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[–]AfricanBushDoctor62 points 7 years ago [recovered] (17 children) | Copy Link
The quarantine really did a number on this sub.
[–]LaserEyes2029 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Was kind of hoping the quarantine would call the herd of incel/anger phase mooks.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's literally saying the opposite to help those who might be in anger phase. You embarrassed yourself by not even reading the post before commenting.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
number on this sub.
Can't articulate an argument but you're here anyway to write something vague and insulting.
[–]kril89 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you saying its made it better or worse?
Do you think it made it better or worse?
[–]Grow4th0 points 7 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link
You can and may find someone but you gotta work extra hard at it. It's just that the mountain is a lot bigger than you expected.
This post reads like a third grader wrote it XD.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I'm writing for 2nd grade readers like you who only read the TL;DR.
[–]Grow4th1 points 7 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
Sorry dude, I was being honest.
Your writing is terrible, but hopefully you improve.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You were not being honest. Professional organizations literally pay me to write that's how I know you're not honest.
You pointed out this sentence:
You can and may find someone but you gotta work extra hard at it.
And you were even dumb enough to point out this sentence even though there is nothing wrong with it:
It's just that the mountain is a lot bigger than you expected.
This first sentence is basically informal speaking conversation. It's not meant to be a sentence of exquisite writing or to be put into a novel. "you gotta work extra hard at it" is what you say to a friend when speaking and that's how I was writing this.
Where are the mistakes? Where is the bad writing?
You know reading is a skill too, perhaps your reading skills are just underdeveloped.
It's the most dishonorable thing to start a sentence implying you will be honest and then write something totally dishonest.
[–]Grow4th0 points 7 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Dude... relax. You are taking this too personally and being defensive.
I'd be happy to give you constructive feedback but you deleted your post in shame. You can use http://www.hemingwayapp.com/ as a tool.
Those two lines were simply the closest to the comment section. I grabbed them out of laziness. The whole post was bad and painful to read.
But that's just my honest opinion. If you're making a living on your writing, good for you.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Your opinion is wrong.
Attacking peoples' writing without any supporting evidence is shameful and dishonorable. You're not being honest.
You grabbed those lines even though there was nothing really wrong with it other than the informal way ONE of the sentences was written.
I didn't delete any post in shame, so WHAT IN THE FUCK are you talking about? Why are you being so hostile and lying over and over again?
Please explain to me the reasoning for your lies and dishonesty. What is motivating you to do this?
It is a fact that I know how to write well, your opinion cannot possibly be correct, so your best course of action is to question yourself first. Perhaps... There is this possibility that you just haven't seen my style of writing because you don't read many books. Could that be it?
Perhaps you saw ONE sentence that you didn't like or felt was a little grammatically odd and then extrapolated an opinion from that? Could that be it?
If so just admit that that's what you did; stop being dishonest and dishonorable and attacking me with lies.
Further, cease attacking people for being defensive, when you are clearly attacking them... It's just a suggestion you know, it isn't psychologically healthy to attack people with destructive-criticism (without anything constructive) and then question why they are being defensive about it.
[–]Grow4th0 points 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
You are right, I didn't read your whole post. I only read the top half of your post, it was so bad I couldn't finish it.
I'm not criticizing or attacking you, just your writing.
It's clear that you are insecure about your writing. That's why reading my criticism hurt your feelings. You really shouldn't be so childish.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're a fucking piece of shit moron who is only attacking people. You don't understand how to write anyway.
Childish fucking faggot. All you did was attack. You don't know what criticism is. I don't know why you are so insecure about other people getting attention but this deep psychological hate you have in your heart requires immediate psychiatric attention before you hurt someone or go into a depression.
Your shitty insults can't hurt anyone's feelings because what you did here was extremely pathetic behavior that an inferior person does.
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[–]VolatileEnemy1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You didn't offer criticism, you offered insults.
