tell you how you can get a larger social circle and then I will tell you how you can become more extroverted. As I said, I was introverted, so I never spoke a lot, but I always was listening and knew how to chime in with a witty comment and could genuinely connect with people. Listen to people and respond accordingly and you will easily make friends. Realize that other people a…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:12 PM
1

I’ve gotten used to girls not liking me. Not a problem. When you say pull back and gauge their interests, what do you mean? Can you give an example? I do tend to be heavy on the questions which works alright but it’s not getting the result I want. What should I do in place of this?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:35 AM
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Correct
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:00 AM
2

Can confirm. Studying philosophy at a top 3 school. My people skills are leagues ahead of most of my piers.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:40 AM
2

I have confident eyes. Sometimes I get a bit uncomfortable but I can hold steady eye contact for a while. I’m always working on it, but it’s very good imo.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:19 AM
1

Just be honest about your intentions. That way you know if she’s down or not and you’re not deceiving her
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:58 AM
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No, it means when she’s bitching about something, you should be unphased
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:24 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:26 AM
1

I made one sexual joke. It went over well. I was just testing my comfort zone I guess. I’ll try to ramp it up.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:39 AM
1

I misphrased clearly. She is not anyone’s girlfriend. She is the friend of a couple
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:29 AM
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Not a friends girlfriend. A friend of my friend and his girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:25 PM
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Appreciate it. I’ve got work to do to improve but I’ve been seeing improvement in my cold approaches and I know I can get there
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:53 PM
2

So in summary strong eye contact is a good start but I won’t actually achieve anything unless I am touching them and ramping it up. On some level I want to do this naturally, I guess it’s just practice and getting more comfortable
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:31 PM
3

Find smarter girls. Be careful with looking for “the one” though.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:30 AM
1

Quality post. Approaching is key. Learn to talk to people. From your post it sounded like when you approach you keep it short. Would you recommend that?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 03:24 AM
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Yeah, I was thinking there’s no way this guy is actually happy
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 10:58 AM
3

I think a big part of it is context. Those pictures are stand alone and I’m not sure all of those emotions they are showing are genuine. I’m curious, what makes u say the quiz is bs, given your background?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 10:58 AM
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I I think some of the pictures were a bit ambiguous and the emotions they were showing didn’t seem entirely genuine.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 10:57 AM
1

Glad I could help. Enjoy yourself in college. Might I ask what you plan to study?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:59 PM
1

My idea Sure you can learn things on your own. But school is a proven method for learning things with hopefully experts who have been through a lot of it, they can help you. Plus you get to meet a lot of people and learn how to navigate a social and semi professional environment.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:04 AM
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Don’t listen to most of these people. I’m in college, it can be great. The guy that said make friends with the guys is right. Join a fraternity or a sports team. You should have access to a gym, start going. Join some clubs. You will meet guys and girls there with similar interests. Here’s the thing about me too. If you’re chasing girls and doing everything just to try to get them to sleep with you, you’re gonna get me tood. That’s cuz you’re not being genuine and the girls feel tricked. If you’…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:59 AM
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If you like this girl (I assume you do since you’ve been in a relationship for 2 years), then i wouldn’t cheat. You will regret it if you hurt someone you care about. If you don’t care that much, then just break up with her. I gotta go with the comments saying to explain it to her and try to get her to open up the relationship. If she doesn’t want to, then there’s your reason to break up with her
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:10 AM
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Burning bridges is never great. Being dgaf is about not having expectations and a desired outcome when you’re interacting with people. Do as you wish, if you keep acting the way you are you will drive people away from you. Do you think that boss ever wants to see your face again? Maybe you don’t care about them, but I’m sure there are people who you do want to see again
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:41 AM
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What I’ve noticed is that girls can tell when you’re being driven by ego validation. Imo it’s a sign of low status. What has worked for me is ignoring all judgements and just trying to have fun
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 09:29 PM
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I always just start with hey what’s your name. The key to approaching is just having fun and talking to them. Listen. For two I usually target one and bring the other in after a bit
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:45 AM
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Rightfully so, just get better and slay after
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:58 PM
1

Lmao bro, I imagine I’m a girl and I hear that, and I say, “alright, feel better. Don’t give me ur corona dirty fuck”
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:53 PM
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Why do you give a duck what they think. Live for yourself, get better. It’s a pandemic, they don’t want to be around you anyway You’re a pussy
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:52 PM
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You’re retarded. Just say you can’t go.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:33 AM
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Remember to have fun. When you approach don’t have any expectations. Just accept what happens and have fun.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:33 AM
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One thing that I forgot is to have fun. When you’re talking to a girl don’t worry about getting laid. That shouldn’t be on your mind. If you’re having fun and escalating you’ll get somewhere. Basically when you’re talking to a girl don’t have any expectations, just have fun in the moment. I have regressed in smv during quarantine but have still been able to see some success just by having fun. Approach a lot.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:23 AM
1

Probably to have fun. We only have one life, I want to enjoy it
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:50 AM
1

I’d rather just practice on other girls
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:32 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Glad you could get a laugh out of it.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:25 AM
1

