Women like an emotional roller-coaster. They desire variance. It keeps the story line interesting.

One of those variances is vulnerability.

In most cases, you don't want to reveal any vulnerabilities for a one-night stand or a plate. She wants a strong guy with a hard dick who isn't intimidated her and passes her shit-tests. Nothing more.

But for girls who you want to convert into an LTR, showing some vulnerability can engage their motherly instincts (remember, women are both whores and mothers; bloops think they're all nice, nurturers who could never do wrong, and anger phase men think they're only and always whores - both are wrong).

I suggest only doing this after you've fucked her or if somewhere along the initial seduction you were too much of an asshole, sent her into auto-rejection, and need some attainability. Vulnerability can make you human again, where now she only sees you as a cold robot or rampaging asshole.

But when you do show her this vulnerability, there's one iron rule: it cannot be about her.

Why? Because she can't help with you with it.

Maybe you had a rough childhood and an abusive father, because your mother died and he became a raging alcoholic. You tell her that and she will want to give you that motherly love you never had. If you've already given her good dick, not only does she feel sexual attraction to you but she can nurture you, too. Her full feminine nature is magnetized. Also, this will explain why you're such a hardass. "Oh, he's a dick because he's a hurt little boy inside!" Now she rationalizes your bad behavior and will therefore forgive it. She will let you be sarcastic, cold, or whatever quality that makes you emotionally unavailable and not blame you for it. A woman who makes excuses for your behavior is hooked. Think of the reverse and you will understand - think about how the most hopelessly enslaved one-itis sufferers are men who make excuses for a girl's shitty behavior. This reinforces their addiction, since they're rationalizing away reasons why they should cut her off. Same mechanism.

Vulnerability amplifies her addiction. And it's good, too, because she wants someone to take care of. It keeps her interested. Good cock only goes so far.

But if your vulnerability is related to her, you're doomed. No matter how much she tries to prove to you with words or actions that she cares for you, loves you, etc., it will never satisfy whatever insecurity you have, because it's coming from the source of your doubt.

Eventually, she will grow to resent the insecurities you have surrounding her, not only because women despise weakness, but because she can't help you with this, and her nurturing nature won't be released.

Beyond the implicit or explicit conversation that you have at some point about her being sexually faithful with zero exceptions, there should never be another talk about her commitment to you. If her interest in your life mission wavers at any point, you need to address it any other way other than expressing your doubts about her commitment to your cause. Otherwise, drop her.

There can be no conversation regarding your insecurities about her.

Or another man. It may not be objectively true that you are the greatest man in the world, but you damn well better act like it and feel it emotionally. If another man is the source of your life troubles, like a business rival, your only conversations with her regarding him should be about how you can destroy him. Otherwise, she will see him as your superior and be attracted to him.

Other than that, most vulnerabilities will draw her in to your story and reinforce her addiction to you and your cock.