Hi, I am a long time lurker here, Male 28 and Indian( this is important to the context). I am married to my girlfriend of my collage. I know that I am the only guy in her life, and we got married 2 years. I discovered Game in 2012 in my grad school, and I was keen on calling of marriage, but I went through with it anyways(Indian values and emotional parents and stuff). Now coming to the question, she wants me to be emotionally involved with 'her' family and wants to be available to them while when it comes to my family she is mostly not willing to come to my native place. When I asked what did she thought about living with my parents before marriage, she told me she never thought about it.

Also I feel she has stopped respecting me. one instance pains me the most when I invited some of my seniors in my house for dinner, and she made fun of me in front of them.

I am obese, and a T2 diabetic, she treats me like a kid, and I hate it to my guts. I know I am in a mess, I don't know how far am I in, and what should I do to get out of it.

Is my marriage in a savable state, or has it run its course, because I don't think I would be able to sustain it with anyone who do not think about my family.

what should I do, I want to improve and I would do everything in my power to become the best version of myself. but what should I do now, to change this.

any suggestions or advice is welcome.

Thanks