Advice for Men.

I figured I should give my $ .02 to men as well, since men are our intended audience.

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1) Accept the world as it is, not as you wish it would be or think it should be. Look. I get it. It sucks that you can't be nice. It sucks that you have to be an asshole to get what you want. It sucks that this Red Pill stuff actually works. It sucks that everyone lied to you. It sucks that the truth is ugly and you wish it weren't like that.

Sorry-not sorry. The world is like that. Men are like that, women are like that, sex is like that, relationships and marriage are like that. Work through your red pill rage. The world will not change to accommodate you; you must change so you can maximize your results within the world. The sooner you accept this and resolve to live within it, the sooner you will find peace and happiness.

2) Proceed from necessary first principles. After you reach acceptance, then use these first principles to your advantage.

--Forget what you think you know. You will have to relearn how it works. The entire world lied to you. They gave it to you wrong. Or, you learned it wrong. Or you didn't pick up on what you were seeing, in part because of your nature; in part because others told you you weren't really seeing what you know you were seeing.

The world is heavily invested in you becoming its bitch. The world wants you a stupid, gullible, beta simp chump wage slave that others, especially women, can use and exploit for their own ends. The world needs to keep churning out beta simps to wife up the millions of age 30 on up women leaving the carousel. And today, if you allow that, you have only yourself to blame. Don't do it.

--Stop listening to women. Instead, watch what they do and observe what they respond to. Women have very little useful or informative to tell you about themselves or the world. And they certainly can't advise you on anything about your life. And yes, this also includes your mother, your sisters, your grandmothers, and every other woman you know. They will actively lie to you. They will mislead you without even knowing they're doing it.

--All women are like that. Yes, all women. All women, every single solitary one of them, has the capacity and ability to be Like That. All women are like that sometimes. All women have acted like that sometimes. I have never seen a woman who did not act Like That at least sometimes. Most women are like that most of the time. Some women are like that all the time.

--Male nature is what it is. Men want to fuck everything that moves, and men want to compete and win. Men want to join tribes of men to defeat other men. Men are about sexual quantity and spreading seed far and wide.

--Female nature is what it is. Women want alpha sperm to get pregnant and for genetically superior children. They want beta resources (money, time, labor, attention) to support those children. It is desirable, but not necessary, that the same man supply both the sperm and the resources.

--For women, Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks/dual mating strategy is the name of the game. They all either do it, or desperately want to do it.

--You must be ruthless and mercenary in getting what you want. There is absolutely nothing wrong with acting in your own self-interest. Kindness and politeness, deployed sparingly, are fine for moving through the world, but they are necessary only as social lubricants. They are not going to get you what you want. Deployed too liberally, they will get you used, exploited, taken advantage of, and fucked over. Polite to all, kind only to those who have earned it.

Rest assured: Women are being ruthless and mercenary in pursuing what they want. They will not hesitate to use you, exploit you and lie to you to get what they want from you. You must recognize this, and be willing to do the same. So grow a spine. Reach down between your legs. Feel those? Those are your balls. They mean you're a man. So be a man, and do what you need to do for you.

--In sexual attraction, looks matter. They just do. You need to looksmax. Get in shape. Lose the weight. You'll feel better, look better, and attract better women. As shallow as women accuse men of being, women are even more shallow.

--Looks status money Game.

--Nobody cares about you. You have to care about yourself because no one else will. The upside of this is that you can reinvent yourself and rebuild yourself however you want. You can also do pretty much what you want because in a day or less, everyone will forget about that approach or that social faux pas. The world does not revolve around you. People are not thinking about you, talking about you or ruminating over you. People are not obsessing over what you did or do.

--All "love" is conditional. All of it. No woman is ever going to love you unconditionally. Ever. By the same token, you must not hesitate to withdraw your love, attention and resources when you are not getting what you want and need. Rest assured: women will withdraw sex and refuse sex when they're not getting what they want and need.

--Sexual attraction is nonnegotiable. You cannot negotiate desire. She cannot be reasoned into wanting you. It's either there or it isn't. She either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. If she doesn't want to fuck you, no amount of work, cajoling, Game, or anything else will get you there.

Rejection is a fact of life for men. If you've been rejected, that's the end of the matter. Disengage, block, delete, and move on.

--You are alone. If you want/need it, you have to get it yourself. No one is going to get it for you, do it for you, or help you.

--You are expendable and dispensable. You have a burden of performance that women do not and never will have. Your value is based on what you do and what you make of yourself. Women's value is based on what they are. You are not a woman. Women can simply be, simply exist. Men must do. Men must perform. Men must make, create, build, work.

These things are just reality. They are, whether you want them to be or not, whether you like them or not. Reality does not care about your feelings. Reality does not care how you feel about it.