Seems kinda weird, but it could work. I found something for now though. Thanks
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:16 AM
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You know I did some reading and I think I’m starting to get it. I have one life and I can do what I want with it. If I want to talk to people I can, and I should have fun with it since that’s how to make the most out of life, have fun with everything you do. And I guess in that case I’m giving an experience to another person.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:46 AM
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Don’t take her seriously
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:41 AM
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That’s really smart and probably true. I’ll try to get into the mindset of just having fun. Do you have any advice for the subconscious desire to take something from people instead of give them something. For example some mantra or something that I can use to rework my brain, because I think it’s probably true. Maybe just say, “I deserve to talk to people” to myself. It also definitely comes across in what I wrote above. I want to try to learn how to have fun but it seems somewhat counterintuiti…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:40 AM
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It’s pretty classic RP stuff imo. Treat her like your little sister
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:35 AM
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Thanks a lot. I try to approach girls I’m sexually attracted to, but I don’t pay much attention to it
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:21 AM
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Sort of, but I think my frame is strong enough to get away with what I want. I kind of just ignore it. (Betafication that is) I’m pretty mentally, and during the school year financially (working on getting a job for the summer also) independent
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:00 AM
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This is the sorta answer I wanted. I was asking if I should be doing anything else along with approaching. From your answer it sounds like I’ll be good if I just keep on approaching and don’t do anything else. So just tons of repetitions.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:57 AM
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I tried, she rejected my escalation. Seriously tho, if u don’t have any useful advice why are u here? Are you that bored? It’s the same way that people say yo treat her like your little sister. I don’t have a sister so my mom is the next best thing (considering they’re all pretty much the same). I assume people don’t have the easiest time just transitioning from no game to treating them like their little sister, what are the steps in between? If you can’t help, stfu
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:36 AM
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How to get laid like a warlord? It’s been a while, I’ll reread it tonight
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:35 AM
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?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:32 AM
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I knew these comments where coming lol. I find attractive girls attractive. I guess I’m talking about my level of comfort with random girls, is it just a matter of time before I’m as comfortable around randos as I am my family or do I need to do something else? But you don’t know, do you?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:31 AM
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It’s quarantine, I’m in college and 19. Technically I’m moved out but not rn
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:30 AM
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I wanna ask you about the comment above which spoke about being direct. I’ve been approaching recently. By now I’m fine with being rejected although I still have some approach anxiety. My game is pretty weak so that’s where I’m looking to improve. Should I be looking to have a conversation or be direct and to the point and let them know I wanna take them out?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:49 AM
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Probably cuz no one wants to fuck they’re fat wine drinking asses. It’s all good. You’re enjoying yourself? Then keep going. Women seem to like older guys, nothing is gonna stop that. I’m tryna be that 22 yo chad fucking the 22 yo’s. Even at 19 I’ve had some good run ins with women older than me.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:54 PM
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I’m also curious about this. How do you see if she’s worth it without cold approaching? Unless it’s in a social circle. If she’s not worth it you shouldn’t care if she rejects you anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:19 AM
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Thanks for articulating this
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:49 AM
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What do you mean by believe pickup videos? I take what’s useful to me and discard the rest. Same thing as everything, including here.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:39 AM
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We all do it for real. I rarely watch them also, but it’s something to supplement your experience.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:35 AM
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Developing social skills organically is fine to. I don’t see a downside to more practice however. I also think that you exercise some different skills through cold approach. I also don’t think that cold approaching defeats the frame of I’m the prize. It puts you on the back foot, but the girls sure as hell aren’t gonna do it. Something I saw on some pickup video said a good mentality is, I’m the prize, you seem interesting, are you good enough for the prize. Just a thought. In general though, I …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:31 AM
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How could approaching and conversing with people not be useful. You are constantly exercising your social skills, learning and experiencing new things, as well as potentially leaving your comfort zone. Very valuable in my opinion. As for not getting laid from it, it’s obviously not gonna have the highest conversion rate, but there are probably other things you can do like lift and make money that will help. When you’re cold approaching I don’t think you should go in with the mindset of trying to…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:37 AM
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Probably because trp isn’t about guns
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:00 PM
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You seem like kind of a dick, but if it’s working then wtv
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 07:51 AM
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Set up another date. Tell her not to pull that again. That’s if u want. If you feel disrespected next her. She did apologize so that’s something, but not much. No harm in trying 1 more time
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:23 AM
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Realize when it’s happening (meditate). Then count to 10 and breathe
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:21 AM
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Get big and fix posture Graduate with 4.4-4.6 Gpa Find a passion Have fun
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:05 PM
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If you think of life as a video game and random people as npcs then you realize there’s no need to emotionally invest in an npc
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:02 PM
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He still plays, he has a setup in his studio. He quit but still plays from time to time
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:28 AM
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Bullshit, plenty of successful ppl play video games. Joe Rogan, tons of rappers and I’m sure many more
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:39 PM
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Why can’t you do those things and play video games. Why does every minute of your day have to be productive?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 09:21 AM
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Okay, the consensus seems to be in extreme moderation. 1-2 hours max
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:49 AM
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You don’t need to not have glasses to do that. It wasn’t the glasses holding you back, it was a mindset. Fortunately loosing the glasses seemed to fix that mindset.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:04 AM
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Yeah probably true that it’s better without them. I plan to get surgery pretty soon. But, it’s really not that bad for attraction. It’s a much smaller factor than many other things.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:55 AM
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Yeah, but what if I don’t care. And yes, I wear glasses
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:40 AM
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Alright, my thoughts exactly
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:38 AM
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Fair point. 5 hours, however, is obviously excessive. I’m talking about maybe an hour and a half that you have allotted on your schedule as free time.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:32 AM
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I like how all of the comments here saying he sounds pretentious as shit are probably from nobodies who joined this sub less than a year ago. Meanwhile the author is an ec. Obviously he sounds pretentious. He knows shit, and you don’t. Get over it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I was considering running the bridge. I do eventually want to get to programming for myself so I’ll read those suggestions. So based on your advice of hard sets per body part, do you think that the accessory work that I’ve added can make up for the flaws with bbb, or should I just abandon that entirely. I think the way I had it set up I was hitting each body part 2ce a week. It may have read differently above.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 09:32 AM
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Alright fair enough, I have heard this in the past. Do you have any hypertrophy program recommendations. I personally recognized the volume and intensity was lacking on this program so I added accessories. (Inclined bench, close grip, split squats, good mornings, etc. as well as dumbbell accessories for each body part. There’s probably 3 accessories for each main exercise) is this enough to compensate for the lackins of the program? Do you recommend I switch to ppl or something? I do like the id…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 07:47 AM
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I’m wondering what a year of optimal training looks like. I split my year between 5x5 and 5/3/1 bbb. I personally think that optimal training is at most 20% programming. Obviously do a proven program, but as long as you are consistent, eating enough, and sleeping well, you will make decent gains. My calorie surplus is informed by MyFitnessPal which tells you how much you should eat based on your goals. It has been recommended many times and I will continue to use it and it’s information.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 08:41 PM
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There is no search for knowledge. The knowledge is widely accessible and easy to use. Download MyFitnessPal plug in your goals. Eat accordingly. My daily goal is 3500 calories. Whether you think that’s too much or not idrc. I made about 18 pounds of gains in my first year of lifting. Am I an expert? No. But, I know what’s gotten me results. I fully agree that gomad is not an ideal diet. I would stray away from calling people who do it retards though. If gomad is what it takes to get you to stop …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 08:18 PM
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I can manage to stay lean with my surplus rn. I’ve always been quite lean so my body handles the extra calories well. If it starts to go wrong I will cut down.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 10:55 PM
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I usually invite them to a party or event that my fraternity is hosting. Best thing to do for a date is do what you usually do for fun. Also don’t get discoursged by bad reactions to your cold approach. Smile and keep asking questions/talking bs. It’s a shit test
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:57 PM
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No. I walk up, say hey, how’s it going. Follow with What’s you’re name. Quick questions about their year and stuff and move on to other stuff. What’s important is strong eye contact from the outset and being confident. Don’t invest in the approach going well, you have already succeeded by approaching, now just have fun.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:47 PM
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In dining halls, in class, at parties. If I have a good conversation I’ll say let’s hang out sometime and grab their number. Sometimes I get rejected, it’s all part of the process
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:41 PM
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Also the been lifting for a month part was a part of the monologue. At this point it’s been a year +. I was trying to highlight how I slowly phased in good habits and out bad ones.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:26 PM
1