Seek psychiatric therapy. Attacking people in a hostile manner and trying to aggravate them is a sign of deep psychological illness. It shows that you take pleasure in the suffering of others and may suffer from a deep depression yourself.
All you have done throughout this comment chain is offer insults. And then in a sort of childish and naive attempt you are trying to compete with me, like a sort of "insult trade off" like as if you live the life of a loser who has nothing better to do than to aggravate others and to offer insults for no apparent reason.
Take your medication if you have any.
Not in any of your comments above did you offer criticism of actual writing, you simply offered insults. Maybe your parents never loved you as a child but attacking people for their style of writing without actually offering anything but vague insults is disturbed behavior. I'm only here trying to help you, no skin off my back to just stop responding or blocking you, I just think you need help.
As a psychopath you should consider why you take drugs, the real reason behind it. As you grew up with no parental love you started doing drugs to fill the void and taking sadistic pleasure in offering insulting comments to people who are strangers on the internet, for no apparent reason or provocation. It's beta behavior to bully others for their writing when you offer no constructive criticism, except vague insults.
If it sounds like I'm insulting you I swear I'm not. I'm trying to help you, but the truth can be painful to hear sometimes.
I mean just think of how sad this sentence was:
so bad at writing you have to copy my words childish
You actually believe you can irritate someone by saying "bad at writing" to them over and over. It's sad.
I don't know what's worse the fact that you think this can anger anyone other than children, or the fact that you take pleasure in other peoples' pain.
Vague insults to others while attempting to disguise it as "criticism" is beta bullying behavior that psychopaths do when they take pleasure in others being upset.
[–]Terdmuffin 30 points31 points32 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tl;Dr : women live in abundance because vagina. Become the best version of yourself to maximize your chance of vagina. Hamster that because no vagina that male accomplishments are more meaningful.
[–]latinasonly27 points 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
The average woman has high unreasonable expectations. You got fatties and fuglies thinking about prince charming and they treat amazing guys like as if they are common. They're very spoiled.
these bitches know deep down that they aren't the shit, they are just being enabled by weak men. It is weak men that have been socially conditioning women to think they are God's gift to mankind.
most women, even in the West know how to treat a real man. I have spotted a lot of girls getting sassy with weaker men, but with me , they don't dare act up.
Problem is many men in today's society don't have any balls at all. If you are a tough guy, dealing with women in day to day situations is a fucking joke. It is men that are potentially hard to deal with.
got rejected by a girl he had worked so hard to build rapport with
he worked hard to build rapport with ... enough said. hes gonna get rejected if he works hard. The high value person doesn't need to work hard to .
I myself, with some women you have ZERO struggle and everything is easy-mode. Then there are women who make things impossible for you, who try to friendzone you or try to enslave you somehow or keep stringing you along. Yet maybe the latter woman I described was less hot! It doesn't make sense.
This is were it gets weird. An older 29 year old woman has higher standards than the just out of 18 year old out of high-school girl who is WAY more pretty , feminine, and all around pleasant. I laugh when this happens. I attribute this to the other woman having higher standards due to more exposure to men. Men are like drugs for women. Women develop a tolerance for the drug, and need a harder and harder drug to get their fix. You need to be more alpha than the other guys they have tried to get them high.
Can't count the number of worthless men with good girlfriends or married. Worthless. No game. Not that smart. Not that successful.
these men always either have some form of natural game or are beta. Also, many women have the beta boyfriend, but do not actually act on their subconscious drive and go full beta buck/alpha fucks or cheat on their boyfriend. those who have been interacting with females since age 6 have a huge inherent advantage on many like myself who only began interacting with women due to game.
behind all the bullshit socially conditioning women are people like any other. Many have insecurities, feel sad and lonely at times, and can struggle with making friends relationships. Women are physiologically/genetically weaker both psychologically and physically than MOST males. However many men in the West do not come close to tapping their psychological strength potential and are in practice psychologically weaker than women. When a woman encounters one of these weak men she cannot respect him - he is even weaker than her, and she KNOWS that without men to protect her she is very weak in the world.
