• There is no "the one". There are good ones and there are bad ones. Being fully focused on one particular individual (out of billions), as your only potential source of happiness is ridiculous. By doing so, you are purposely giving yourself tunnel vision, preventing yourself from taking other, possibly better opportunities that might come your way. Understand that just as this "one" came into your life out of thin air, other "ones" will also come, and the better you are, the better they'll be. Convincing yourself of "the one" also distorts how you view them. By being so emotionally invested, you will subconsciously prevent yourself from seeing their flaws and red flags. Letting go of "the one" is done through abundance mentality (attracting many women, or having the ability to do so).

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  • Unconditional love doesn't exist. We're all selfish creatures. She doesn't love you unconditionally, you don't love her unconditionally, parents don't even love their children unconditionally. There's always something we get or want to get in return, sometimes it's obvious and sometimes it isn't, but there's always something to gain from love. This is why evolution has programmed us to love in the first place. As soon as you stop providing the value she thinks she deserves, she will branch swing to someone who does. AWALT. Hell, all people are like that. Always remind yourself, it's just your turn. It could last a lifetime, but it's still just a turn. She would never stick by your side "no matter what", and why should she? You wouldn't either.

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  • SMV is king. Your main focus should be improving it. BPed guys usually focus on having traits such as kindness, loyalty, intelligence, etc. These are all valuable in the sexual marketplace (although often ignored in RP circles). But they will not make a woman sexually aroused and want to fuck you, and therefore will not create or maintain a healthy sexual relationship, no matter how nice and sweet you are, no matter how many gifts you buy, and how much you make her laugh. Therefore, you should also work tirelessly on building things that do make women aroused, such as your looks, your social status, your confidence, etc. If you don't, she will go with a guy who does. Yes, even that sweet, innocent, virginal unicorn.