I posted this in reply to a craigslist rant from a middle aged lady who laments,

"How is it that its all young girls that want plowed and older guys that's looking to do the plowing. Is it that older woman don't have sex. What's up with that."

This is an anonymous way to spread RP knowledge with no blowback upon yourself.

re: This is not right

This below is old-timey knowledge that used to be passed down from grandmothers to granddaughters, or even moms to daughters. Today's girls & young women want nothing to do with their "old folks" trying to teach them anything, so they miss out on a lot. This change has been going on for a couple generations now, so you also missed out on the memo.

Young women are in their prime from age 18 to about age 28. They are at their most beautiful, and are at their most fertile. This is exactly what Nature intended. Beauty = Fertility. This is the reason why men focus on that age group, men of all ages. Nature intended men to be attracted to fertile women. Old women, such as yourself, are left by the wayside, because your fertility has declined along with your youthful beauty. The crap feminists have been telling you for 40 years that women can have their 1st kid at age 40 is just that, total crap. As in a crapshoot.

There is something called "The Wall". This is the time in a woman's life where her fertility and beauty begin to decline. Most of today's women have no clue that this is going to happen to them, they act as if their beauty will last forever. So the young women waste their most valuable decade by partying hard, and fucking whoever they want, because they can.

Suddenly, around age 26-30 they look in the mirror and are aghast at their reflection, signs of aging have crept up on them. They NEVER expected this! They were planning on partying until they locked down and married MR. PERFECT, eschewing all other prospects for marriage as unworthy of their self-inflated view of their value in the marriage marketplace.

Now in panic mode, they change. Now they want a "Nice Guy", instead of a "Bad Boy". The nice guy they lock down in temporary marriage will care for them, love them, and provide for them. He will even forgive them for straying with the occasional Bad Boy, who is probably the man who gets her pregnant. Nice Guy is so out of touch with reality he never demands a paternity test, and happily and unknowingly raises Bad Boy's spawn.

When the woman finally tires of the Nice Guy, as she always does, she calls up the best lawyer her Nice Guy can afford and begins the divorce. When finished, she has the house, the kids, half of what money remains after the lawyers, and of course, child support and alimony. Thus she retires, not needing to work. Nice Guy lives in his car eating out of dumpsters, working 60 hrs/wk to pay what the court ordered, or goes to jail, or commits suicide.

So, my dear old lady, there it is in a nutshell. You are too old to play out the above game. You missed the boat. Get yourself a clowder of cats to console yourself and your loneliness.

Best Regards,

H42