As I said I also haven’t tried it. There is a highly upvoted post on here about it. I suggest you read it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:55 PM
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My tdee is 3000. I eat 400-500 more daily. For some people it will be more for some less, hence the 3000-4000 calorie range.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:44 PM
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Here is a further look at my experience if you care for it As for new hobbies. I dabbled with guitar for about 5 months. Now I do creative writing and am thinking about starting a YouTube channel that applies learnings of philosophical texts to the modern day among other things. As I said I will also be starting wrestling in the fall. Here is my work life balance. I feel a pseudo schedule is best for this Weekdays look something like this 7:00: Wake up, check email, brush teeth, wash face 7:15-9…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:36 PM
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Also I think you misread that. Half a gallon of chocolate milk and the REMAINDER of the 3-4000 calories. The cap here is 4000. I know that any more is retarded. Lmk if that clears thing up.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:28 PM
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I also prefaced this by saying that it had worked for me in the past. So it is all based on experience... I’m not sure where you’re getting the idea of no experience when this is all based on my personal life.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:25 PM
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Yeah, fair point. I don’t think you need to be on top to have valuable advice. You can give advice from all stages of the journey as there will always be people ahead of and behind you. As for new hobbies. I dabbled with guitar for about 5 months. Now I do creative writing and am thinking about starting a YouTube channel that applies learnings of philosophical texts to the modern day. Here is my work life balance. I feel a pseudo schedule is best for this Weekdays look something like this 7:00: …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:24 PM
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There is certainly some practical advice in there. Read the section on social skills. That is all hard work that I have put in to improve my social skills and heat my anxiety and depression.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:11 PM
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Yeah, fair point. I don’t think you need to be on top to have valuable advice. You can give advice from all stages of the journey as there will always be people ahead of and behind you. I would rephrase your statement to: you can’t see everything until you are at the top. You can certainly look down before you are at the top, you just won’t see the whole picture, only what you have done and the progress you have made. As for new hobbies. I dabbled with guitar for about 5 months. Now I do creativ…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:10 PM
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It’s more an introduction to proper eating. I know that especially at the beginning I had trouble eating a solid 3-4 calories and the milk definitely helped. Many beginners don’t have an understanding of exactly how much they need to eat to gain weight. Even when if they know the number of calories, the sheer volume can be challenging. Gomad or a diet based on liquid calories removes that concern which is great for someone wanting to get into the gym. Half a gallon of chocolate milk is excellent…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:07 PM
2

It’s like any other skill. Take... riding a bike for example
/r/askTRP30/05/20 07:43 AM
1

Factual
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:04 PM
1

Drink chocolate milk. I do half a gallon a day, you might need a whole gallon. Eat 4 meals a day of 500+ calories. That will put you at 5000 calories already. Snacks and protein shakes for anything extra
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:17 PM
1

Late to this post, but this is absolutely correct. I’ve noticed that the times I’ve been on my best game we’re when I’m eating well, hitting the gym hard, drug free, sleeping well, etc. I still have some problems with the drug free and sleep but I’m getting there and I know it’s entirely in my control. Anyone who doesnt think this is true probably just doesn’t want to deal with the fact that they’re a pot head
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 02:29 AM
3

Get there and find out.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 05:23 PM
2

I study philosophy, kinda wanna go into law. It’s pretty fun
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:25 AM
0

Frame imo opinion is about remaining rational and critical at all times
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:37 PM
3

Still not funny
/r/askTRP06/04/20 09:22 PM
8

Haha I’m a bitch
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:51 PM
0

Do stronglifts 5x5 If you have a good amount of money drink half a gallon of chocolate milk a day. Then for breakfast eat 5 eggs scrambled and 2 pieces of bacon. Then for lunch eat at least 700 calories. Then for dinner eat protein. Pb and j before bed with a glass of milk. Protein shake on days where you lift. Do this till you can squat 225 at least
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:51 PM
2

I believe if you’re on mission and she admires you for your mission and helps you, you may be able to love each other at the same time. A scenario I just though of
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:44 AM
12

Escalate physically.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:38 PM
2

No one burned you, you burned yourself with your autism
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:13 PM
-1

Lmaoo. Magic
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:23 AM
1

What a surprise
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:49 PM
1

It’s not always true that when someone says do what I say not what I do that they’re incapable, in my experience some of the most capable people I know just have a level of dgaf where they don’t follow their own advice, but the advice is really good and clearly has been implemented by them in the past
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:47 AM
1

Most people my age 18-20 are pretty retarded. Luckily I’m surrounded by smart people all the time at my school. But I wouldn’t fall into the trap of thinking everyone around you is a retard. You will lose a lot of opportunities and it’s pretty naive to think you are smarter than everyone around you. What makes you so sure of that? Not only that, but it seems like it would make socializing a lot lot harder if you’re always infuriated by whoever you’re talking to’s mental inferiority.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:33 AM
1

Try to game her with just body language. It would be good practice. Although if you work with her it’s probably not worth it. Maybe learn a few lines like do you want to go out so you don’t have to escalate at work
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:27 AM
2

Get busy. Go to the gym - 2 hrs a day Get a hobby - 1-2 hrs a day Work/School 6-8 hrs a day Eat well - 1 hr a day Stay clean- 1 hr a day Relax - 1-2 hrs a day Maybe read - 1 hrs a day On the low end this is 14 hrs a day With sleep then you’re looking at 22 With that you definitely won’t be over available
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:24 AM
2

Not sure I agree. She definitely won’t come back. It’s called alpha fucks for a reason. Meaning he fucks her good. That’s a big part of what keeps girls coming back.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:21 AM
1

Sounds pretty good. I’m in college and recently fell into the trap of trying to hard. I’ve resolved yo focus on myself and just build my social circle as much as possible.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:20 AM
3

Idk I like rap. I have a couple of friends that like country. When I asked why? One of them said because it’s fast. Good response, I learned to appreciate it more after that.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:17 AM
2

The reason is you want to get to know them. Could be you’re bored or whatever. Don’t worry about how they respond, just try to enjoy yourself and learn something. You can start with how’s it going. Good? Some responses I can think of, Good good or everyday good? What’s you do today? In line at a coffee shop? Then you could say what are you getting or any suggestions? Ask them about something they have or are wearing The point isn’t to entertain them but yourself. Not only that, but to move the c…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:11 AM
11

Lift and do hard shit. Talk to a lot of girls. A looot. Then you’ll stop giving a fuck and you should be in much better standing than you are now. Don’t worry about pua stuff. Just talk to people wherever you can. See a girl you think is hot, walk up and say hey.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:42 PM
1

You too
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:34 PM
3

Then you don’t understand the sidebar. Read it again. Idc that you’re not interested in random sex, just don’t have it
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:21 PM
8

Because if you loved all that you wouldn’t need to be here. If you love it what is your problem. Oh wait, it’s probably that you don’t get girls. If you love being beta though, then you also love not getting girls and you have no reason to want to change. Taking trp is not a cake walk. I’ll add, you sound like a bitch in this post. No one cares about your problems, what you like and what you don’t. Just if you want to fix your life, fix it (assuming you see it as needing fixing). When you run in…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:06 PM
7

Yeah this is something I realized on my own and had to fix consciously.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:56 PM
3

