TLDR: You can read all of the theories on here and even do a decent job at adopting them, but observing other Alphas over a long period of time is invaluable.

So my first 6 months with the redpill were incredible. My life has never improved in every way so quickly. But the thing that took the longest wasn't success with woman or success financially, it was building friendships with other Alphas. Alphas are discerning and won't let you into their circle (which is the most valuable place you could ever be, filled with business opportunity and access to beautiful woman) unless they truly see you as one of their own.

Once you are in, a whole new world is open to you. And you learn, very fast.

So, here is how it played out for me, it may be different for you. I noticed that the Alphas at my job and in my social life and family opened up to me and started inviting me to things as soon as they saw me take risks. I didn't even need to succeed. I just needed to be seen doing something that took some balls. This happened in all aspects of my life as I became less beta. I took up boxing and restarted my martial arts training, I took risks at my job, I started performing my art live, and many other things.

And just like that, I had a group of new high value friends. I have had them for about six months now, and am making more all the time.

After I got them, the lessons came quickly. I finally understood how deeply not having a dad around had impacted me. I had been playing life on hard mode, with a different set of rules than other men had been given.

The greatest thing is the connections. If you know enough high value men, there will always be someone to open those closed doors for you.

Did you see that TIL post about Matthew Mchonaugey getting offered his first part randomly in a bar by a producer? What ACTUALLY happened was that his friend introduced them to eachother because Matthew was looking for a PA job. The producer was also jmpressed with Matthews hot gf. Now that is a huge difference.

One is pure luck, the other is having enough value, confidence and social skills to have other Alphas do favors for you.

So I leave you with this. Take risks and go to as many social events as possible. Be ballsy. And when an Alpha befriends you, take mental notes and learn all that you can. Everyone has their own style. Find your own.