It’s been a little over a month...

dollymyfolly · 2021-01-04T22:16:40+00:00

Embrace the waves. Allow yourself to be sad when they come. Eventually you’ll be a better surfer, and feel a sense of empowerment knowing you’re choosing to be sad as they come and go. The waves will keep swelling and crashing until they subside and you’ll be a better woman for it all.

I’m sorry you’re having a hard time. It’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel in the middle. Just trust in your journey and yourself and after time you’ll be where you need to be.

Mind-Objective · 2021-01-04T22:56:44+00:00

The more you put a time limit on it the harder it is to move on.

You are allowed to grieve. And remember it has only been a month. Be kind to yourself. I’m sorry that you are in pain right now.

43rdaccount · 2021-01-05T18:20:17+00:00

hey im sorry youre dealing with intense heartbreak. im at like 2-3 months now(?), for a very dumb and superficial situationship. you can message me anytime to chat if u feel like it!

eventually you will feel much better than before, after focusing as much as possible on everything else in life (we all have a ton of shit we keep putting off, now's the time to really test yourself!) so now i feel pretty happy with my progress in life and the work im putting into things, my day-to-day... motivated to make 2021 a good man-free, growth-focused year

for some reason the thought of him is still strongly present my in mind. i still dream of him most nights, cant help it :-( and i imagine you will be the same. the only thing you can do is be patient. in the meantime try to grow in other areas (exercise, meditation, work, hobbies, social life, art, intellectual interests...) sending you love and strength! <3 ~

thanarealnobody · 2021-01-05T01:41:18+00:00

The waves get weaker over time, trust me.

Title	It’s been a little over a month...
Author	Taciturn_Tumbler
Upvotes	19
Comments	9
Date	January 4, 2021 9:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askFDS
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