My Quick OKC Thoughts: Short version, Don't bother, but if you do inbound leads only (with examples)

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-04-17T07:04:36+00:00

The woman I get from OKC and tinder are the ones that clean my apartment and buy me stuff.

Indianbro · 2014-04-17T06:24:26+00:00

Jesus Christ that girl is so quarky and weird. I can't believe you managed to get past all those shit tests from her. I didn't even get the transvestite comment...you made her look like a creep lol

Stayinghereforreal · 2014-04-17T05:53:22+00:00

So men of okcupid, I will do this as gently as possible. Due to the high influx of unwanted, unwarranted and extremely creepy and desperate messages (please refer to Reddit if you need evidence of this behavior), DO NOT message me if you are over 30. No exceptions. Not even if you think I am your soulmate. Do not message me if you are religious, if you are republican or conservative or if you believe in the Illuminati. Do not message me if you want casual sex or a hook up. Do not message me if you want to get married or start a family. Do not message me if you are not a feminist. Do not message me if you can't find a girlfriend but insist that you are a "nice guy". Do not message me if you don't like to read or listen to music. Do not message me if you want a cookie cutter girlfriend. And, finally, as much as I am wary of algorithmic descriptions of personalities, don't message me if we "got issues". You know what I am talking about and I have answered enough questions to know that it is probably true. Everyone else, have at it! We are young after all...

That sounds like some paraphrased version of typical copypasta on OKC profiles. But like I said in another thread:

All of the shit girls post on their profiles is for plausible deniability.

They want a bf, they want to have sex, but they can't just go out and say that. Also, they want to limit the near-inevitable avalanche of low effort replies from unattractive, desperate men.

That's why they write all the "look at me, I'm interesting" crap and all of the bs "these are my requirements" lists that you can bypass if you understand the game and are assertive and confident.

[deleted] · 2014-04-17T17:50:43+00:00

First step to online dating: Be attractive and/or rich.

Cyralea · 2014-04-17T07:29:29+00:00

God that's hilarious that that first girl even thought of messaging you. Good lord.

Namerali · 2014-04-17T17:20:38+00:00

You're right. A guy like me (and plenty of others) can't effectively use OKC. A solid 6 or 7 isn't good enough to any inbound responses from OKC. The only time I got messages were from ugos and fatties (1's and 2's). I'm not doing that again. It was fucking horrifying.

I've made profiles on OKC before and all the dates started with contact from me. They are never what I expect, mind you: these dates were from girls who posted false info and photos on their profiles only to be disappointed by slimsexy99 was actually fat, poorly dressed, coke fiend with a kid. In short, there are slutty hamplanets aplenty. Meanwhile the desirable ones feel entitled to the best mate. And, to that point, I wish I could feel sorry for the torrent of "Youre ver pritty, Wanna go oot sometim?/" messages good looking girls receive if not for their lack of awareness of how male/female attraction works.

OKC is like window shopping for real estate on the internet: The new and pretty houses are very expensive, demand a high maintenance cost and will only let you inside them if you can afford them or if you can charm/haggle your way down to a lower cost. All the while, a cheap, dank, cold apartment with a mean cunt for a landlord are a dime a dozen whom only the most pathetic losers couldn't afford.

OKC isn't for me. I don't window shop. That would take time from my reading, working out or learning something new that could earn me more in the long run. Best thing for someone like me (and a vast male majority for that matter) is to go out, talk to girls and stop thinking dating sites like OKC are a magical way to find pussy. You're a man, not a chick shopping for shoes/clothes/a husband.

[deleted] · 2014-04-17T21:36:25+00:00

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spikeminor · 2014-04-17T04:26:56+00:00

I want to how it went later...... Put fatsos in their place good job

Doomsday_ · 2014-04-17T19:36:15+00:00

Obviously your chances of meeting with an inbound message are much higher, but you're limiting yourself unnecessarily if you restrict yourself them.

Just like women will rarely approach a man in person, they will rarely make the first move online. It takes little effort to play the numbers game and send out a bunch of creative copypasta.

fuckeh · 2014-04-17T22:12:53+00:00

Umm hate to burst your bubble but I'm positive you're about to date a dude.

Title	My Quick OKC Thoughts: Short version, Don't bother, but if you do inbound leads only (with examples)
Author	knitro
Upvotes	26
Comments	22
Date	April 17, 2014 4:09 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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