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[–]UnimpressedAsshole14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
It's a waste of energy. I'm a hypocrite because I have held onto anger for a long time but that just shows my short-sightedness and need for meditation, mindfulness, and awareness. But try not to pollute your mind, body, and experience with anger.
And recognize that anytime a person feels the need to cast another as inferior (women, blacks, gays, etc.) the purpose is to reinforce oneself as superior and that does nothing for one's suffering or fulfillment, just an egotistical band-aid.
To me a big part of this subreddit is transitioning people into an awareness of the primal nature of human existence, something that we all have capacity to be aware but due to domestication and cultural conditioning are generally fairy tale'd out of. Being angry for feeling lied to or betrayed is completely natural and healthy but it's just a phase. Let go of expectations formed from your fairy tale days and your anger will leave as well.
[–]PimpMasta2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Your thoughts are definitatly on point. im currently reading a book called Power Vs. Force by David R. Hawkins and he speaks about levels of consciousness ranging from 1-1000. Anger being one of the lowest kinds of consciousness. No doubt this book has upped my paradigm tenfold so I'd love to recommend it to this sub.
[–]UnimpressedAsshole1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You need to get your ass in a floatation/sensory deprivation tank, buddy.
[–]PimpMasta2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why is that?
[–]UnimpressedAsshole1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, really you don't need to do shit but whatever you feel you need to do. But if you are interesting in increasing your awareness, going to higher states of consciousness, and ridding yourself of thought patterns, emotions, and beliefs that don't serve you then you'd get a lot of floating. I actually skimmed through that book at my local float place and it looked pretty interesting.
[–]PimpMasta1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm all for climbing the spiritual ladder so i'll check it out for sure.
[–]thecajunone19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Beginners have this problem. Most people who have swallowed the pill for more than six months don't. Remember we have a SHIT TON of new users.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The posts are getting upvoted by somebody. They can't all be newbies.
[–]1FloranHunter8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually they can be. The level of growth here is huge.
[–]gopher880 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could it be classed as exponential growth? Regardless, a lot of new users in a short space of time.
[–]thecajunone0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We went from 2k users to over 30k in the space of like two months so yeah actually yeah, its pretty plausible.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
hardly I was here when it was 10K, and I think that was a little over a year ago
[–]thecajunone0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It...well hell I guess it has been almost a year. When I first showed up there were about 2k users. That was April 28-30th. It's only been these last couple months that the population has surged though.
[–]AlmostRP24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Everyone's in a different stage. I guess you're in the "I feel like I've made a lot of progress and now need to bitch on my soapbox to newbies" phase.
Maybe you'll move on soon, maybe you won't.
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[–]AlmostRP9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My comment was tongue in cheek... don't read into it too much.
But... I get the feeling you're fairly new at this, too. For me, "the goal of the red pill" isn't attractiveness. If it is for you, there's nothing wrong with that. You might think about whether or not that is really what you want to spend your time on. Are you doing this to be attractive to women? That seems like a very outward goal.
You may or may not find a better path is self worth. Doing things that are fulfilling like taking on a new hobby, being a badass at work and in the community, dropping a bad habit, and working out are all very fulfilling... attractiveness comes easily to the man that has a lot of self worth, it becomes an afterthought.
Making submissions like this does nothing for you and nothing for the subreddit. It might make you feel self righteous for a bit, but it's hollow.
[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Another lame-duck concern troll.
From your comment history, you've been posting in TheRedPill for only 9 days. Maybe you've lurked longer than that, but it sure as hell doesn't sound like it.
The Red Pill has no direction. It's not a movement. It's certainly not your personal standard to wave about. It's information, and that's all it is.
Here at TheRedPill, we care about the content of a comment, not it's tone. Fuck off until you learn that. (see how it works?)
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
End goal is to be happy in all your relationships, through the gateway of personal development and self respect.
[–]mikado127 points8 points9 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You can't be your best self if you hold this gut-level disgust or anger towards women. People need to learn to let go of this victimized beta mentality and adopt a more mature, realistic attitude. Attitudes shape interactions, so you're not doing yourself any favors.
[–]MSoftHarem[M] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Classic concern trolling. Don't do it again.
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[–]MSoftHarem[M] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Believe what you want. Do not post about it again.
[–]Laughing_Jelly_Bean5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's some pretty sweet concern trolling, OP.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OOooooh, concern trolling with just a leeeeeettle touch of AMOGing to shame people out of calling you out on it. Nice.
We'll see how many people fall for it. Good luck, I'm rooting for you.
[–]kzwrp1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Play the game within the rules. The successful student realizes that he can do nothing to change the nature of his situation, and instead puts his effort into best performing under the given restrictions.
Play the game within the rules.
The successful student realizes that he can do nothing to change the nature of his situation, and instead puts his effort into best performing under the given restrictions.
jeez, "redpillers" this days.
The successful person realizes that the rules are there to be bent, so he lives by his standards, doesn't bend over to someone else's wishes, plays the game by the rules HE makes, and HIS rules alone.
[–]nerv90 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know recommending a book can seem douchey to some people. But if you are feeling angry about trp or certain rp concepts, I would recommend The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. In r/redbillbooks I give my own personal take on it for whatever that's worth to y'all. It did help me not feel so angry against women or the game as the OP put's it.
Also the Black Philip show. It's not a book, on youtube. At first listen Patrice might sound annoyed or frustrated but I think really he was just passionate, and being passionate will definitely work to our advantages.
Also, just having a nugget of redpill in the back of your mind will work for you on some level, so relish that and with all the great resources and field reports, what have you, we can learn more as a community.
[–]opencover0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hate the things about women that are hateworthy. Love the things that are worthy of love.
"Don't hate" is a useless command. Nobody is entitled to a guarantee that they won't be hated.
[–]mrgrizzlor0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Did you remove your own post?
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[–]mrgrizzlor0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But did you remove your own post?
[–]mrgrizzlor0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was just wondering if you made a post and then removed it, or if it was deleted by a mod
[–]unsungman1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm starting to get the same vibe. Don't hate women. Don't treat them like shit (but also don't put up with their shit). Two different things though.
Anyway, my main reason for participating and subscribing is the self improvement dialogue...aka those "important matters" you speak of. More constructive than just complaining about women. I do value hearing "learning lesson" life stories from others since I don't want to make the same mistakes other men have made. Field reports...meh. Good for entertainment but I'd never share or attempt a FR because they'd probably be kinda boring. Pretty hard for me to itemize/analyze my actions when I go out when it can all be summed up as me teasing and feeling up on women.
Anyway, I understand the need to vent. And of course "free speech" yada yada. Bottom line is that time spent complaining/hating on women on TRP can be better spent other ways. Nobody will stop anyone from complaining/hating though and arguably the whole "if you don't like it leave" argument could apply too.
Nonetheless, would like to see a shift towards more self improvement and empirical theory myself but it's not like I'm holding my breath.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
PUT THAT COFFEE DOWN!
OP hit the nail on the head. Lots of bitter whinging going on in this sub. MGTOW whiners, losers who can't get laid blaming women for their problems. I think this sub needs to watch that glengarry glen ross clip again.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0
Anytime anyone says "the leads" just replace it with "women".
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