Arnold or Rambo?

SBIII · 2022-11-19T16:59:34+00:00

You're not Arnold or Rambo.

You're Rainman.

BobbyPeru · 2022-11-20T04:24:28+00:00

Why is it that every approved MRP man I know kept working out hard during the pandemic, and you seem to think it’s a valid excuse for you to stop lifting?

NoRolexNoSex · 2022-11-19T17:00:51+00:00

You mean Rambo or Commando right? Or maybe Terminator, perhaps Kindergarten Cop is more your speed. I think if you dont figure it out on your own your will end up being Junior though. Its an old film in which he ends up pregnant

PutABabyInThat · 2022-11-19T18:33:10+00:00

about me being afraid?

I feel apprehension

I feel dread

Lol, you can't even say it.

Indubious1 · 2022-11-19T23:23:47+00:00

Get. Your. Shit. Together.

You can’t even get your current wife to like you. It doesn’t sound like you fixed yourself. It sounds like youre blaming your wife for you being a douche bag.

Getting in the gym isn’t for your wife. Or the ladies. It’s for you. It’s about discipline. It’s about being healthy and gaining some confidence back. All of that means jack shit if you aren’t getting your mind unfucked. The sidebar is to get your mind right. But you… you haven’t accepted that you’re the problem. You’re the asshole. And you think a new wife will change everything. It won’t. Because you haven’t fixed the core problem.

You want the cheat code? It isn’t finding some new ass. It’s accepting that you are the problem. The sooner you accept it, the sooner you can fix your life.

Get. To. Work. Sweetheart.

donedreadpirate · 2022-11-21T14:50:39+00:00

You obviously want attention. It sucks when your wife isn't that into you. Been there. Attention from other women can help you build your confidence back up which you are lacking (you are, see: your post). If you haven't been able to build that back up in 4 years, I'd suggest it's because you are living paycheck to paycheck with your confidence. Lifts are important but if you can't hold frame without being jacked, it isn't the lifts holding you back. Building muscle builds confidence but it's a layered cake. Muscle > Confidence > Getting What You Want > More Confidence > More Success Getting What You Want > Even More Confidence > Getting Sick, Losing Muscle > Still Have Confidence (because you know how to get what you want and have proven it to yourself so you understand it's temporary - see:johnney). You haven't gotten what you want in 4 years so you don't have that experience to fall back on during hard times. You don't have a savings account of confidence because you haven't been saving. Stop living paycheck to paycheck. Go get what you want. Build your confidence. Your wife isn't stopping you.

sicrm · 2022-11-19T17:20:27+00:00

are you usually this vague? you barely said anything specific but

Deciding to stay faithful for the rest of my life with a woman who I find unpleasant to be around, and isn't getting in line, is looking like a higher price.

says a lot

FormulaFriday · 2022-11-21T00:03:04+00:00

I would tell the OP that the smart move, and the honorable move , would be to go have his fun, but keep his dick in his pants so he can have a clear conscience, and not be distracted by strange, because he needs to be her oak during the Main Event that might come at any time. There will be more clarity after.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2022-11-24T07:04:14+00:00

The problem isn't whether the wifey is hot or not, she doesn't fuck you enough, she nags too much... Etc.

The problem is that you derive so much validation from your wife. All I see is you bitching about someone else when this whiny post writes bitch all over it.

Stop bitching because you sound so fucking stupid right now.

FormulaFriday · 2022-11-22T17:46:51+00:00

This entire deal is 100% my fault. She was never into me.

Imagine you are into sailing, it’s your big hobby that you like so much that you need to manage it from being a distraction at work. You meet a cool, smart chick when you are sailing, who is also so much into sailing that she even just bought her own boat, despite that fact that she has no clue about owning a boat. You go sailing together and it’s fun. You are a young professional, smart and have solid start in a good technical career. You are a few years younger than her, not a muscle monster, but you lift and are in good shape and think you have solid ground with this chick. She is attractive, but you have pulled hotter chicks and know you have some SMV. She is a professional with an even higher education, but values life outside of work over the grind up the corporate ladder. There are higher value things to do, like sailing. Mint. She has a lot to offer that makes up the whole package and you want her, in a large part because she shares your hobby. To your dismay, she is not into you, but likes to sail with you. You know something about boats and that makes her feel safe, and you're a pretty cool guy to hang with. You think that she would be insane not to want to get into a relationship with you, because of your qualifications. I was the one who was insane. The truth is, the attraction between us as lovers, romantic partners, whatever you want to call it was not there, on either side. The chemistry was missing. I think of it as the magic energy that makes you really like to be with someone, want to fuck their brains out and lay together afterward. That was missing. She knew it and deep down I knew it, but I was a pussy in denial. The awkward kissing was a major indicator that we did not have compatibility, and retard ignored that flag. I was insane and too much of a pussy to accept that the dream of a play partner and women rolled into one was not going to happen with her. Like a gamer wants a gamer girl. I tried to force the relationship to happen, and on the surface, I was successful, but it is impossible to a grow life where there is not a seed. We were set to be friends and enjoy a hobby for a while. I forced it to be something it wasn’t. 100% my fault.

rnsbrum · 2022-11-20T02:54:14+00:00

Yesterday someone said that I looked like Rambo. I was kinda pissed because I think Rambo is very small and skinny. My physique is much better than his.

The other day someone said I looked like Thor, and I found it much more pleasant because Thor's physique is much juicier.

For sure Arnold has the best physique of them all.

adeptintact · 2022-11-20T03:01:11+00:00

I made the decision to leave my ex-wife and my life has been much better for it. I remarried a better girl and had a better red pill foundation doing it. Definitely leave the cunt.

UEMcGill · 2022-11-21T14:57:43+00:00

To answer McGill, about me being afraid? You bet your ass I feel apprehension about where I am at right now. I like where I live, almost all of my life is awesome.

You need to live in that fear. Embrace it. Ruminate around on it and ask what it would be like. See what divorce would be like. Where would you live? Who would get the kids and when? Talk to a divorce lawyer and see what the outcome would be. Get papers drawn up.

Fear often comes from the unknown. But the way to get past fear is from abundance and outcome independence. The more you look at all the options, the more you can embrace abundance. The more options you give yourself the more rational and outcome independent you can become.

Title	Arnold or Rambo?
Author	FormulaFriday
Upvotes	8
Comments	40
Date	November 19, 2022 4:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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