Naturals are people who become red pilled early in life because of Good looks Money Social status Strong frame You really only need one of these early on to be considered attractive so that’s enough to become red pilled. Attain these things and you won’t really need their advice m
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:06 AM
-2

Quite the opposite. It’s clear this guy has plates and generally doesn’t give a fuck about them.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:01 AM
19

“If you concerned with a another man and you’re not gay, that’s bitch shit” I’m young and this is great advice. Good video
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 07:18 AM
2

I agree, I have gotten to the point I’m at despite smoking weed from age 16. Can say it is not worth it. I still smoke occasionally but I am much more in control now
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:12 AM
1

Personally I have thrown dieting out the window for now. My body naturally maintains low body fat so I still look good no matter what I eat. I track my diet when I want to gain weight, but since gyms are closed right now I don’t want to gain weight. I have a diet plan for when things open back up and will get into it as soon as possible. Main things I’m doing are drinking a lot of water, and trying not to eat like complete shit. That being said, if you’re fat, now is the perfect time to lose wei…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:16 PM
1

Glad I’m not the only one
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:33 PM
56

He’s not relying on it clearly, it’s bonus
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:52 AM
1

Retard alert. Nice bait
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:02 AM
1

Ig, it’s hard to teach outcome independence tho, you have to experience it
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:26 AM
0

There’s nothing to learn. It’s a text message
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:23 AM
0

-10 for posting about it
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:20 AM
3

Do stuff with them. Invite them to bars, to hike... just do stuff. That’s how you make and maintain friends assuming you’re not a social autist
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:44 AM
1

I can’t read the post cuz it’s deleted, but did you not consider what you were going to do when you dropped out before you dropped out?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 09:23 AM
1

She wanted to fuck. If you get another chance go for it, otherwise just next I’d say
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:49 AM
2

Another variation is Push Pull Leg Rest Push Pull Leg Rest
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:38 AM
1

A plate is for sex. Tf are u trying
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:35 AM
1

Just lower calories by 200 every week until you’re losing weight weekly
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:15 PM
3

Lift weights Eat well Sleep well Talk to people everywhere Dress better Get a haircut
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:25 AM
1

IMO getting mad is almost always losing frame. Except if someone touches you or your girl (violently), then beat the shit out of them. If someone steps bounds it’s okay to get angry, but remain in control.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:49 PM
1

Sleep well, eat a lot. Should solve all your problems
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:22 PM
5

Put your arm around her waist. Pull her legs over yours. That being said I’m not that good at escalating, but that’s what I did the first time
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:31 AM
1

I’m tryna help you man. Eat 3500 calories a day (half a gallon of chocolate milk helps) and do stronglifts 5x5 for six months. Talk to me then
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:37 AM
1

Eat more and heavy weights. And you don’t have that option so don’t worry about it
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:36 AM
1

Absolutely not, but I’d rather be 5’4 and ocky than 5’4 and a scrawny bitch I know a couple of short as men. 2 are ocky and I would never fuck with them. 1 is scrawny but still gets more pussy than anyone I know cuz he dgaf. Just work on yourself
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:47 AM
1

Just get big and stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:43 AM
1

Punch him in the dick
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:13 AM
2

Go ahead and cut now if u want to I’d say -250 is good, -400 to be safe. If you’re scared then don’t cut now or work harder
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:24 PM
2

If someone slaps the back of your head smack the shit out of them, deadass.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:58 PM
1

Street style is litty. I’m in college and I always get complements from chicks on my style. Girls literally feel me up cuz of what I wear, although not that attractive ones :(
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:57 PM
10

Eat well and do body weight. It won’t be perfect but it will help. Me honestly I’m not really too worried. I’ll get right back to it when the gyms open back up, that’s the most important thing to me
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:55 PM
1

u/bsutansalt what happened to this?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 10:37 PM
1

You can easily make good progress. But if you want to be a beast, eat right. It’s also not that hard. Just get MyFitnessPal on the App Store. You can use a tdee calculator and add 500. Compare that to what MyFitnessPal tells you to eat. Then just add food until you buy your daily calories. Eating the same thing every day helps also
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:45 AM
0

Now would be the time
/r/askTRP21/03/20 05:46 AM
1

With conscious effort
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:28 AM
5

The best game is being attractive and ngaf. Don’t worry about emulating asshole game, that’s stupid. Just become attractive I.e. lift
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:43 AM
1

If you’re so lit just find another chick
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:14 AM
1

Same here. I have a role in my frat where I don’t get to drink during parties. My game is infinitely better when I’m sober. Love it
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 09:32 PM
1

Okay
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:57 PM
1

I guess I’m asking what makes them nerdy as opposed to non-nerdy. You said anime. Anime as opposed to what, lifting?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:56 PM
1

As opposed to?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:41 PM
1

So just go to have fun, don’t worry about that shit, it’s in your head.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:11 AM
1

Thanks for always promoting going to the gym. This is the only way you’ll see any real success with trp.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:02 AM
5

Came to say this
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:46 AM
1

I know I’m enough, I’m thinking logically rn.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:57 AM
1

That’s what I’m focused on. Gym. Gaining status in my fraternity, and securing a good job. It seems pretty hard to appear high smv at this age, so I’m on the grind for how
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:55 AM
1

The link on the side bar “all in one red pill” or something like that talks about what drives social alliances
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:22 PM
2

You’re not annoying, but they don’t really have a reason to meet up with you again if they don’t know you. Maybe at the end you can try saying “it was nice to meet you guys, we should hang out again sometime” and grab their info, but don’t expect them to just become friends with you
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:21 PM
3

If you’re just trying to join social groups you need to offer value. The best way to join a social group would be to join a club or something of the sort, not just to try an infiltrate random groups
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:03 PM
1

Just add conditioning to 5x5. 5x5 is a good strength program.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:04 PM
1

Thanks, will do
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:12 AM
1

Okay, guess I’ll find out if she’s actually interested.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:11 AM
1

Do you think this would result in asd?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:04 AM
2

That’s the plan. I’ve already got others lined up if it doesn’t work out
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:59 AM
3

Alright, this is what I needed to hear
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:51 AM
1

Okay, that’s what I thought. I made a post about it before and people said that was stupid, just invite them over to watch something. It seems like asd would come up frequently. I’ve already done the small talk.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:23 AM
2

Yes, that is what I should say?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:20 AM
2

I do this as well. I want to know how to pull this girl in my class. But I think I got it, I’ll just try the inviting her to watch a movie. I don’t really care about getting rejected. I’ll manage that if it happens
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:55 AM
2

Cool, thanks
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:17 AM
1

Sounds good, tnx
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:17 AM
2

Lmao okay. It seemed a bit weird. Do you have any suggestions?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:12 AM
2

She’s got something good going as in a nice ass? or as in getting to hang out with me? This is the worst part of my game unfortunately so I appreciate the advice, but can you be more specific. But from what I’m getting, don’t even suggest anything else. Just say I’m gonna hang out with her, and then get her back to my place.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:58 AM
3

You’re a retard. Fuck you for wasting my time
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:09 PM
2