The one innate advantage women have on men is that in an individual sense, they are re-productively FAR more valuable than a man. One man can potentially impregnate a hundred women in the time it takes one women to be produce a child. A group with one man and 20 women has far more reproductive potential than a group of 20 men and one woman. This is why societies that valued women more than the average man have survived, while those that didn't died off.
However, the deference, (disguised as "respect") to women promoted in the West today is BULLSHIT and is only leading to a more and more degenerate society.
[–]LeftHookTKD 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
group with one man and 20 women has far more reproductive potential than a group of 20 men and one woman. This is why societies that valued women more than the average man have survived, while those that didn't died off.
It goes both ways. The group with 20 women would be very easy to invade and take over by a group of even 10 men. Of course in modern society this danger does not exist, so it makes sense that women are valued much higher these days
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
An interesting thing is that regardless of how women and men are treated in a society. The only ones that did survive are the ones that have a more-or-less equal female-to-male ratio.
[–]boy_named_su 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The hot ones are going on trips with their beta orbiters all the f-ing time
Otherwise good post
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[–]NastyThrowawayAcc 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why I see no difference in attitude in both the comment you respond and yours? And who the fuck recommends suicide as an option in this sub? How does that make you a better man?
If his comment is useless, yours is totally shit, manipulative and missleading which is even worse. But considering the angry/rant attitude you're taking in the other comments it's not surprising.
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[–]NastyThrowawayAcc 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are here for a giggle why are u almost only commenting in TRP? Nice giggle u had that you even removed your own comment ha? Seems to me that you fucked up and can't even recognize it, but considering most of your other comments you don't have anything to add up here just toxicity, so you're better off here wasting someone else's time.
If you are here for a giggle why are u almost only commenting in TRP? Nice giggle u had that you even removed your own comment ha? Seems to me that you fucked up and can't even man up and recognize it, but considering most of your other comments you don't have anything to add up in this sub, only toxicity. Go spend your and other's time somewhere else lad
[–]VisitingfromJapan 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And your average man is a fat neckbeard guzzling beer & energy drinks while playing video games 6+ hours a day with no ambition.
[–]rob13_ 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're right, no need to get depressed or lethargic just because of the world's nature. It is the fault of desperate guys who shower these women with compliments and yet never get with her. By becoming a well rounded individual (not even anything super-successful), you can put yourself ahead in all areas of life. The bar is really set low.
The bar is low, but the issue I am highlighting here is that you can become a well-rounded individual but it's not going to suddenly cause you to be flooded with women. You can still have dryspells while being a well-rounded person.
My point is that things aren't fully in your control or influence. Being a well-rounded individual just increases your chances.
[–]Welendas 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great post , made me realize alot !
[–]snowie42 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
True that there are some people ahead of us and behind us. I have this friend that is a true alpha. Doesn't know about TRP at all, but he is a walking red pill guy. Funny thing is, he is not the most handsome guy in the world, and he just has a regular body. But his mentality is so redpill that he can get HB 9-10s without any problem. Has a strong natural game. Can't stop myself being jealous of him sometimes.
[–]Pertinaxed 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't really know that he doesn't know about TRP. One of the laws of power is to make your accomplishments look effortless. I read TRP all the time and don't talk to it about anyone, because I know that 99% of people will just argue with me about the theory, and then write me off. If I instead uses the theory to inform my actions, and succeed, without ever making explicit the principles underpinning my persona, then I can't be dismissed or ignored.
You don't really know that he doesn't know about TRP. One of the laws of power is to make your accomplishments look effortless. Hence, I read TRP all the time and don't talk to it about anyone, because I know that 99% of people will just argue with me about the theory, and then write me off. If I instead uses the theory to inform my actions, and succeed, without ever making explicit the principles underpinning my persona, then I can't be dismissed or ignored. Your friend could easily be doing the same thing.
natural game
You don't really know that he doesn't study TRP. One of the laws of power is to make your accomplishments look effortless. Hence, I read TRP all the time and don't talk to it about anyone, because I know that 99% of people will just argue with me about the theory, and then write me off. If I instead uses the theory to inform my actions, and succeed, without ever making explicit the principles underpinning my persona, then I can't be dismissed or ignored. Your friend could easily be doing the same thing.
