Am I overreacting?

socalqueenofcheese · 2021-03-22T12:29:28+00:00

This is so backwards I hardly know where to start.

If you don't want him asking for nudes, don't sext. Also, both times you said he asked, you said no, he said ok. The only problem I see is with your desicion making. Getting drunk and sexting is not HVW behavior.

Buckley92 · 2021-03-22T14:00:33+00:00

So first off, why are you talking to a 'man' that sends dick pics?

Second off, why are you talking to a 'man' that ignores you when you say no the first time and asks again, blatantly overstepping a very clearly stated boundary?

Third off, why are you talking to a 'man' that justifies his overstepping your perfectly reasonable boundary of not wanting to send intimate pictures on the internet by then sending a VERY sleazy, manipulative, slimy, gaslighting message, designed to make you feel bad, saying, 'Well, that makes all this a,bit one sided then, doesn't it?'

Fourth off, why are you dating a 'man' who, even if we were to ignore the first three points, completely ignores the fact that the (bad) choices he made to send naked photos of his private parts online were completely his own choice? And that he made that choice, as an independent legal adult, and unless he is in fact under 18 or in an institution for the disabled, then he alone is responsible for the choices he made, that the whole internet isn't his private Onlyfans page, so he isn't automatically owed anything in return, and he alone is responsible for how bad he feels as a result.

Fifth off, why are you still wondering whether or not to block and delete?

she_is_munchkins · 2021-03-22T12:29:02+00:00

Stop talking to this guy and read the handbook

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-03-22T14:45:33+00:00

Seems like a good time to rethink the whole getting drunk thing.

throwaway23004345 · 2021-03-22T20:48:13+00:00

Baby you need some boundaries. The fact he even sent a dick pic is a automatic block. I regret not doing it in the past but I didn’t send anything either. We need to respect ourselves more

Title	Am I overreacting?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	20
Comments	13
Date	March 22, 2021 12:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askFDS
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