Bro stop being a bitch. It’s not coming back. Just do what you can, you will be fine.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:04 PM
2

People will be able to tell if you lift. Bro idk what else to tell you. Do it or don’t. If you want to start with stronglifts 5x5 next week
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:03 PM
3

Yeah, you’ll still get chicks. Plus you’re self esteem will go up and you’ll probably eventually think your handsome. Don’t worry about what results will come, just hit the gym and find out. And don’t give up early. Give it at least a year and a half
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:48 PM
6

Be bald and muscular. Then you’ll fuck the hot girls. So the actionable advice, hit the gym.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:42 PM
1

Put your alarm across the room is something over heard. Also just don’t be a bitch. Just get up. It helps if you have something to do like go to the gym You have the will to get out of bed, otherwise you wouldn’t have written this post. Now just do it. Throw your covers off and sit up.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:49 PM
7

I don’t think it makes you a pussy. I believe most people go through a phase where they do stuff for pussy. You just gotta grow out of that shit
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 03:22 PM
4

Doesn’t really matter. I did stronglifts and got good results. Just choose one and start
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:13 PM
3

Alright, that’s usually what I do. If it’s a girl I’ll chuckle a bit and move on.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:43 PM
33

Na, from what I understand your currency is attention hers is sex. So if she withdraws sex you attention. If it doesn’t work, I’d say just move on
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:28 PM
49

Soft next/ reduce your attention
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:25 PM
1

This sounds like a party or club setting. What about when you meet her in line or something
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:31 AM
1

So for 3, I should be trying to escalate even with girls I’ve just met. Sometimes I’ve done the let me feel your clothes or let me see your jewelry shit. So stuff like that?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:25 PM
0

I read it, and I’m telling you if you feel disrespected by shit tests your self esteem is too low. You can go around telling girls to stop shit testing you cuz your feelings are hurt but you probably won’t get far
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:15 PM
1

You shouldn’t feel disrespected by shit tests. You should see it as a funny attempt to fuck with you.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:12 PM
2

When you feel disrespected
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:50 PM
1

I see
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:33 AM
1

Yeah I wouldnt say this guy is af, he just happens to be pretty attractive cuz his dick, and he’s not a twig
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:23 AM
7

So true, it brightens there day when you’re not a pussy
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:37 AM
1

Seems like a pretty good balance to me. Some 5/3/1 variations are decent for that but it’s really hard to mix the two without prioritizing one.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:04 PM
1

This is right, I’ve been lifting for a year, did strength for all of that time, made good gains. Now it’s time to add some mass and then I just plan to cycle back and forth between the two.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:58 PM
1

She wants to be yours. Commitment.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:07 PM
2

The same way anyone else does. Eat less. Download MyFitnessPal, count the calories that you eat every day for a week. Average them. Then subtract 300 from that number. Restrict yourself to that everyday. Stick to it until your satisfied with the results. Start lifting at the same time.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:04 PM
5

This is literally all you need to ever do. Trying to impress her with a line or joke is retarded. Only do that if it’s contextually relevant and it’s for your own entertainment
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:01 PM
1

Nice mantra, will use
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:42 PM
1

Just keep looking at their eyes and asking questions. Almost always works for me. Also be outcome independent, I usually smile when this happens.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:38 PM
0

I’m in college so don’t really have experience. But I assume the basics would be track your monthly expenses. Then you know how much you bring in a month and how much you spend. Then you can save some of that difference. Generally just be smart with how you use it, sounds like you probably got that covered.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:37 PM
0

Complete bullshit
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:31 PM
0

Wait i misread, I thought you were instructing hmm to go on a shooting spree
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:43 AM
1

If he were, this would not be the thing to say
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:42 AM
1

Probably cuz he lifts
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:24 AM
5

Go cold for a bit, re escalate, then go for kiss again
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:02 AM
1

Cold approaching on campus is a great strategy, especially if you’re attractive Mx
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:08 AM
1

Cool, started at 18, 1 year in. I’ve been seeing progress. I started by getting my strength up to a respectable point and now it’s time to pack on the size
/r/askTRP03/03/20 11:17 PM
1

How young an age? How many years do you have in the game and when did things really start to set in?
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:01 PM
2

How long did it take to get to this point? I’m 19 started lifting almost exactly a year ago. Started with strength now I’m moving to mass. I look good but still pretty small. I’m currently bulking. I also know you said your waist stats but what is your height weight
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:59 PM
1

Wasn’t his question
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:04 AM
2

Did you read this shit when you wrote it and actually not feel shit about yourself
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:56 PM
5

Gradually work out again. Start by walking 30 minutes each day. Then get into the gym as soon as possible. You have to start. You will never get better if you don’t start. So tomorrow, go outside and walk to the corner. Next day, go a bit further. Just keep on doing that
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:14 AM
3

Shit test, just keep talking to them. Maybe pick them up at some point
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:16 AM
3

It’s pretty simple, have the conversation. If at the end you like the person say “hey, I enjoyed chatting with you. I’ll grab your number, we should hang out some time” something like that
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 06:11 AM
12

Muscles Good face - cute Good face and muscles - hot af If you don’t have a good face but still have muscles, probably still hot af
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:00 PM
1

So start approaching 1 person a day. Then when your comfortable with that increase it. Don’t worry about results, you’re just practicing.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:00 PM
1

Do you lift, do you approach on a regular basis? If you do these things, you will have that feeling more often
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:14 PM
22

The kind of an attractive man. If you’re good looking (lift) and have some decent status, they’ll probably be fine with whatever flirting you do. I’ve recently seen this and it’s pushing me to work harder in the gym, and I haven’t even been slacking in the gym. Get big homie
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:18 PM
0

What makes hanging out with you seem not boring?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:46 AM
1

Lmao yeah
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:00 PM
2

Still lmao. But you still have to talk to her if you want anything to happen. Even if she finds you attractive from a distance, that’s gonna fade if you don’t do anything.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:58 PM
1

Bruh what? You looked at each other. What do you expect to happen, that she’s gonna fall for you just from that. You have to go talk to her. Doesn’t matter if there are “white knights” around. They had a better shot there than you because at least they were interacting with her.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:52 PM
4

When you see a lady that makes ur dick hard, talk to her.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:02 AM
1

Bro if you actually want to gain weight, go online, calculate your tdee, and I’ll tell you what to eat every day and what lifts to do to put on mass. You’re a skinny fuck, from what it sounds like it must be hard to look at you.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:14 AM
1

You’re being a pussy. Keep on lifting heavy weights
/r/askTRP27/02/20 01:57 AM
2

Sounds like you want to. I would say just try it and see what happens. Worst case you just have to ignore each other. Also I’m curious what your stats are such that that was her reaction to you. Height BW Lifts
/r/askTRP27/02/20 01:56 AM
2

Just fucking talk to her. You need to do that for anything to happen. I would also advise waiting to the end of the semester. This is her job so she’s not gonna risk that and essentially her career to fuck you. Also if the class is to boost your gpa, why do you not care about passing, especially if it’s so easy for you. Just knock out the easy A, there’s literally no downside.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 01:47 AM
1

