Hi everyone,

I'm a late 30s guy in a fairly happy & stable LTR with two kids, and I wanted to share some thoughts on the importance of playing the field widely when you're younger. I've seen some sentiments on here recently that echo MGTOW, like 'why even bother?' or that suggest that Cold Approaches are for losers (thankfully that post got downvoted to 0). Here's my take.

First of all, it's important to recognize that there are two main routes to an LTR:

  1. You decide you want a family/LTR and you go looking for someone who meets your criteria.
  2. You decide you don't want a family/LTR, but you meet someone who is so worthy that they change your mind.

So Why Play The Game?

  1. In either of the cases above, it's important to have plenty of experience with which to make a well-qualified decision.
  2. Great social skills are critical to many areas of life, including business, friendships, and LTR's. The more you practice your 'game' now, the better your life will be in the future, guaranteed. Practice your game with a wide range of people, including women you may be interested in, but also including women you're not interested in, men, family members, friends, and colleagues.

As has been said before, game everyone.