The problem with the direction TRP is headed.

UnimpressedAsshole · 2014-01-27T02:19:22+00:00

It's a waste of energy. I'm a hypocrite because I have held onto anger for a long time but that just shows my short-sightedness and need for meditation, mindfulness, and awareness. But try not to pollute your mind, body, and experience with anger.

And recognize that anytime a person feels the need to cast another as inferior (women, blacks, gays, etc.) the purpose is to reinforce oneself as superior and that does nothing for one's suffering or fulfillment, just an egotistical band-aid.

To me a big part of this subreddit is transitioning people into an awareness of the primal nature of human existence, something that we all have capacity to be aware but due to domestication and cultural conditioning are generally fairy tale'd out of. Being angry for feeling lied to or betrayed is completely natural and healthy but it's just a phase. Let go of expectations formed from your fairy tale days and your anger will leave as well.

thecajunone · 2014-01-27T02:22:47+00:00

Beginners have this problem. Most people who have swallowed the pill for more than six months don't. Remember we have a SHIT TON of new users.

AlmostRP · 2014-01-27T02:28:34+00:00

Everyone's in a different stage. I guess you're in the "I feel like I've made a lot of progress and now need to bitch on my soapbox to newbies" phase.

Maybe you'll move on soon, maybe you won't.

mikado12 · 2014-01-27T02:35:53+00:00

You can't be your best self if you hold this gut-level disgust or anger towards women. People need to learn to let go of this victimized beta mentality and adopt a more mature, realistic attitude. Attitudes shape interactions, so you're not doing yourself any favors.

SoftHarem · 2014-01-27T04:19:20+00:00

Classic concern trolling. Don't do it again.

Laughing_Jelly_Bean · 2014-01-27T03:05:02+00:00

That's some pretty sweet concern trolling, OP.

Whisper · 2014-01-27T03:40:31+00:00

OOooooh, concern trolling with just a leeeeeettle touch of AMOGing to shame people out of calling you out on it. Nice.

We'll see how many people fall for it. Good luck, I'm rooting for you.

kzwrp · 2014-01-27T03:59:16+00:00

Play the game within the rules.

The successful student realizes that he can do nothing to change the nature of his situation, and instead puts his effort into best performing under the given restrictions.

jeez, "redpillers" this days.

The successful person realizes that the rules are there to be bent, so he lives by his standards, doesn't bend over to someone else's wishes, plays the game by the rules HE makes, and HIS rules alone.

nerv9 · 2014-01-27T03:49:51+00:00

I know recommending a book can seem douchey to some people. But if you are feeling angry about trp or certain rp concepts, I would recommend The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. In r/redbillbooks I give my own personal take on it for whatever that's worth to y'all. It did help me not feel so angry against women or the game as the OP put's it.

Also the Black Philip show. It's not a book, on youtube. At first listen Patrice might sound annoyed or frustrated but I think really he was just passionate, and being passionate will definitely work to our advantages.

Also, just having a nugget of redpill in the back of your mind will work for you on some level, so relish that and with all the great resources and field reports, what have you, we can learn more as a community.

opencover · 2014-01-27T04:46:15+00:00

Hate the things about women that are hateworthy. Love the things that are worthy of love.

"Don't hate" is a useless command. Nobody is entitled to a guarantee that they won't be hated.

mrgrizzlor · 2014-01-27T04:59:16+00:00

Did you remove your own post?

unsungman · 2014-01-27T04:21:17+00:00

I'm starting to get the same vibe. Don't hate women. Don't treat them like shit (but also don't put up with their shit). Two different things though.

Anyway, my main reason for participating and subscribing is the self improvement dialogue...aka those "important matters" you speak of. More constructive than just complaining about women. I do value hearing "learning lesson" life stories from others since I don't want to make the same mistakes other men have made. Field reports...meh. Good for entertainment but I'd never share or attempt a FR because they'd probably be kinda boring. Pretty hard for me to itemize/analyze my actions when I go out when it can all be summed up as me teasing and feeling up on women.

Anyway, I understand the need to vent. And of course "free speech" yada yada. Bottom line is that time spent complaining/hating on women on TRP can be better spent other ways. Nobody will stop anyone from complaining/hating though and arguably the whole "if you don't like it leave" argument could apply too.

Nonetheless, would like to see a shift towards more self improvement and empirical theory myself but it's not like I'm holding my breath.

[deleted] · 2014-01-27T03:20:18+00:00

PUT THAT COFFEE DOWN!

OP hit the nail on the head. Lots of bitter whinging going on in this sub. MGTOW whiners, losers who can't get laid blaming women for their problems. I think this sub needs to watch that glengarry glen ross clip again.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0

Anytime anyone says "the leads" just replace it with "women".

Title	The problem with the direction TRP is headed.
Author	Butt-nana
Upvotes	20
Comments	34
Date	January 27, 2014 2:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1w8rjv/the_problem_with_the_direction_trp_is_headed/
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