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I hate feeling like I'm shallow.

polishknightusa

March 25, 2023
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Title I hate feeling like I'm shallow.
Author

polishknightusa

Upvotes 66
Comments 14
Date March 25, 2023 1:51 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/121mh6z/i_hate_feeling_like_im_shallow/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/i-hate-feeling-like-im-shallow.1187932
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Comments

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 50 points51 points52 points 3 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't really have a problem with women having standards, just as long as they don't call men pigs for having standards of their own.

Narrator's voice-over: "Women do call men shallow pigs for having standards."

[–]Sumpm 31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Right. They can reject me for being short, and I'm totally okay with it. But I don't want to hear anything when I reject then for being overweight or tatted.

[–]Dunkman83 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

my thing is, you can have whatever standard u want, but when things dont work out, and u end up 50 and alone, just know its YOUR fault.

dont go blaming all men, accept that u made the decision to be where u are.

its like me wanting to be the ceo of google, and passing up a union construction job. now when i end up 45 and homeless, i cant go blaming the job market.

[–]Cautious_Potential_8 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Word up.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No tatts huh?! Dang. We're a rare breed. Kinda snooped your posted. I spit out my beer reading your reply on the Chad or Karen post....

[–]notthefuzz99 31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not being attracted to someone is a VALID reason not to date someone.

On the surface, yes, that's correct.

The problem is too many women's "what I find attractive" gauges are completely out of whack due to the illusion of infinite choice thanks to the internet; and because guys objectively out of their league have used these women as slump-busting masturbatory aides in the past.

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

A woman certainly can be free to have standards and demands which completely, delusionally fail to square with reality-- I can't stop her-- but big problems do arise when she doesn't notice that her delusions also affect other people, like when she believes that men somehow have the easy job in courtship and acts accordingly.

If she can avoid those second bits (and she probably can't), I really have no problem with her living in her own little fantasy land of lies and make-believe and melting clocks.

[–]KrazyJazz 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'How am I gonna be able to victimize myself today?....I know! I'll pretend women don't have the right to have standards and are forced by society to accept men no matter what. Tee-hee. Will do.'

[–]silly_birb_Banned 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kevin Samuels: "Then buy a dog and die alone"

Woman: "I am allergic to dogs and cats"

Kevin Samuels: "Then die alone"

[–]Joaquino7997 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They can think what they want to think. Feel however they want to feel. I'd settle for them not whining and complaining after they've finally realized they've priced themselves out of the dating market.

Because the Wall is coming...and when it does, feeling 'shallow' will become the least of her worries.

Replace 'shallow' with 'lonely' and about 2-3 cats and that will become their reality.

[–]MintOtter 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because the Wall is coming

Men hit the wall at 35.

[–]ioa99 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is a difference between hitting the wall and reaching your heyday.

Men are in their best physical condition at about 35, I agree. But they still can have big success on the dating beyond that age. I would say men hit the wall at around 50. If they are millionaires, the hitting of the wall may never come at all.

On the other hand, women reach their best condition by 25 maximum, and hit the wall before 35. Extreme amount of money or beauty may postpone this moment until the 40s.

[–]DrDog09 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To paraphrase Forrest Gump -- "Shallow is as Shallow does."

[–]TachyonPhoenix 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it's a double edged sword. When they say they want a fit man I say fair enough, but curvy means fat and I'm not sharing my resources with a demanding fat woman πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ.

Plenty of men who are ok with an unattractive woman, but you are allowed to have standards as are the women.

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