You’re an idiot lol
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:13 PM
1

“I have less now since I got in a fight” Some retard logic “Ima fuck this guy up”
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:08 PM
1

You’re not going about getting high status in the right way. Focus on your fucking sport and academics. That’s how you get high status in life. Don’t worry about high status in hs, although you already are pretty high status since you’re an athlete. Just stop being a dumbass and make some friends
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:58 PM
0

Seriously, I would suggest you don’t drink at all. You are in charge so you need to stay competent. No one else will do it for you.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 05:57 AM
1

Yeah I got it
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:01 AM
1

Will do
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:44 AM
1

This seems like a pretty good idea. It just seems odd with girls I’ve just met, so I have a few questions. Do you have success with meeting a girl and then the next time you see her suggesting Netflix and chill? Do you just ask them “want to come watch some Netflix this weekend” in person? Do you text? How long do you get to know them before suggesting it?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:08 AM
1

Have you had any success with study dates?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:51 AM
1

Yeah I agree, much easier close. Without drinks I guess I could just go for a walk, but I’d rather say I wanna grab coffee than go for a walk. I’m also in a frat so we have parties sometimes, I can use that for girls that I think are more inclined in that direction.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:18 AM
1

Not old enough to go out for drinks. That’s why I was gonna do coffee
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:11 AM
1

What I do is at meal times I approach people I see eating alone. Usually I don’t do heavy flirting unless. Mainly I’m focused on developing my approaching and conversation skills rn, but you could definitely get more flirty
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:21 AM
1

I would consider myself pretty masculine. In a room of men of 10 I’m probably in the top 2. I know how to approach with confidence and I have internalize I am enough.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:58 AM
1

Sounds good. What if they hit on you first though?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:31 AM
1

Yeah this girl had red flags like any club girl, but if you’re going out to fuck a club girl why not the one you think is hottest. Maybe I’m wrong.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:22 AM
3

I honestly feel like the focus on shit tests on the side bar threw me off. I was actively looking for them where as now that I’m more confident I kind of just ignore them all together, and then I’ll realize a few seconds after, “oh, I guess that was a shit test.”
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 05:01 PM
1

The reason why I asked is because I had gone in for the kiss before and she kinda backed away. Then I went in again and she said that/seemed hesitant. But in the future I’ll follow this advice
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:21 PM
1

Cool, thank you.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:04 PM
1

How would you’d you use push pull in this situation? It seems I might have done it wrong. Also are there any posts on operant conditioning?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 12:13 PM
1

Both were done. If by escalate you mean start kissing her as soon as we got to my room, wouldn’t that be against plausible deniability? Or is that fine? I also don’t see how her coming to my house and room excludes her from being innocent. She was high interest, but she didn’t want to have sex with someone she just met. Is that really so hard to believe.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 11:01 AM
2

Be black
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:23 AM
2

No my banter was on point tonight. Including when I was escalating. It was actually especially good when I was escalating. She was laughing and having a good time.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:55 AM
0

Sounds good. I used some push pull. Removed my arm from around her waist and stuff. I didn’t bail immediately cuz she’s a nice girl and I didn’t want to be an asshole, but she left pretty soon after.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:57 AM
2

Yeah that’s what I thought. I backed off once she said that. I realized this probably isn’t gonna happen. Thanks for the confirmation
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:55 AM
20

Honestly you’re probably bad in the bed
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:42 PM
0

Take a cold shower too. Approach someone’s
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:21 AM
1

This. Sit down next to someone. Say, “hey, what’s your name.” and then have a conversation.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:59 AM
3

Fucking relax
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:47 AM
1

Its a question. I wouldn’t simply adopt what he says as spoken word. I’m not here to qualify myself to his answer. I’m young and don’t know what I believe masculinity to be yet. there is something to learn from his answer. I can find out if I agree or not. So yes, it does help define mine since I don’t know what it is.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 01:45 AM
1

Op I’ve got a question. How would you define your inner man and how would you go about finding it
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 11:21 PM
58

Much needed post. Recently started adopting this mindset. Improve yourself. And just do what you want to. Don’t worry about how others will perceive it, you can’t and don’t need to be perfect
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 08:39 PM
1

Pro tip, make a punch. Cheap and will get you drunk fast
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:45 AM
1

Also not counting macros is a big problem
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:01 AM
2

😂😂
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:57 PM
1

Did it for a while and then did it for a while with chocolate milk. It’s not fun, but you’ll gain weight
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:13 AM
1

This is great stuff and just what I’ve been looking for as someone in college wanting to prepare for what comes after. I was wondering what are your credentials. Is this from personal experience or are you a professional of some sort?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 08:32 PM
1

I had this problem. Just slow down. You know there’s nothing to worry about, so take your time with opening. It goes a long way. I used to walk up to people and say hey with a meek voice and would get no type of engagement. Now anyone I walk up to is immediately ready to have a conversation. Don’t worry about your face, make eye contact. I find that when making eye contact I smile more naturally because you can sort of see what they’re thinking. One way to get over that feeling of having your th…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:23 AM
8

Suits, Archer, Californication, Mad Men. All have good male leads
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:55 PM
4

Some 5/3/1 variant BBB is decent but it’s more body building than strength Otherwise Texas method, Madcow 5x5 . Just google a bit
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:16 AM
64

Have you actually gotten any pussy since?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 05:47 AM
1

Sounds good, thanks
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:14 PM
1

Alright, so take it slower with kino. What type of convo should I be having for hard kino? Or does it not really matter, do I just need to start slowly and ramp up to that stuff regardless of the convo
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:00 PM
1

Keep lifting. Meditate, keep track of where your mental is at. Don’t try to fix everything at once, just one you notice something you don’t like take note.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:42 AM
2

Doesn’t matter if you have a disorder. That’s your problem. It’s not gonna go away till u fix it. What do you want me to say? Keep on lifting and eventually you won’t need to sleep or eat. Get that shit together first
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:34 PM
2

Hmm, maybe sleep and eat well
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:31 PM
1

Older than 19. Like 20-40
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:20 PM
1

I grew up in nyc so I mainly know places for people in hs and college (I’m 19) but for older folk the village is a good place to start. But really anywhere. No shortage of hot chicks
/r/askTRP02/01/20 07:34 AM
2

Just ditch him. Also if you’re the amog just kick him out
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:08 AM
13

What I’ve notice is that most of the people I know that do well with women had a pretty privileged background. Family had money, played sports, etc. this leads to good social skills and people wanting to be their friends cuz they have stuff and so they’re used to being on top. These things tend to correlate with being white as they’re more established in the west. Nothing to be jealous of, just work hard and you’ll surpass them.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:00 AM
1

Sad
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:51 PM
1

I am currently aiming to develop my writing skills ( I am in college). Is copywriting a good application of good writing skills and does it make a lot of money?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:50 PM
1

