I understand that the bulk of TRP is based on getting "the young hot poon," but I recently had an encounter with a MILF/cougar and decided to post some thoughts on why It might be a good idea to keep that option open.

First, some background: I'm in my late 20's. Good job, good looking, experienced sexually, etc, but had been going through about a six month dry spell due to lack of options. I unfortunately live in a city where the norm is guys getting with girls who weigh more than they do, and I'm just not willing to do that. It takes legendary game to get someone in the 8-9 range here, and I'm honest enough to admit that I don't have it.

Anyway, I got a message on FB from a woman about 15 years my senior that I knew in high school. There was almost zero small talk until she told me that she had just gotten divorced. Right then we both knew what the score was before the game even started.

I thought about it for a week, and figured fuck it, what do I have to lose? Even in her mid 40s she is still a solid 7, and decidedly better than anything I had going for me at the time. So, I used some airline points to fly her out, and made sure to tell her that it wasn't costing me anything.

Long story short, she shows up and we spend the entire time fucking. At this point, I'm sure you're thinking to yourself "Thats great fuckforce5, but why should I care?"

Here are my takeaways: 1.) Zero Shit tests. I didn't have to prove myself in any way, shape, or form. Just being there was enough.

2.) It was all about me. Not to dive to much into background information, but I think this might has been a "fantasy" for both of us when I was in high school, and since it finally came to fruition, whatever I wanted went. This was the least selfish woman I had ever been with. She was completely happy following my lead.

3.) I didn't even have to make an offer to pay for anything. Everywhere we wen't it was all on her. Drinks, food, everything.

I guess the reason I'm posting this is partly because I never thought of myself doing something like that. I'm always after the new, shiny toys, and have always been picky. I'm sure there are other guys out there like me, and I'm just pointing out, it's not always bad to go out on a limb.

If you want to take it down to its purest form, if sex really is a market, then its also a commodity. In this case it was more beneficial to bring it in from somewhere else, and get a much better ROR. Age was always kind of a hang up for me, and this is the first time I looked past it. I guess I finally learned that good is good.