Stop Falling For Low Quality Women

SilverLinkTree · 2016-09-06T18:25:39+00:00

The man in your example did the head pat thing to you because he didnt want to tell you the truth. He wants a young attractive partner with no baggage, he does not want an older visually unappealing woman. Period. He has the money to attract a golddigger and he probably has accepted the deal. It should be obvious that's the reason why, because he can get 'excitement' from older 'train wreck' women but he goes for the hot younger ones instead.

jb_trp · 2016-09-06T19:13:06+00:00

The truth is a lot of men's problems with dating and marrying women could be solved by simply raising your standards and stop falling for low quality trash women.

This is true. I have gone out with, gotten to know, interacted with, fucked, etc. countless women since I've been single (last LTR was over 3 years ago). Do you know how many women were LTR worthy? Two. Out of ~200 women, only two didn't have bitchy personalities, didn't have divorces and multiple kids, weren't boring and pathetic, and were intelligent, kind, and interesting.

You don't realize that women in their 40s and 50s are low value women, because women are valued primarily for their youth and beauty. A high-value male is not going to want to date a women in her 40s when he can have plenty of women in their 20s who are younger, hotter, more fun, and have less baggage.

Submissively_yours · 2016-09-06T17:35:16+00:00

Pretty sure that overtly stating that you are female is against the rules of the sub, but whatever.
Low quality women exist to be used. You shouldn't "fall for" your hammer or screwdriver, either - though they are lower-risk to love than a sociopath. One of the RP tenets is "Don't fuck crazy" and I think your post is basically the long version of this.
As an aside, "feminist-minded person" sounds like a terrible affliction. New-wave feminism is poison. But you are on TRP literally right now, so if you want to cure that, you could try reading.

RP_78 · 2016-09-06T20:42:27+00:00

Your friend should fuck those strippers without marrying them (and maybe in an hotel suite, given the drugs issue). His error is this simple.

Cat_pun_o_tron · 2016-09-06T17:43:26+00:00

You mean that NAWALT and that I should look for a unicorn snowflake to give half of my estate to when she divorce-rapes me instead?

trpthroway123 · 2016-09-06T18:45:09+00:00

that also means that I probably didn't do a thorough enough job of weeding out low quality guys with issues, but sometimes they can disguise themselves well.

If you think a guy can disguise himself, try dealing with girls...

What we see is never what we get. What they say is never the truth. What they tell is never the whole story.

The 9/10 college grad with DD tits and a career in pharmaceuticals you meet at the bar quickly becomes a 5/10 CVS cashier with c-cups and an associates from the local community college once you wipe off the makeup, remove the padded push up bra, and wipe away the bullshit. Even the craziest nutjob can pull off a few hours of being normal.

Then you find out the birth control she's on was a lie, it's yours, she's keeping it, and you better man up and marry her so she can take half your shit and garnish your wages once the baby pops out.

But, according to you, that's our fault.

I'll remember to strip them, hose them off, get a transcript, and medical report, before talking to them from now on. Thanks for the advice.

RealMcGonzo · 2016-09-06T19:19:50+00:00

a retired plastic surgeon in his 70's . . . wives #2 and #3 were trashy low-life strippers young enough to be his granddaughters who only wanted him for his money. . . wife #3 who is only 28 years old,

TL;DR: Get rich, don't get married. Bang chicks 40 to 50 years younger than you are.

TropicalMermaid · 2016-09-06T17:44:48+00:00

By "feminist-minded", I merely mean that I feel that I deserve the same rights and opportunities as men since we are both human, such as the right to work at a job, the right to attend school, the right to maintain control and dominion over my own physical body...the basics. I'm not looking to take dominion over the world or use a man as a meal ticket. I wasn't raised that way. And in response to what you said about how low quality women exist to be used, that may be true but is it really worth the headache and trouble it can cause?? Some low quality women can REALLY fuck up your life. I just don't see it being worth a few encounters of pussy. That's why I advocate for avoiding low quality people in ALL circumstances.

nonthaki · 2016-09-06T21:27:12+00:00

Ahh . Quick question . If I find a girl who is really attractive and has a stable mind, should I choose her over a girl who is NOT that attractive but also has a stable mind, with all other parameters (relationship chemistry, social factors etc) being fairly equal between them ?

smokecheck1976 · 2016-09-06T21:27:53+00:00

You bring up some very fair and valid points, but it's hard to explain the view a lot of very reasonable men bring to the table.