[–]TheOneWhoDidntCum 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It is more complex than just value... there's cases when a certain individual has a type of humor that she gets a real high off of.. and no other men can provide her with that... we are all different complex mechanisms, it's not enough to just flaunt the lambo or your wallet just like it's not easy for Joe Rogan to be great at stand up comedy (love the guy but let's be real)
This made me laugh because I really love Joe Rogan, but I had just watched his latest special and I enjoyed it but you know, it wasn't that incredible.
we are all different complex mechanisms,
Yes, this is what I mean when I say that somethings are out of your control and certain things just jive, resulting in some beta or worthless man getting a nice girl. Or a great alpha missing out on some girl.
Hell, there is even a "player-detector" radar among some girls, if they smell that you're a pump-and-dumper, they will abandon you, even if all you did was just game well.
The game is changing sometimes as you are playing it.
[–]Godskook 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's not an "average" woman. Don't lose sight of reality, dude.
[–]AlmightyPhoenix 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
>The struggle exists but so does success with no effort. Can't count the number of worthless men with good girlfriends or married. Worthless. No game. Not that smart. Not that successful.
He must have more game than you and more intelligence, since he has girls to bang while you rant about it on the internet and he probably doesn't say dumb shit like " She doesn't have the testosterone to be thinking of sex all the time either" thinking its some kind of mind-blowing observation... no shit she doesn't, women have estrogen, what's your point?
Posts like this are making this subreddit seem more like the blue pill than the red pill, a giant circle-jerk of dipshits regurgitating mindless bullshit while others come along to validate it like "OMG YOURE SO RIGHT BRUH I DONT GET IT, MY PERSONALITY IS GODLY, IM ALL OVER MY GAME YET I CANT EVEN GET A BLOWJOB, WOMEN ARE SO RETARDED"
[–]bakamoney 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah. His point is RNG and luck.
Both of which apply to everything in real life.
I explained it pretty well with the analogy of going to the gym or dieting.
Dieting might influence your bodyfat 20% while exercise 80%, but even at a higher level, genetics matters the most.
So there are a lot of factors out of your control, which is what I was highlighting.
Too many people I see in asktrp etc., are getting angry and bitter because they believe they should be impacting their own lives with their own skills and yet it's not working, because there's this "opposing player" on the board called women. Yeah, unfortunately, not everything is under your control.
[–]Saberinbed 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Getting laid is easy. Getting laid with the women you want to get laid with is where the real struggle happens. Anyone can go fuck the 6s and date the 7s.
Not everyone can date or fuck an 8+.
[–]AlmightyPhoenix 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It said specifically that they're worthless men who aren't smart and have no game yet have GOOD girlfriends and wives
Judging by the fact he said GOOD girlfriends, he's talking about women he wants to get with (the 8+) yet can't because the "inferior, weak, worthless, retarded, gameless beta" is in her panties already
context is everything, your reply isn't invalid by any means you just kinda missed my point there lol
[–]Saberinbed 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You know that being a beta is a viable strategy right? Its why you see so many betas get with girls who are out of their league even though they have nothing. They just get used for their emotional support. You just need to find the right girls who depend on betas for their needs and just need to get lucky.
[–]DrBalance 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was the beta to one of these girls once. I met her on tinder while I was on holiday. Wild curves, massive tits, 200 likes on any IG photo she posts of said tits. She spent the whole time telling me about how badly all the 'alpha' guys were breaking her heart, while I cuddled, listened intently, played with those tits then fucked her a few times. The sex was very mediocre and clearly just to keep me around for a few more nights. I know I lowered my standards of how I should be acting, but if I 'tried' to be alpha it just wouldn't have worked.
