First post, please let me know if I screw up. 38 yo Father and newly ex husband. I am a little further down the road than most of you. But, many of you are smarter than I was at your age.

So I have been ignoring feminism most of my life. The whole idea I was born with a dick therefore I am the cause of all that is wrong in THEIR world has left me scratching my head more than once. I am currently in the start of a divorce. NEVER GET MARRIED! It just isn't worth it young bucks. Even if you get her pregnate, child support is cheaper than child support + half + alimony + wasted 10 years of your life. Do the math.

Anyway, back on topic. So in getting this divorce there is this whole finding yourself process. A sort of, "well, now what" period in your life. Being married, your identity gets tied to the wife, kids, being a provider, Mr. Fix it. Then poof, never more. So I do as many do. I googled and read up on the world today. I was shocked to discover this place. A voice for men. MGTOW. But most of all, I was shocked to learn about the women speaking out about feminism and its damage to society.

I was pleased at first. If this linking is bad, I am sorry. But I found links like this tumblr http://womenagainstfeminism.tumblr.com/.

Like I said, this made me happy... At first. Then, I thought about it. This highlights how bad off we are. I will say, the most effective voices for how damaging feminism is, are female voices. Men, we are screwed. We as a group lack any real political power. Not even the power to say, this is harming us.

Now, I do not advocate whining about it. That solves nothing. But I will say, until our voice is heard over a female voice for our own political needs we are in a bad way. It is nice to see the female backlash. But I think this only serves te female imperative in the end. Think about it,

"I love men" = "I like the idea of men taking care of me"

"Being a stay at home mom is okay" = "I like the idea of men taking care of me"

and on and on. Nothing has changed in the end, another side of the coin. AWALT as we say. One may be more kind as they became your dependent, one may feel more entitled. But the end result is the same.

So here is what I see, the backlash. It is just an illusion. Until men have a loud enough voice, we are just jerking off. It feels good, but there is no productivity. Nothing is being done.

We will get our voice back in my opinion in a few way.

1.) Self improvement.
a.) Women listen to alphas more then betas. b.) If you are going to fight a storm you need confidence. c.) The more alphas there are, the harder it is to push men around

2.) Youth outreach.
a.) Know a man younger than you? Be a mentor. Get that kids a red pill. b.) Teach your sons, nephews, cousins. c.) Be a example for young men. If you are doing good, they just might mimic you.

3.) Refuse marriage a.) When asked why you will not marry, be honest. This is one time, red pill honesty might work. If she leaves, NEXT! Congratulations, you dodged marriage. b.) Women will slowly talk about the shit the last generation did to ruin it for them. They will blame you, no doubt, but they will also adapt and blame the last gen feminists. Just never themselves. AWALT. c.) Tell other men never marry and to tell women why. See A and B.

4.) Never put a woman before you. a.) It is hard to argue with success. If men refuse to marry and are still loving fathers and still successful, this sends a message. Sure it will be touted as sexism, blah blah blah... But women will want those successful men. That fellas, is power. b.) Tell women, Dad put mom first, mom got a boob job and left after 20 years of marriage. I will never do that shit. You can tag along, but get in my way, you are over. c.) Know your power comes from you. Never her or anyone else. Nurture yourself. Less you will lose her and more. Maybe even yourself.

5.) Cast out white knights. a.) Fuck these guys. If you know them, Next them. NOTHING GOOD comes from keeping them around. Let the betas see they can not befriend a alpha. Betas are attracted to alphas just like a chick is. For almost the same reasons too. They want to feed off your energy. Life is short, next them just like any other bitch. b.) When you hear a girl crying about how much her last man was a jerk. Remember, She HAS to be a victim. The dude, probably was chill while she was blowing shit up all around him. Agree and amplify, but note how she will talk about you later. AWALT c.) Before you cast a white knight out... Tell them their future. You know it. They will not listen, but when his wife is caught sucking off 8 guys 10 years her Jr and you called it, he just might look at red pill differently. Show the power of the knowledge here as you kick their ass out of your circle to learn.

6.) Know that each and every man that wakes up, is a bit more power politically. Each marriage that doesn't happen, is a bit more power politically. It is the proof feminism is a lie. A cruel hoax. But, do not trust in the women against feminism to have your back. Think it through. Men, do. Women bitch. If you let someone bitch for you, to a other group known for bitching.... Its a circle jerk. We need to do. To take back our lives. To enlighten a path for others. To show the next gen that path. That, is male power fellas. It has started. But with groups like this, a voice for men, MGTOW. But not with female led groups. I am sure they mean well. But... AWALT. They still want your labor for pussy.