I just turned 40. My ex-wife should have been a NAWALT example. When she decided she wanted a divorce, she cut me out of my kids' lives for over a year, just because she could. When we finally got to court she gutted me without mercy. The only thing that saved me was that I asked for alimony and that made her waive most of the child support. She drove every dagger she could into me, and I'll never forget that.

Now, I look around and my options, if I play by your rules, are not acceptable to me. There is the gravitationally challenged woman with two other men's kids, she is turning the screws on one for child support and the other evades it because he "does under the table work". Those are bad enough. Then there are the real predators, the truly dangerous ones that understand the rules and how to manipulate men. These are the ones that are still attractive enough but questioning reveals that these women already destroyed one or two men in a divorce and they are out looking for the next poor victim. What makes the second group especially dangerous is that they are indistinguishable from the very small group of women that are worthy of a relationship.

Given the current legal environment, I wouldn't advise any American man to marry or produce a fornication trophy with any American woman. The risks simply and vastly outweigh any potential rewards.

JohnnyRaz · 2016-09-06T22:18:41+00:00

I agree with a lot of what was said. For example, my woman is as decent as they come, she would do ANYTHING for me, I am her leader and she trusts me. She does anything asked of her and she is as redpill as they come. She takes on the more traditional / sumbmissive role and cooks / cleans / nurtures / etc.

I constantly beat off these whores that are pure poison because its rare to find what I have. Mske no mistake, I am not living a fairytale and there is no oneitis going on, but her and I have an understanding.

TRPtossaway · 2016-09-06T21:51:54+00:00

Let me first congratulate you on trying. Imagine me slow-clapping for you.

Second, let me remind you to read the sidebar. If you had done this, you wouldn't have bothered with your long-winded Disneyland fantasy post.

Third, let me honor your salvageable point. You say that men want good sex so badly that they put up with poor-quality women to get it. That's true, and that is at fault for a lot of the shit that we have to deal with as men.

Now, I have two retorts for you. First, you divide women into good and bad quality. The bad ones will lie, cheat, cuckold, divorce-rape, manipulate, etc. The good ones are sweet sweet treasures who only want to love and give. I'll spare you the lecture about the complexity of the human psyche and I'll assume that you understand that there is a gradient between good and bad in women in general as well as a complexity of behaviors in specific women. What this means for us is that we can't simply "pick a good one." We have to assess how many red flags she has and then estimate whether or not we can do better. None of you have no red flags. You know that, right? that you have red flags? (this entire thread is one of them.) So this gradient of women's behavior being as it is, we can never, as men, really know if we've made the right choice or not. We have to put up with SOME shit to be with ANYONE at all. This alone invalidates your entire post, because now your message means merely "if you're not getting good women, it's because you're not trying hard enough." I'm sure you'll excuse me if I neglect to thank you for that eminently useful bit of advice.

Second retort: You imply that it is possible to tell which women will behave in these awful ways that we seek to avoid. This is a major fallacy. If you have studied psychology and consciousness, you would know about the subconscious and how it works. The conscious, rational mind is the part of you that you know about. The subconscious is the part of you that is just as real yet you do not know about it. This is the part of the psyche in which all of the trapping, manipulative, poisonous behaviors are hidden in women (and they are hidden in each and every one of you, yourself included.)

Here is a short video demonstrating how the subconscious works. I want you to carefully observe these idiots telling the interviewer that they support the policies that he's asking them about. Please notice that each idiot says that they support the policy because it sounds like a good policy. that is their stated reason that they hold in their conscious mind for why they support the policy. Then watch what happens next. This demonstrates how the subconscious mind works. Each street idiot being interviewed actually supports the policy because they are told that it is the policy of the candidate that they feel emotionally attached to. Their reasons are purely emotional, but they all say that they are rational reasons.