[–]Walkerstain 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So the only way to bang women that are out of our league is to be a beta provider?
[–]Saberinbed 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its different for every girl. This sub has the mentality that being a beta provider isnt a viable strat that attracts hot women. It does. You’re just going to have to be able to live with you being her bitch.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
yet can't because the "inferior, weak, worthless, retarded, gameless beta" is in her panties already
What the fuck is wrong with your brain buddy?
Are you trying to say that I should fuck over my friends by gaming their wives/girlfriends knowing all the flaws, problems, and weaknesses of those friends? You're a real psychopathic piece of shit...
worthless men who aren't smart and have no game yet have GOOD girlfriends and wives
I stated this to highlight the fact that perception is not always rational among women. That sometimes convenience, beliefs, and other factors matter (or beta-bux strategy). That women are making decisions, on their own that you would assume they wouldn't make if you saw this as a rational process.
[–]AlmightyPhoenix 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you saying your friends are worthless beta-males that have women way out of their league they don't rationally deserve? I didn't catch the part where so-called people are your friends you're calling worthless, unintelligent, etc., on the internet
You're a real two-faced piece of shit...
probably wouldn't say that shit to their face either, fucking coward, have you ever discussed this with them or do you save it for when you pretend to be a courageous alpha to other wannabe alpha males on the internet?
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
calling worthless, unintelligent,
They're good friends, but I'm giving a realistic assessment on here since this is the internet.
You probably have ugly friends... Do you call them beautiful to the internet, just to "not be two-faced"?
No you assess people accurately. Just don't tell your friends.
probably wouldn't say that shit to their face either,
WHY WOULD I? If I told my real opinions to everyone in real life, I would be alone. The truth is very painful.
have you ever discussed this with them
Only a bad friend would tell their friends terrible things about them unless it is something they can constructively improve (such as say, fixing their clothes or something).
[–]AlmightyPhoenix 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I want to say my friend is a hideous piece of shit going nowhere in life that should get hit by a fucking car and die, I just tell him. If I think my friends are severely autistic and need to tryout for the windowlicking competition in the special olympics, I let them know. You know how I avoid being "two-faced?" I don't smile in their face with all of these thoughts going in my head while I hold it all back, if I think my friend is worthless he's heard it from me long before anyone on the internet has...
A bad friend has terrible things to say about their friends that they only say behind their backs or online to people they don't know instead of to their face, you probably learnt your definition of friendship from the same place you learnt how to talk to women (aka, this subreddit) tho so whatever, guess this explains why youre a single alpha and these "worthless beta" friends of yours aren't.
[–]MrCongeniality1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
A lot of this post is descriptive but a lot of it demonstrates some poor thinking about relationships. Your focus on which guys you think have less value demonstrates a lack of interest in people as...people. Everyone has different things that they are looking for or put more value on. TRP endorses some specific qualities to develop, but this is more of an opening salvo, not the ultimate guide for being a man. If you are thinking that you just need to do X, Y, and Z and then all ladies will love you, that is `sperg thinking. With that mentality, a woman will smell it all over you that you're just talking to her to angle for sex and have no interest in who she is (because you think of women as cloned cogs, instead of as a buffet of unique and interesting dishes to try). If you can approach a woman with a friendly interest in who she is and not be hung-up on achieving a sexual outcome, you will be surprised at how quickly they fall on your dick.
I can quickly and easily explain why your mediocre friends (if they are) are more successful. Women are anxious, self-conscious and just want to feel good. Guys that don't put out a judgmental vibe make women feel good. End of story. It sucks that the inability to handle a little real-world expectation makes so many women incapable partners, but it is what it is.
I don't think I was not considering women as people.
I was specifically mentioning friends who were not red-pilled, who just happen to have natural abilities and great personalities and they are sometimes faltering, and I contrasted it with those who have no natural abilities and their success.
The reason I did that is to show that you can't just overanalyze each situation in isolation. What works on one woman doesn't work on another. How amazing you are is only a percentage of influence over the outcome.
