Drunk dialed last night. Need some support.

thanarealnobody · 2020-12-20T18:46:03+00:00

This is a hiccup but you’re gonna start over and go no contact again. Soon it will be another 20 days and you will go even longer than last time. You’ve learned from this and you won’t do it again.

Maybe try not to drink unless you are surrounded people that will dissuade you from making rash decisions. Also consider meditating on what you wanted from that communication - write out and work out all your feelings towards this person so that you’re not burying them down or associating relief with talking to him. You’re gonna figure this out.

monnaamis · 2020-12-20T18:43:08+00:00

You screwed up. Everybody screws up many times in their life. We're human. You were drunk. Just forgive yourself and maybe delete his number entirely from your life.

2020-12-20T20:41:26+00:00

The only time I’ve ever stuck 1000% to NC in the past was after embarrassing myself.

Sometimes hate, anger and sadness aren’t enough to stop you from reaching out. Sometimes, it takes shame. It’s going to suck for a while, but it will ultimately be what you need to stop holding out hope.

Do you best to keep the beating yourself up stuff to a day or two. Soon you’ll need to brush your shoulders off and use this relapse to propel you into your healing.

oscine23 · 2020-12-20T21:13:19+00:00

It's like AA. Once you break NC, you gotta start all over. Slap yourself and reset. Fk him.

Title	Drunk dialed last night. Need some support.
Author	Taciturn_Tumbler
Upvotes	25
Comments	4
Date	December 20, 2020 5:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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