Idk I’ve always been quiet because I was anxious. Now I’m less anxious and still relatively quiet, so I’m wondering if I need to work on being more talkative.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:24 AM
2

Sounds good. It seems to me that most naturals talk a lot and it’s just that they have a high level of confidence.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:54 AM
1

Didn’t realize. But yeah, this guy needs half a gallon
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 02:46 PM
4

More like half a gallon. And make protein shakes with 4 scoops of peanut butter and 2 cups of milk. Ice cream for bonus
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 02:29 PM
1

I’m just started reading this book psycho cybernetics. Could have some stuff to help you develop a better self image. Haven’t finished it yet but it seems good so far
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:25 PM
2

What did your diet look like to gain 50lbs
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 03:21 PM
1

How did you become more social without alcohol. I have very good social skills when buzzed, looking to achieve maybe not the same level but something similar while sober. I talk to a lot of randos whenever I’m out. Any advice?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:53 PM
1

How did you become more social without alcohol. I have very good social skills when buzzed, looking to achieve maybe not the same level but something similar while sober. I talk to a lot of randos whenever I’m out. Any advice?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:53 PM
1

Lmao this nigga said he skinny and he’s almost maxed
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:27 AM
6

I’m fucking dead
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:16 AM
0

No they don’t, they’re better off naturally but if chad sat in his basement playing league he would quickly be not chad
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:22 PM
2

Im thinking of it as having the goal of becoming a god. Also, great read. I plan to write this well some day.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 09:39 AM
3

No matter what ur not gonna look amazing after 6 months. SL is good cuz it gives u a good strength basis
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:45 AM
0

A$ap
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:53 PM
1

Yeah I’ve been at it for a while, my confidence is definitely at an all time high. Now I’m just tryna figure out how to continue on that trajectory
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:02 AM
1

Okay. I try talking to people randomly but the interactions die out quickly. I’ll try going to everything I’m invited to
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:15 AM
1

Got it. I’m pretty sure I know what I’ve got to do. That helped
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:10 AM
2

Also do core work
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:02 AM
1

During parties I have a job. If I don’t do it, our house gets shut down. So yes, I was busy; dealing with cops until 1:30. The only roadblock I saw is her saying she had to leave at 1:40 to make the bus (not self created I’ll point out), which seems pretty legit to me. If you’re suggesting just ignore her saying that and go for it anyway, I can get with that. I’ll try it next time.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:46 PM
1

So the lesson is I didn’t make logistics happen. Sure, what do I do about that next time. Also would you like to point out the excuses I made?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:32 PM
3

We were gonna do that but it’s 40 bucks. Idk ig the move is next
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:49 PM
1

I knew she wanted to fuck. I wanted her to stay longer but she couldn’t, there’s a last bus at 1:50, I was done with my job at 1:30, 10 minute walk to the bus, do the math. When I was done I immediately took her away from her friends and got her alone. She knew we were only gonna have 10 or so minutes alone and stayed anyway. Also she was into me before she knew I was running the party, we had a mixer with her social group beforehand. Bad analysis of the situation.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:41 PM
1

It’s happened a couple of times. I think I’m generally pretty entertaining and self amused. I usually end up having a good laugh with the girls I’m with. What would you describe as boring?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:32 PM
3

Ah I see, makes sense. That’s annoying
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:02 PM
2

Hmm, I rly wasn’t that available during the party. I checked up on her a couple times but at one point she literally said hang out with me, to which I responded I can’t rn. Also all my texts to her during the party were me telling her to wait 10 more minutes for us to be able to hang out. Idk maybe ur right
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:54 PM
1

What should I practice? Particularly to gain a general confidence
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:11 PM
1

Hmm, okay
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:43 PM
12

By lil uzi vert
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:09 PM
1

You’re fucking her right? Then don’t worry. She’s not a relationship. She’s a plate.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:35 AM
2

Perfect is boring because it’s predictable
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:44 AM
8

Cold approaching is good for building confidence and social skills though.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:29 PM
17

Because you’re not attractive
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:18 PM
2

Noted
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:06 PM
6

She wants to please you because she likes you
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:58 PM
1

My diet is pretty healthy, no soda (sometimes I treat myself to apple juice but I drink close to a gallon of water a day), no candy etc. Right now I’m bulking so I’m eating a bit mor fat than I would like. I go to the gym 4 days a week and lift quite heavy for my size (5’11” 150lbs squat 225x5 bench 150x5 deadlift 275x5) nothing spectacular but I’m definitely healthy. I also meditate 10 min a day besides Saturdays which I consider my off day. I haven’t watched porn in about a year now. I usually…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:22 PM
2

Okay, I can find a copy. It’s been mentioned here a lot, does it cover the basics?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:15 PM
1

Yeah I kinda wanted more experience (I guess I learned don’t try to have sex when ur drunk af) I’m also tryna see how many weeks in a row I can get with a girl lol. But yeah I agree with being able to decline sex. ImI would be able to if I genuinely wanted to.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:14 PM
2

Thanks, any tips on keeping it in lol. I’m generally rock hard unless I’ve masturbate like 12 hrs before so I’ll keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:08 PM
10

She wants to please you
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:01 PM
7

Then fix al of those things and trust me by then you’ll be confident. Besides the short, you just gotta deal with that
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:05 PM
0

It doesn’t matter. She doesn’t care about you. You shouldn’t care about her
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:25 PM
1

Why do u care
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:17 PM
2

Everyone here is saying they don’t go to the club to get girls. I don’t believe that bs. There’s nothing else that’s really appealing about a club. Maybe if you really like to dance, but it’s not easy to have fun otherwise when you can’t hear shit for shit. Tbh sounds like an excuse to not try.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:45 PM
2

Check out 5/3/1 bbb
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:42 AM
1

Did you try to kiss her? If not you didn’t escalate enough. Tbh it sounds like you rejected yourself
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:42 AM
4

She said she’s busy right. You’ve got the right idea, just get busy and ignore her until next week. Then she can either text you or you can invite her out as usual. If she says she can’t go again, next. Unless she offers an alternative
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:42 PM
2

I initially had a hard time grasping the concept of frame. To figure it out, keep reading and interacting with a lot of people, preferably in groups. That’s what helped me
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:45 PM
15

Absolutely correct, women don’t naturally prefer psychopaths. It’s just that they display more attractive traits than the typical man (beta) so women prefer them.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 05:57 AM
1

She hasn’t flaked. You’re hamstrings a bit too much. If she does find something else to do. Depending on her excuse just say okay and soft next
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:24 PM
1

Ahh too late. I had already asked her what she’s doing tmr night so she knows I’m free. She asked what’s up so I said you should come over for drinks and a movie. I think that should be fine.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:40 PM
1

How’s this? Do you want to come over for drinks and a movie? She said she’s free so idk if I should pose it as a question. Maybe You should come over for drinks and a movie works better.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:14 PM
-2

Don’t listen to this dumbass nigga
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:32 PM
3