This is the importance of outcome independence. Too many people get hung up on that "one that got away" or "why didn't all this shit I did correctly not work?" or "what am I doing wrong?" And maybe it's nothing wrong.
I can count many situations where I felt like I played things perfectly and it didn't work. I can count situations where I messed up a bunch and it somehow worked out.
[–]MrCongeniality1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know, man. Maybe we are talking past each other. I agree that not everything is within our control, but it just sounds like you are looking to escape a sense of responsibility. If you failed to accurately predict an outcome, it is because you misread or misunderstood something. This is true of all things in life. Don't take this as a personal failure. No one can see the future. But if things went a way you didn't expect, accept that it is your responsibility to learn what you missed or misunderstood if you want to live a successful life.
In this context, if a woman is willing to be seen with you in public, then she is almost certainly willing to do things with you in private. If you think you played things perfectly, perhaps you didn't.
TRP exists and guys are attesting to it because developing a few fundamental qualities will have a big impact on your behavior and how women respond to you sexually. There is no magic bullet, but there is a secret sauce.
At the end of the day, you will pick and choose which TRP principles you want to invest in and how you want to live your life. And it will be you making the decisions that have the biggest impact on getting what you want.
you failed to accurately predict an outcome, it is because you misread or misunderstood something
No it isn't. And I know it isn't, for example, in one situation the girl had a horrific breakup, everything was going well, but nothing was misunderstood or misread. They just did not want to date anyone at this time. But I only found out later. At the time, I may have been analyzing what I did wrong and can't see it. But I hadn't done anything wrong.
but it just sounds like you are looking to escape a sense of responsibility.
No there is no responsibility. You are not responsible for your own success. If a car hits you, and you have medical bills stacked up and somehow the asshole insurance company decides to find a loophole to not pay you, and the police comes by to file a report and he just refuses to agree with your point of view, then you are toast. Your success is not always your own responsibility.
Your responsibility is how much INFLUENCE you can maximize before that influence can exert an outcome into your life. But your life is not always in your total control.
But if things went a way you didn't expect, accept that it is your responsibility to learn what you missed or misunderstood
Nothing was misunderstood or missed.
This is not a solo-sport like skiing or golfing. It is not a FPS video game. It is not an isolated cooking attempt.
This is trying to get women, and women are another player that can exert influence and control over the situation. But worse, friends of the girl can exert influence. That ex-boyfriend might reappear in her life that might have influence. Her depression or anxiety may exert an influence that is problematic for your goal.
The issue here is that you are acting like this is a solo-sport and it is not. It's a player-sport and there are many factors at play.
if a woman is willing to be seen with you in public, then she is almost certainly willing to do things with you in private.
A ridiculous "principle" you've fabricated that isn't true at all. Women frequently have orbiters that they may do things in public with. They frequently go on dates with people they don't have sex with even if they consider them viable potential mates. They frequently hang out with people for no reason without considering it a sexual thing. There are no such guarantees.
There is no magic bullet, but there is a secret sauce.
There isn't a secret sauce aside from being very attractive.
because developing a few fundamental qualities will have a big impact on your behavior and how women respond to you sexually.
It can have an impact, but it doesn't necessarily have an impact. Women don't come flying at you, just because you've memorized and practiced all the principles of TRP. You are acting like a simple change in attitude helps but it doesn't. If that were the case, then a man who fully understands TRP would have 100% success rate after that, or even 90%. They won't. They will still have a success rate that is relative to their attractiveness.
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[–]LeftHookTKD 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get in shape. Take testosterone if needed. If you were a hot girl would you fuck yourself? If not then get the fuck out of here with the self pity and get in better shape.
[–]VolatileEnemy[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't want it too much. Work to improve yourself.
I've had situations where I dumped a girlfriend and didn't have anyone for a year+. Some girls are not even worth talking to or spending even 15 minutes with, and you wouldn't know this if you didn't have girlfriends.
