Silence is Golden

MattyAnon · 2017-01-31T18:04:33+00:00

Removal of attention and commitment is the only thing women respond to.

Bitchezbecrayy · 2017-01-31T15:59:47+00:00

You just put it into her head that she could pull shit like this and expect to get back into your good graces by making up for it with sexual favors. That's not how you train your bitch, brother!

I understand it's easier said than done, but you should've resisted the temptation to get your dick wet, especially if she isn't just a plate. Think long term!

norealwinners · 2017-01-31T16:59:15+00:00

Silence is my favorite tool to use with chicks. They can NOT handle it. It takes all power out of their hand. I have used it in all types of situations with different women from girlfriends to girls I am hooking up with and to even chicks I haven't hooked up with yet. They will literally do anything to get you to acknowledge them. It also makes them want you more. It works so well that when I do it I have to literally hold in my laughter as I watch them agonize over it and eventually crumble.

plutorising92 · 2017-01-31T15:34:01+00:00

Yeah.. men control the conversation with silence, women with histrionics, got that from here.

BoobsBrah · 2017-01-31T18:30:38+00:00

Basic thing in MRP is learning to just STFU

jimmysax99 · 2017-01-31T20:09:29+00:00

Not saying these other guys are wrong so don't take it that way, but if I have the option of making her do house chores or giving me a BJ for her repentance, I'm going with BJ every time. There are a lot of things that are worse than conditioning a woman to give you a BJ any time she needs to get out of the dog house for bad behavior.

The key in this case is not allowing her control the sex or control you with the sex. If she's with holding out on you and using sex to manipulate you, then by all means, refuse it and don't allow her to have that kind of control. But, if you felt she was truly sorry and had learned her lesson, no reason to pass up the chance for some make up sex.

yummyluckycharms · 2017-01-31T21:39:06+00:00

I would be dumping her to be honest...ultimatums are a red flag.

She initiated an ultimatum, which is most definitely not a shit test, which means she feels that you have not other options other than her. You held frame, but that nagging feeling in the back of her head wont go away.

Once a woman pulls the ultimatum card, its not going to be the last time.

RoutaOps · 2017-01-31T14:56:34+00:00

Someone clear me up on this.

Having different opinions and not supporting mine gives me right to go silent treatment on her like a woman and act all butthurt ik order make my girl cry because they feel bad about hurting my feelings is a good stategy?

Could've just call her out on bad behavior and still carry on as planned.

lvl99jacked · 2017-02-01T03:26:04+00:00

5 minutes later, my dick was in her mouth.

It's amazing.

Tantrum
Silence
Dick in Mouth

RememberingAlpha · 2017-01-31T20:14:55+00:00

I'd hear some elaboration on "non-apologies"

Physio_Tool · 2017-02-01T12:13:25+00:00

Hey dude to be real, I think there is a much bigger problem then how you responded or whatever. No healthy functioning relationship will have someone say something like that. As for the girl saying it, there's either 2 things wrong: 1) She is immature and has bad character, and/or 2) she doesn't respect you. Regardless of problem 2 being present, I believe problem 1 is there and thus what these other people are saying as far as a red flag is they are correct. This isn't to say you shouldn't get shit tested, but certainly not like this at any level.

I know some people here are so quick to next a chick over nothing, but do see this as smoke before the fire. you will likely have to tamping down her power plays, histrionics, and so forth until you finally get burnt out. Id start looking else where man, once you find a normal chick who respects you shit like this would never leave their mouth.

Rugby11 · 2017-02-01T14:07:32+00:00

Silence https://soundcloud.com/user-580652804/the-mark-baxter-podcast-episode-6-rollo-tomassi-and-ed-latimore Golden...

andrewroyale · 2017-02-01T03:48:41+00:00

Sounds like a perfectly healthy relationship imo

David_029_Tredecies · 2017-02-01T01:51:29+00:00

But, in other case, being silent also meant insecure and tried not to do "agree-and-amplified" instead. Sometimes, you have to either change the topic and focused on pleasant or interesting topic of yours while avoiding too much unnecessary violence at the same time the girl respects you and she'll try not to discuss unwanted topic.

Otherwise, if I were you, I dispose her...I mean, disqualify her. I usually being picky to people and the topic itself. I'm thinking of the vibes that would benefit for not only for relaxation but also connected to inspiration and motivation for career.

Good insight by the way.

AnjaJutta · 2017-01-31T19:14:50+00:00

TLDR: OP initiates "soft next" but doesn't go through with it.

brokenmess · 2017-02-01T00:23:33+00:00

if you have to resort to these kind of manipulative games, your relationship is already in trouble and that girl is definitely not mature enough emotionally for a serious thing. the question you should be asking is is she worth the effort?

Title	Silence is Golden
Author	maniclurker
Upvotes	293
Comments	86
Date	January 31, 2017 2:32 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5r8i1f/silence_is_golden/
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