Loneliness has arrived

loneliness-inc · 2021-02-28T04:59:25+00:00

Well well well....

Uncle loneliness isn't interested in auntie Sandy Panty, single mommy with bipolar disorder and baby daddy issues.

Nope nope nope.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-02-27T17:25:16+00:00

Lots of “abusive” people in this persons life

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-02-27T17:36:49+00:00

10 minutes a day of personal time with the kids? Unless she's working full time (she home schools, so probably not) she can only muster 10 minutes a day for each of them?

Here's your strong, independent single mom. Steer clear fellas. Stay single, stay happy.

daughterofthemoon420 · 2021-02-27T17:23:02+00:00

Make. Better. Choices

lurkerhasarisen · 2021-02-27T17:52:02+00:00

Isn't it convenient that everyone who's not actively assisting her at any given moment is an "abuser?" Even now, as she exists as a parasite on others, she elicits no understanding that her predicament has anything to do with her. She apportions 100% of the blame on the people she has chosen to be with and to breed with.

Let me interject and say that I do not accept her verdict on her "abusers." She admits to being bi-polar, so in her moments of lucidity she should know better than to trust her own judgement. Were they "abusive?" I don't know. In reality she probably doesn't know, either, because her judgement is flawed.

But even if she's right I still don't care. She's an adult, and we all have problems. She decided that she's old enough and responsible enough to have sex, and I'll happily hold her to the same standard to which men are held: if you're old enough to have unprotected sex you're old enough to take on the responsibilities of being a parent. Courts in 14 US states have told that to boys as young as 12 who were raped by adult women, so I fail to see why a woman nearing her 30s should get a pass... BPD or not (and I have to wonder if she's been diagnosed by a real doctor, anyway, since self-diagnosing mental illnesses is trendy right now). I also question why a woman who believes she has a presumably-serious mental illness feels qualified to home-school her children when virtual classes are available.

In a strict sense she's not asking, "Where All All The Good Men?" She is leeching off of one right now (baby-daddy #1). But she is wallowing in self-pity because she can only access his support system 70% of the time (and that doesn't include the fact that she's literally living full-time in his house - while he works to keep a roof over her head). And then she wonders why their "mutual" friends prioritize his needs over hers.

Despite being an abnormal example for this sub, it meets the purpose, which is to show what happens to women who pursue the infamous dual-mating strategy. She had a man who is obviously a good provider, but she did not make sex/pregnancy/childbirth contingent on securing his commitment. When she left she very quickly fell into the bed of a "bad boy' (which is a cliche at this point), and bore him a child... also without securing commitment. The fact that the children's ages are nearly identical leads me to suspect that the reason it didn't work out with Guy #1 (the provider) is because she was already banging Guy #2 (the "abuser"). Now she's "alone" although she has the provider-male giving her a place to live with both children... and yet she is still wallowing in despair.

shrinkshooter · 2021-02-27T18:02:30+00:00

"Had to be" a single mom
Second father was yet another "abusive" man (if you only ever read WAATGM posts you'd be excused for thinking 90% of men are "abusive")
Battling bipolar

That's all in the first paragraph. You don't need to read beyond that to know that this is gonna be an extremely skewed if not outright false assessment of reality. For those who aren't aware do. not. ever. fuck with BP people. They are nukes waiting to go off. A lot more than that actually but suffice it to say don't deal with them.

aad7990 · 2021-02-27T19:40:00+00:00

Ive come to the conclusion that when a woman says abusive it is just some one calling her out on her bullshit and not letting her get her way.

plz_say_sike · 2021-02-27T18:38:17+00:00

Surely the majority of women don’t actively pursue abusive men and have their children in an attempt to get them to change and babytrap them into commitment. No it must be a coincidence....

And when their plan fails as it usually does their favourite words change from:

Strong.Independent.Need.No.Man to I.Feel.Abused.Help

Jake-Orion · 2021-02-27T17:48:11+00:00

The pity party is strong with this one.

Now excuse men gentlemen, as I am going to go take a shower, grab myself a samich, come back to my truck and watch movies and play video games on my day off, all by my happy content self.

EDIT: well, not all happy and content; broke one of my fake tooths on a Cheeto last night. FUCK!

Rob141414 · 2021-02-27T17:25:58+00:00

Look in the mirror.. Everyone’s fault single mom..

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2021-02-28T00:15:59+00:00

you need a license to drive a car you need a license to own a firearm (at least where I live) you need a license to operate a boat you need a license to run a business

how the fuck do people not need a license to have a child...much less multiple kids with different fathers?

our society is broken, our decadence has destroyed us

Gypsy-Jesus · 2021-02-28T01:11:41+00:00

You know, it’s always the men who are bad in these stories, never the women. “I was with an abuser, i was abused mentally”. It’s always something that they need to play the victim. It’s never “well the guy couldn’t take my shit anymore and left”, yeah because that’s impossible, right?

ronoda12 · 2021-02-27T21:13:04+00:00

She is choosing to get pregnant by abusers while rejecting nice guys 🤣. People choosing trash are trash.

2021-02-27T18:42:35+00:00

She's a STROOOONG WOMAAAAAAN

randomroxks · 2021-02-27T21:00:37+00:00

So all the people in her life are abusive ?

Natriumzyanid · 2021-02-27T22:38:18+00:00

bipolar = i would say good chances that "abuser" is you!

poor children, to live with such a maniac

Euphoric-Cycle1688 · 2021-02-27T22:48:50+00:00

"I try to spend 10 minutes of individual time with my kids a day" - ok say no more lol

Selfmade_3127 · 2021-02-28T00:15:41+00:00

there are 2 possibilities here:

either these "abusers" weren't abusers, then it's her fault that she's a single mom ... despite her flaws she transferred her genes into the next generation ... which doesn't benefit society ... 5000y earlier she and those kids would have died without any provider
or the "abusers" really were abusers, so she made the decision to copy those men's genes and transfer them into the next generation ... this also doesn't benefit society

we effectively removed all natural selection pressure from women with welfare, no fault divorce and the pill ... even the most useless women can procreate with the most useless genes she can find ...

Pimp87 · 2021-02-28T02:09:10+00:00

Like I said before this post even came about, the word “abuse” has been abused by these weird species, it’s lost it’s true meaning. Abusive is labelled anything and anyone these days. You start wondering if the whole world is abusive. Nasty ill mentality

Tomjohn75 · 2021-02-28T05:06:08+00:00

Why do i get the feeling that the word 'abuser' is a euphemism for 'someone who won't put up with blowing their paycheck on bullshit'

GrannyLesbian · 2021-02-27T22:58:24+00:00

Imagine the 28 year old man who works full time and has to deal with you

Rob141414 · 2021-02-27T21:36:47+00:00

Enjoy spending massive amounts of time with your kid....

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-02-28T07:37:00+00:00

Teehee, I'm going to have 2 kids! I'm a mother! Oh wait a second...

Shit, and how do you think the kids feel/will feel.

MastermindX · 2021-02-28T08:44:58+00:00

>lives in ex's house and doesn't have a job by the looks of it

>"tries to" spend 10 minutes a day with children

>complains about ex (who's paying for everything, including the other child that is not his) not being at home for most of the day

>complains about ex's friends not babysitting for free whenever she wants (but they will still do it 30% of times), and not caring enough about "her needs".

Give this woman a medal for being a mother, the hardest job in the world.

Title	Loneliness has arrived
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	119
Comments	59
Date	February 27, 2021 5:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/ltsofp/loneliness_has_arrived/
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