I'm 30, and I met this girl in a fitness class, absolute dime. She's 28, a latina, fitness freak, and an amazing figure (hard to put into words), really good looking girl.

I was a beta male for most of my life because I didn't know any better. Long story short I became fixated on this girl. Initially she was super into me, (sending me seductive snaps, long messages, would reply right away, etc). I made the mistake of always being available to her, offering her rides, offering her other shit, basically having blue balls as the gay male girlfriend.

Despite all of this weakness from me, she agreed to go out on a date. After the evening she texted me the next day saying she's looking for friendship only because she was coming off a relationship. I stupidly agreed hoping she would come around. Big mistake, because nice guys finish last. Never agree to a platonic friendship when you want more.

I would text her and would be left on read. I would reply to her IG stories and be left on read. One time I texted her asking if she wanted to go to the museum and she left me on read for a full week and then replied with "Sorry I'm just seeing this now". Yeah right, what a load of horseshit.

My friend recommended me to read the book "The Way of a Superior Man", and also started watching Corey Wayne on Youtube a bit, and I started to realize my big flaws. I immediately texted her saying I was no longer interested in a platonic friendship, and to reach out if your stance changes. I then disappeared completely. The guy that used to give her non stop advice, helped her move, would genuinely care about her, vanished from her a life for a while. I even stopped going to that fitness class to avoid seeing her and found another one.

I started seeing other women, started focusing more on my career. I'm talking to 3 different girls now I met off Hinge. I noticed she still always watched my IG stories living the good life and hanging out with friends. I wasn't fixated on her anymore.

Then about 6 weeks later, I was on a date with this other broad and she texted me asking how I'm doing. I looked at the text, and with a huge grin on my face, I put the phone back in my pocket and enjoyed my current date. When I got home after absolutely fucking this other girl's brains out, I looked at my phone and decided I'll reply the next day. Went to bed an absolute champ that night.

When I replied the next day mid morning she replied back almost instantly telling me how great it was to hear from me and she wanted to meet up for drinks. I kept it cool, cordial, but I didn't text her a lot, I just setup the time and date of when we were supposed to meet for drinks and ended the convo.

When we met up she was all over me. I can tell. The body language, the touching my arm, the eye contact, it was crystal clear. When we left the pub I kissed her in the parking lot. I drove to my apartment, and our clothes were off the minute we entered the living room. The best fuck I've ever had because I've been wanting to bang her for ages and her fit body with those womanly hips were pure bliss. This was 2 days ago.

Moral of the story: When you stop giving a shit and do your own thing, it creates attraction. Woman are attracted to men who's feelings are unclear. She was wondering about me which reignited the interest.