3) Learn how to read what you're seeing and hearing. Learn how to "translate" in your mind what women are saying and doing. Women communicate indirectly. They use body language, passive voice, passive-aggressive language and tone, gossip, manipulation, fraud, deceit, subversion and subterfuge, to communicate with men and with each other. They speak in half truths and "code", expecting men to get the hints they're laying down. They expect this of men because they can talk to women in their womanese, half truths and code, and women know exactly what they're talking about.

Learn womanese. Learn women's "code". Learn how to translate them to plain English. Learn how to decipher it not only for what's said, but also for what's not expressly said.

4) Decide what you want, and then act on that. All of your life, all decisions major and minor, must proceed from these questions:

What do I want? What must I do to get what I want? Is it possible to get what I want, or do reality and circumstances dictate a difference between what I want and what I can get?

And then acting upon them. You must decide what you want independently of what anyone else wants - your parents, your family, your friends, your women. You will have to stand alone much of the time in determining "what you want", because it will not comport with what others tell you you should want.

5) Deal with women in your frame. If you want a woman, build your life the way you want it and then bring a woman into that life, on your terms, or not at all. Don't enter a woman's life and frame. Entering a woman's life on her terms means she will forever dictate to you how it will be, how life will be lived, and what you will be expected to do and be. Thus lies the way of unhappiness, alimony, child support, and poverty.

6) Ruthlessly remove from your life all people and things that do not serve your interests. A person, thing or activity has to add value to your life for it to remain there. If a person or thing or activity is a net loss or drain on your life, he/she/it has to go. You have to remove it. If a woman is not giving you what you want and need, she has to go. Now. Kick that bitch to the curb. Eliminate thoughts of sunk cost fallacies. Cut your losses and get her out.

Friendzoned? Out. Sex is falling off a cliff despite efforts to reverse it? Gone. Wants to stop having sex? Gone. Getting bitchy and demanding and efforts at correction have failed? Out. Escalation failed, shows signs of disinterest? Disengage and move on. Ghosting? Gone. Delete, block, move on.

7) Learn to say "no". Eliminate "I'm sorry" from your vocabulary.

8) Do something. It might be wrong. But you have to do something. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. This applies to all areas of life. At some point you must stop thinking, cogitating, ruminating and analyzing, and you must then get out there and DO SOMETHING. You must act. You must move forward. You must go. You must do. Almost all the time, taking action, even if ill prepared and poorly executed, is better than doing nothing at all.

9) Embrace your inner asshole. Find your "feminine side", and strangle it until it is dead. Whining, complaining, inaction, timidity, hesitation - these are all feminine qualities, and are not attractive in any man. Your inner asshole is your friend, but deploy it sparingly.

10) Do not show negative emotions to any woman. It's fine to feel and experience these emotions. It is NOT fine to display them to women.

11) Befriend men. Hang out with men. Spend time in the company of men. Iron sharpens iron. Other men will challenge you, hear you, defend you, and stand with you.

12) Stop defending, excusing, explaining, and rationalizing. You owe no one any explanations for your decisions about your life. You do not have to spend hours explaining to some woman why you don't want to date her anymore. You do not have to explain why you're not interested in this "nice" girl someone wants you to spend $100 for drinks and dinner on. You do not have to explain why you want or don't want something. You do not need to give someone "closure". "Because I want x" or "because I don't want x" or "because this isn't working out" is enough.

If you are getting nowhere with women at all, then one or more of the following things is going on with you:

--you don't look good enough. You're fat and out of shape. You've got crappy hair, clothes, teeth or breath. You have fundamental structural problems and you need to fix them. Ask men, trusted male friends (NOT WOMEN) about this.

--you're coming off as feminine, socially awkward, weird, or creepy. Again, ask men about this. You're coming off as needy or clingy (feminine). You're a whiny bitch. You don't know how to handle yourself in social situations. You're uncomfortable. You've got some mild autism going on and you really don't get how you come across to people. Or, women think you're really strange and have nothing in common with you. Or you're coming off as stalkerish, odd, and creepy.

Women do not want to date women with penises. Women do not want to fuck women in men's bodies. If you need your hand held through everything, if you need constant reassurance, if you're insecure and effeminate, you're not attractive to women and women will not want to fuck you.

Women do not want to date or fuck unconfident, hesitant, insecure men who are painfully uncomfortable around others. Women do not want to date weirdos, freaks, creeps, uggos or fat asses. They just don't. And women can sniff this out a mile away. And you need to accept this as reality.

If you are getting things started with women but you cannot keep them going, then one of the following is going on:

--your "alpha attractive" and "beta comfort" are not calibrated for this particular woman. You're so "alpha" she ends up hating you; or you're so "beta" she ends up losing attraction.

--you got over the physical attractiveness hurdle but you're coming off as weird, socially awkward, feminine, or creepy.