Lmao literally same thing happened to me on Friday. Been thinking the same thing, did it today. Do it sooner rather than later
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:26 PM
0

Yup
/r/askTRP14/09/19 05:34 PM
0

Yeah add it up. It takes a while to drink tho. Don’t expect to down it in one sitting
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:51 PM
1

If you’re working out this shake should help. If you don’t want too much fat use light cream of half half instead of heavy cream and maybe skip the ice cream. You still need to eat on top of it tho
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:13 PM
15

I got u bro. Make and drink this shake every day 4 scoops protein powder 1 cup oatmeal 1 cup milk 1 cup heavy cream 2 cups frozen strawberries A couple tablespoons of honey 6 tablespoons of peanut butter 1 cup of ice cream Don’t do it if you’re scared of fat That’s 3000 calories
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:03 PM
3

I’m sort of similar. I’m pretty shy but have had a calm demeanor. I sort of lost in in high schools because I developed anxiety. But I’m working my way back to where I was. The think is I’m also pretty quiet. What I’m doing now is talking to a couple of random people everyday. Eventually I hope to get that to be everyone. I think if I just train myself to talk a lot I’ll be able to turn it on during conversations. We’ll see, I can update u in a month.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:46 AM
1

Archer is pretty good imo
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:15 PM
1

Pretty sure it is after today
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:54 AM
1

I’ve got eye contact down. I’m honestly not to bad with girls it’s mostly escalating that I suck at. I literally pussied out trying to get my arm around her. Granted she was in an awkward position but I didn’t move confidently enough
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:23 PM
1

I appreciate the advice, it’s solid. how did you get out of your comfort zone? Did you have some moves you did over and over until you were comfortable with the idea of escalating?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:21 AM
3

Craig Ferguson
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:58 PM
2

Sounds like a lot of afcs with attractive women
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:44 PM
2

How much water do you drink, try drinking at least a half gallon a day for 2 weeks, if you smoke... stop. Sleep a lot. Otherwise, if you can’t to anything about it, dwai
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:32 PM
1

Got it, then we’re in about the same boat
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:46 PM
1

You might want to listen to the podcast philosophize this. It gives a good overview of the works of major philosophers and their lifestyles and you can choose what you’re interested after that. Quite interesting, also lemme know if you find any good reads. I haven’t read any yet but I’m likely gonna start with Plato or Aristotle
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:24 PM
-1

Have you hear of this wonderful thing called a gym?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:45 PM
5

Wherever your going there are plenty of hotter bitches and cool people, meet them
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:38 AM
14

You just don’t, game other women, do fun stuff on the trip. Don’t worry about her
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:31 AM
1

You want us to validate the decision you want to make. Just do it
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:50 AM
1

Don’t ask us what to do. You already know what you want to do, you just want validation. Just do what you want and accept the consequences
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:40 AM
4

Useless comment. Good list op, this is a good start. Once you start getting good at these things you’ll want to move on and add more stuff. Things I would suggest, stare down everyone you walk by and make it a contest, don’t lose. Talk to at least one random person a day(increase number over time) and as the other guy said hit the gym
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:12 AM
4

Because it’s reeks of insecurity (read: lack of abundance) and is unattractive
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 05:53 AM
8

You’ve got it figured out it seems
/r/askTRP25/05/19 08:41 PM
1

Lift, approach a lot of people, read, gain confidence and work on eye contact
/r/askTRP25/05/19 07:17 AM
2

Just wait and find out, why are you thinking about this?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:20 AM
1

I’m fresh out of high school. I had a not good dynamic with my guy friends in high school. I joined a fraternity this year and so I’m around a good group of guys. That being said I’ve never really bantered before so it’s a matter of growing my comfort zone. I should add, that’s why I asked, not to get better for girls but to improve my relationships with my guy friends
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:00 PM
1

I’ve already seen Craig. That man is hilarious
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:01 PM
1

Thank you. I’ll try it. I’m trying to figure out my sense of humor but because I’ve never really been funny or self amusing it’s quite hard
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:21 PM
1

You do exactly that and not give a fuck and talk to random people. You have to start doing it using your own will power and discipline and over time you’ll stop feeling anxiety and feel more up to it. As you start doing it it also gets more fun. I say this from the point of view of just having started chatting up random people a couple of weeks ago. It also helps with outcome independence.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:38 PM
1

No one here is your mom and no one is going to hold your hand through this. You know what you need to do and if you don’t, sidebar. So do it.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:40 PM
1

Yes. Why wouldn’t you if they’re hot and not crazy? I’m not experienced but if you find them attractive then ‘mess with them’, race shouldn’t matter.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:20 PM
2

Some of the laws of physics are pseudorandom or percentage based, such as quantum tunneling. This makes things not 100% predictable. Extrapolate to macro scale and things are much less predictable.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 01:17 PM
17

How many times did you jerk yourself off while writing this?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:04 AM
3

Considering ur 6ft 1 and have 17 in arms I would think getting girls at concert shouldn’t be too hard.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:12 PM
4

300kg deadlift is pretty nice
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:52 PM
12

Good post. I have problems with this and have been trying to get in touch with my instincts more. It’s useful to have words to attach to that process. The key, as you stated, is that there is a need for some socialization. If your instincts are telling you to do something that is clearly retarded then you are going to want to ignore that. Ultimately though, you should be following your instincts with out hesitation or consideration of how others will perceive you (within reason).
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 02:48 AM
9

You have shitty instincts and Darwinism will account for that
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 02:42 AM
0

Usually you’re not supposed to read one sentence of a text and then make judgements based on that
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 08:10 PM
1

It’s almost certainly not recoverable
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:41 PM
3

I don’t see failing as a bad thing, it just tells me where my limit is at the time
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:45 AM
3

Lmao no shit you want to be that guy. It takes time, you’re not going to achieve it in your time in high school but if you stick with it eventually you’ll get there
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:40 PM
3

It’s not a catch all but it’s a great first step.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:14 PM
35

Another thing that works is following a strict program with steady increments in weight. Then when you get to a weight you can’t lift, you fail in front of everyone. You shouldn’t be tempted to ego lift because you’re following a program and failing a lift in front of people is as bad as it gets from an ego perspective (which is not at all really).
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 06:07 PM
33

Gym
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:50 PM
6

There are good women and bad women. There are women you will connect with much better than others. But in order to keep attraction between you two it will take work. There is not one woman for you though if that’s what you’re asking. And even if there were, what are the chances that you would find the one in 3.5 billion within your life
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:47 PM
5

Thanks, the way you phrased that helps
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 02:04 AM
13

Were you always fun? I’ve been doing my best to loosen up. I recently quit smoking weed (18yo) so I might be a bit stunted socially
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 11:40 PM
7

You can focus better on what you want to build by not paying attention to what other people are (not) building
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:45 PM
2

Thanks, I would like to get started soon but I’m inconsistent. Still early in my life so I think I stand to learn a lot if I can stick with it
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 04:07 PM
4

How often do you enter in your journal?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 01:56 PM
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