We met on a dating app and he asked me what I'd like to do on a date. He said he prefers going for a drive or a walk on the waterfront. I said to him that I prefer dinner dates. He suggested meeting at a pub so I met him in the parking lot, and whilst walking to the pub he grabbed my hand. I was a little taken aback because it was the first time I met this guy.

Then we were sitting and the waiter kept coming over asking us if we are ready to order and it was super awkward because I could tell he wasn't going to order an entree (even tho it was dinner time). He finally ordered MOZZA sticks for us. A little while after, he says he's not hungry yet and asked if I would like to go for a walk. I was kind of shocked, but I agreed for some reason. On this walk he was holding my hand and tried to kiss me. Then he said that he is looking for a relationship, but he wants someone that he doesn't need to support because guys in the field he works in (he is a cop) have been taken advantage of by women because they make a good salary. He didn't do any gentlemen things, like hold the car door open for me (which my exes have in the past) or help me with my coat. He also had dirt under his fingernails. Later on via texting he has suggested other dates like going for cheesecake or mini golf. Nothing expensive. AND this guy is ugly and bald!!! I'm just truly shocked at how so many men have lost the capacity to be a gentleman. I'm a lady and I would like to be treated as such, is that so wrong to expect that?