TL;DR Quitting porn literally changes your confidence, soul and even appearance, for the better. Something in your physiognomy literally changes and it makes you look and feel alive.
Porn is poison. Coming from someone who recently quit. It changes you inside and out. The benefits to quit are astounding, and seemingly immediate. I’ll try to keep this brief.
Go to University, good party scene, good friends, lots of chicks everywhere. Going into my Sophomore year I’ve had a few good lays and made out with too many chicks to possibly count. Always been alright with chicks and generally can find someone whenever I go out. Get 6s and 7s generally easy, and 8s with some solid game. Sometimes I’d flirt with 9s but it’s been tough to get super far, but I’m getting there.
After contemplation a few weeks ago, I decided to quit porn.
Since I quit, I’m literally a different person. The best way I can put it is that there’s something inside that porn “locks up.” And as cringey as it sounds, I’ll call it my Inner Man. Since quitting, I have a higher and healthier libido. I’m confident everywhere I go.
And I can see it in my eyes too. Before, I looked lifeless almost, and seeing pictures of afterward it seems there’s a spark in there, and a look of smug sexual satisfaction.
I feel more energized. My mission is clearer and I seemingly have more energy for it. I now learned this “look” that comes naturally where I just look at a girl a certain way and I can see her just freeze and start breathing heavy. When I cold approach, I just immediately touch/grab chicks instead of starting with small talk because I’m too confident not too. All these little things are what Mother Nature put inside of me, and seemingly have been repressed until I’ve became enlightened. ALL of my natural animal instincts feel unimpeded, and it’s feels like a drug.
An example was a party I was at a few weeks ago. Generally I’m a reserved guy and I’ll cold approach a girl or two if I’m feeling it, but I’ve naturally been shyer in the past. Nowhere near a wallflower but not exactly the life of the party. Lesser Sigma, if you’re familiar with the concept.
I see a friend (HB 8) and her friends (8 and 7) and I approach. Instead of just saying high I just grab the two hotter ones by the waist and start making fun of them. I stayed and flirted with all of them, meanwhile other chicks are approaching to introduce themselves to me, including an HB9 I’ve been crushing on for some time, all while I have my hands over the two girls. All of this is uncharacteristic of me but ever since I stopped I’ve just been naturally doing this stuff. Eventually I went off with one of the 8s by ourselves where we did stuff for the night before “she thanked me for making her night special” and I walked her home.
Point is, quitting has not only changed how I feel, but even how others perceive me. I feel more alive and energetic and confident. It especially shows in pictures I see of myself.
It’s like the scene in the Matrix where Neo is back to life and seeing the green code. I’m not your obnoxious youth pastor saying “quit because it’s evil,” but definitely try to do it. The results have been amazing for me.
After all, TRP is all about bettering yourself, something I try to do everyday. I encourage those out there who do it to quit, and see if you feel similar to how I did.
I wonder if anyone out there has similar experiences or any other Eureka moments..?
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