There is a big illusion going on around you. From movies, from TV, from books, that you think there are all these perfect girlfriends everywhere, there really aren't. They are irritatingly horrible sometimes. Especially if they are beautiful, the craziness factor goes up exponentially.
Men are late bloomers usually. It's rare that early 20-somethings get lots of women. Just hitting 30 you are still young, while 30-year women are reaching their peak and starting to decline.
I see plenty of guys even in some of the most amazing places in the world, but because they are young (despite being handsome or whatever), not having much success with women.
One guy was bragging to me about his new date he got and talked about how there is so much connection going on there. He showed me a picture. I said "wow really nice man"... but inside I almost puked at how ugly she is.
I know another guy, not mentioned in the above post, 30s, and he married some ugly girl. But that blew my mind, because this guy, he's so cool. I would literally pay money to hang out with him because he's that awesome. But he's too busy for me etc. especially after getting married and kids with the ugly chick.
Attraction is relative. Everyone who you don't want... is invisible to you. And you know what, everyone you do want, doesn't see you, makes you feel invisible.
[–]leviathan510 points 7 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
You seem depressed yourself, struggling against the tide, writing yourself out.
and so they get into some phase like "for some months, I'm just going to do my own thing and go do adventures" and they stay away from men, and you think to yourself "why would anyone do that?" They do it. It's not rational.
Women do not owe you anything.
Didn't say anything like that.
"why would anyone do that" is just how a man thinks. A man doesn't think "oh yeah you know it's a great idea if I am just not fucking anyone right now even though I can..." That typically doesn't happen. It's more like "I need to work on myself in monk mode so I'm not going to chase women."
But never "oh I could fuck anyone I want right now, but you know what I'm not gonna do that... I'm just going to do some pottery right now..."
Women are doing things that are not what men would usually do. That's what I was highlighting.
depressed yourself, struggling against the tide, writing yourself out.
Not sure what made you suggest that? But you are here, not bitter at all, trying to make people who wrote something feel bad like as if you have never ever had a period of struggle in your life. Is there something unworthy about having a difficult time with women?
Imagine for a second, I was struggling with women, (I don't but yeah absolutely I've had periods in the past where I did) but why bother highlighting? Do you have constructive suggestions or solutions to offer or are you just humblebragging and putting someone down? What made you feel this way to put someone down?
[–]leviathan511 points 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I meant no personal offense. I said what I said so the newbies could also see through the post. You know what, those who struggle to become better earn my respect. And I show my respect by making them struggle more, because only in that way may they grow even stronger.
Ah you are the drill sergeant here ? hehe
[–]MrCongeniality1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey man, just because he said you sounded depressed doesn't mean he is "trying" to make you feel bad. You are getting the feedback you are because there was a lot of tone in your post and perhaps a lot of defensiveness, hurt, and blame coming through that maybe you are not recognizing. I'm not criticizing you for having those feelings if you do, just be aware that they are coloring your thoughts and communication.
It actually is, because nothing in this sounded depressed, so either he was lying, or he felt like he read something that was depressive and so he wanted to emphasize that to others to make someone feel worse.
. You are getting the feedback you are because there was a lot of tone in your post
But there wasn't and I wasn't getting much feedback at all.
perhaps a lot of defensiveness
When you are being attacked, there is reason to be defensive. I was being attacked clearly.
hurt, and blame coming through
Hurt and blame to what? What are you talking about?
I'm not criticizing you for having those feelings
But I don't have those feelings.
just be aware that they are coloring your thoughts and communication.
But they ARE NOT. And you have no evidence of this? Where do you read this? I'm really damn confused as to where are you seeing this?
Am I being defensive now? Fuck yes, because you are all imagining some delusion that doesn't exist and cannot point it out.
You wanna be helpful ... POINT IT THE FUCK OUT, or otherwise cease your lying.
And if you point out my comments in response to you, the defensiveness, then I'm going to flip a table because defensiveness is not evidence of the original accusation that was false.
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