Hurry up avoidant men and commit! I have 38 frozen eggs.

gntlbastard · 2024-07-03T12:13:47+00:00

This is a man who just got destroyed by divorce and is likely picking up the pieces of whatever is left of his life. But yea, fuck that dude, just jump on board the next one both feet first. This also proves how divorce affects each gender. The woman will always come out ahead in the short term while the guy comes out worse in the short term. Fucked around, wasted time but now it's all the ex's fault.

Joaquino7997 · 2024-07-03T11:59:00+00:00

Regardless of whether the man is divorced or not, this woman is a walking red flag. China's got nothing on her!

Overkillengine · 2024-07-03T12:18:56+00:00

It's funny how women that complain about men not moving to their schedules were themselves clearly never ever considering moving to a man's schedule either.

But of course we know that would require these women to regard men as fellow human beings with wants and needs of their own, and their own schedule for things.

bigdaveyl · 2024-07-03T12:13:01+00:00

Wow, so much...

Much like how women complain about men being desperate, the opposite can also be true, especially as the time runs out...
Then you have the complaints about "settling." It's most likely the person you married was your equal in looks/value and your expectations were too high. I wish therapists were actually qualified and would deprogram some of these women. I get that there needs to be some physical attraction, but when you're a 5, there's nothing wrong with getting with 3's and 4's if they have positive attributes. Also, beauty is skin deep. Many of these women need to do some soul searching and decide if they want to be alone with their boxed wine and cats and decide what really matters.
I find the whole sperm donor/IVF stuff morally problematic and gross. Especially when done when you're single.
Of course, all of your friends married monsters that perfectly hid their faults all these years. Again, there's no self introspection.
And of course she'll sleep with anyone right off the bat that gives her the tingles. Why buy the cow when the milk is free.

Siddyf · 2024-07-03T14:43:32+00:00

I really chuckle at the Wuhmynz casual shop talk about freezing their gamates like it’s an everyday walk in the park. Not to mention how they detail, “oh he wasted x years of my life…”. Lady you been wasting your 20s and 30s fucking people who don’t commit. Maybe that’s the problem if you want a family.

WornBlueCarpet · 2024-07-03T16:52:47+00:00

... looking for dating intently.

Implying that she has done a lot of casual dating up until now.

Funny how focused and serious they can become once they hit middle age.

Venny_1 · 2024-07-03T15:59:47+00:00

The man expressed concern for his safety and autonomy, saying he was scared after his divorce, only for the woman to express demand for a serious relationship in hasty fashion. Notice she didn't mention what he was scared of, nor did she mention trying to win him over, to assure him that he would have no reason to be scared of a potential outfalling if he were to commit to her.

He mentioned concern, she answered with demand.

Gentlemen, this is the empathy gap that exists between the sexes, the width of its chasm none of us can measure.

This woman wishes to interact with a male android programmed to cater to her desires and needs, take note of her fears and alleviate them swiftly. Alas, she is interacting with a male human being, with his own desires and needs and fears not necessarily congruent with hers. What troublesome a sex we men are!

Kryllist · 2024-07-03T21:11:31+00:00

One of the most triggering things to me about women is how they get the ick from any man that puts pressure on them if they are anything less than 100 into him. Only to turn around and get anxiety and angry if they like a man and he moves at his own pace.

Women demand a monopoly on all interpersonal interactions between men and women. I remember reading a thread on another forum that was about rich men in the Hamptons choosing to get vasectomies due to women trying to get pregnant. And there were women livid at the idea. How dare a man take ownership in his own reproduction.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-07-03T15:30:08+00:00

My goodness! Just to read their complaints about pretty much everything is exhausting. Imagine the disaster if you have to deal with them IRL.....

Siddyf · 2024-07-03T14:48:59+00:00

Whenever I see polishknights name it always reminds me of the winged hussars from mount and blade warband artwork.

AtkinsCatkins · 2024-07-03T22:22:24+00:00

if you are seeking dating or relationship advice on reddit then you have already failed.

To do so in your "Late 30s" is fucking tragic.

You have definitely failed in life and love if you cant understand why that is the case.

Carquetta · 2024-07-03T19:10:00+00:00

I genuinely don't understand the timetable that people like this operate on.

If you have a kid when you're 39 or 40 (assuming she's 38 right now) then you're going to be a raising someone until you're 67+, even longer if your geriatric pregnancy results in any issues or developmental disabilities, such as Down's or Autism.

Meanwhile, everyone I know who had kids in their 20s after graduating and starting their financially-stable careers (this includes lawyers and dentists) are living their best life in their mid 40s with their kids out of the house and done with college. They have literally 25+ years of happy family life to look forward to with everything taken care of, all because they started "early" and committed to a quality partner.

The ones who remain "on the market" are the dregs, or the high-quality but wholly-uninterested lifelong bachelors. The latter are avoiding the types in the OP with a pole a mile long, and the former are what she's going to have to settle for.

Eterniter · 2024-07-05T08:46:19+00:00

If putting in effort to arrange an exciting date and paying for it as a man was the key to relationships, everyone would do it, it's easy.

She mentions that women expect that as the bare minimum in order to feel desired/valued.

Men avoid to do the above most of the time for the simple reason that women want this effort ONLY by guys they find attractive. The rest are wasting their time because women will not reject/deny a paid date with a guy she already knows she doesn't like, she will waste his time and money to have a paid night out and then disappear.

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