What I need you to understand is that as a man, dating women is just like being this interviewer. You ask her questions, you get to know her as well as possible, and the whole time, she tells you only what she thinks she believes without ever knowing that she's covering up her true feelings. This is why we say "AWALT" (All Women Are Like That.) AWALT means "do not be fooled by a woman who is smart enough to look like a good one, because she has all the same poisons in her, too."

There are no good and bad women. There are only relationships that work and relationships that don't work.

We are committed to choosing relationships that get us what we want without forcing to tolerate what we do not want.

Please understand that what you are suggesting by your post is to "take the blue pill again" and believe that all women are not, in fact, like that.

Not gonna happen.

Read the sidebar.

Mckallidon · 2016-09-06T21:56:00+00:00

Fact is a lot of more recent men are intentionally mislead by low quality women. These women know what men generally are looking for, and people with personality disorders are great actresses and chameleons. It's usually the better inte tuned men that got burned by these women, not Chad Thundercock. The worst of these women we are discussing know how to fool everyone around them and be who the other person seeks. The best of these women are terrible at this and are doormats. We live in a culture where traditional courtship is dead, and where these undesirable traits are promoted. That is why TRP mentality is a response to these cultural shifts in the first place. It's brought out the worst in women. Anyone who thinks with their dick and gets burned is just an idiot. Fact is many decent men have become dbags just to protect themselves. I was raised to do the traditional thing and it just doesn't work. I've evolved in response to my environment. Where the fuck are all the SJWs and celebrities promoting traditional values and reasonable be suit in women? Nowhere. The modern borderline, psycho, and narcissistic female message envelopes everyone. Unless they're still living in Amish country.

mightythickdick · 2016-09-06T23:28:20+00:00

A quality woman wouldn't be here wasting her quality time. End. Of. Story.

TropicalMermaid · 2016-09-06T18:56:23+00:00

I'm sorry, but can you repost this in plain English? The jargon you used makes it hard for me to understand what you at saying. Are you saying I have low sexual market value? Because as I said earlier, I'm not unattractive. My physical appearance for my age is a unicorn in itself (although not having any kids and not putting shit into my body certainly helps a lot). I just have no desire whatsoever to get involved with drug addicts, baby daddies, and men with no goals, no class, and nothing much going for them. It has nothing to do with me wanting a rich man and everything to do with wanting someone who respects himself. Hope that clarifies what I was trying to say.

RedDeadCred · 2016-09-06T23:11:38+00:00

First, where the fuck are the mods.

Second, you have to be a troll cause you hit every checkbook of the stereotypical dumb whore we post about here. Extreme solipsism, you don't understand how your hypergamy and desire for status in a man is different than a man's desire for young and fertile pussy, you're a postwall divorced or never married exwhore thats still fucking new guys even though any children that would result from that fucking would certainly have complications (if you can even get pregnant), you want to join the boys club and get special attention while inadvertently destroying the environment with your insane hamstering, you hate young women because they possess that which you squandered (your youth), and you're a feminist.

I could go on, but I'm on the toilet and I need to wipe my ass.

Mods, yall are slipping.

TropicalMermaid · 2016-09-06T17:41:23+00:00

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mightythickdick · 2016-09-06T21:51:24+00:00

Charlie's problem is playing with young ones domestically; he needs to semi-retire in southeast Asia where they're cheap and plentiful and can't lay claim to his gold.

As for you, you don't have as much to offer a man as you think, otherwise you wouldn't be here.

TropicalMermaid · 2016-09-07T01:16:58+00:00

I appreciate the intelligent, thought-provoking comments from some of the men on this post. It looks like some of the guys here are rational thinking and capable of intelligent discourse, unlike the few who jumped in and immediately called me a "washed up whore who can't reproduce". Those are the ones who have severe anger issues and need to seek mental help.

Caster_Oil · 2016-09-06T18:24:26+00:00

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Title	Stop Falling For Low Quality Women
Author	TropicalMermaid
Upvotes	22
Comments	173
Date	September 6, 2016 5:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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