25M, been red pill aware for just over two years

Men tend to think in simple ideas that have to do with logic and reason. That’s what moves the needle in mens minds.

Women tend to think in complex ideas that have to do with emotion, feeling, and connection. That’s what moves the needle in women’s minds

Men think that more is always better. They try to max out on certain areas of life (muscles and money) because they assume more = better

But that's not exactly true

You need to speak the woman’s language, which is more based on emotional experiences, personal connections, and chemistry

You need to elicit a positive emotion out of her

Humor. Adventure. Witty-ness. Flirty-ness.

Tell an interesting story that has her at the edge of her seat

Have an interesting life that you can tell stories about

Take her on an adventure with a healthy amount of danger like a motorcycle ride or renting some jet skis

Talk to other girls at the club/party to elicit a healthy amount of jealousy

Take her a comedy club. Maybe some live music.

Pair either of those with some drinking and dancing and you are automatically better than the other 99% of guys in her phone who's imagination can't go past "lets get dinner" or "lets watch Netflix"

This will move the needle in her mind more than you having a great body or a big bank account

You should definitely still work you ass off to build muscle and make money.

Get in the 20% of your local gym in fitness (pretty hard but you can do it)

Make enough money to live a decent life (everyone’s definition of this is different)

But once you tick those boxes, move on, and think about ways you can be interesting, fun, and build chemistry

This is the combination that will get you the abundance of female attraction that you want.